What made you stop binge eating FOR GOOD?

*bumping* as I have the exact same problem. have been grazing the cupboards all weekend

I started binging on other things. Positive things, like running. People binge eat because of different emotional reasons. I used to do it when I was upset with somebody or something. Now I just take it out on the road.

Again, like several people have said, upping my calories has really helped. I also do Zumba a few days a week. I do it at home so that just my hubb and my boys can see my fat shaking around I binge about every 2 months or so. I try to keep somewhat of a frame of mind and dont let it get out of control. I dont like it that I still do it and I know that its unhealthy, but once every few months is better than every few days like it used to be. My Ah ha moment was a binge on my ride home from work a few years ago. I had a bag full of crap from the supermarket and after I was done I threw the grocery bag with all of the wrappers out the window. I had forgotten that I had put my change purse in there while leaving the grocery store. The change purse had ALL of our money for the week in it. That night I had to break down to my husband and inform him of my problem. That was the hardest thing for me to do, but I still think it happened for a reason. I needed for it to be exposed so I could face it head on. I still have out of control moments and fight the desire to binge all of the time. But every time I head on past the drive thru without stopping, I feel a little victory. You are not alone and you can get this under control. The very best of luck to you in your journey!!!

What it comes down to for me is that there are certain foods that I. just. cannot. have. Nothing else I have ever tried has worked.

I have a dessert every night. I plan it in. I would have off limit food but that would just cause me to want what I couldn't have. I used to eat until my stomach was so full I'd vomit... No I wasn't bulimic. I'd just eat and eat until my stomach could no longer hold it ..and out it came. I would hide my binge eating episodes by overexercising. People thought I was dedicated.But it was a symptom that I was sick. I had to get away from overexercising. If I ate too much I lived with it. I also had to stop punishing myself with exercise. And yes, I plan dessert EVERYday. Sometimes I don't always eat it because sometimes I'm just not hungry. But I plan it in anyways. I dont have any offlimit foods now. Since nothing is offlimits, I don't feel the need to binge. I also switched my training from going for the bikini look to powerlifting. (No binging for over a year!) Good luck to the OP and to us all who have struggled with this and who continue to struggle.

Binge eating and over eating have nothing to do with will power or control. It has to do with Choice.

I have spoken at length about binge eating and over eating in this thread: http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/656765-bingers

Give it a quick read :-)

I have to say I disagree with that. Choice isn't everything. Binge eating can come from a place that you don't even know about. Choice, control and willpower are not the same thing. They're all psychological and as such are all complicated but it's not as simple as just choosing not to do something when you don't know why you're choosing to do it.

Well it's your right to disagree, but I must ask, did not read the post I linked to, or my replies to it? Choice and control are what I talk about in them at length, you might have a different opinion. :-)

I'm just sayin'.

I did read it and I still disagree. Yeah, you do choose to binge but like I said, if you don't know why you're choosing to do that then it's not as simple as purely coming down to choice. Control for me, is everything. I now know why I binge and that knowledge gives me the power to control it and my cravings. Everyone's different and uses their own methods.

Its all about choice just like the alcoholic that chooses to have a drink even though the insanity of knowing what is going to happen if he does. YOU know your patterns, so the definition of insanity is doing the same things over and over expecting different results. don't pick up the trigger food and you will be ok..... pick up the trigger food and you will start all over and keep repeating the same insanity over and over. Also it is all about CHOICE and not control. Only thing you can control is your choice after that, its binge or not binge. stick to the basics and you will be ok. Learn why binging is a symptom to the real problems that lead you to do so.


If you don't know why you binge but you think its not as simple as choice. SURRENDER to your trigger food and you should be ok. In the process you probably will start picking up on your patterns of wanting to act out on food. Like i'm powerless over pizza so i don't eat it, i have the choice today to do so, but if i eat it all bets are off and i'm going to go over board.

I haven't read all the posts, but it was a gradual process for me...finding the Eat More 2 Weigh Less group on this board helped tremendously...recognizing that I had to fuel my body with enough calories throughout the week so I didn't feel deprived. Also strength training and HIIT 3x/week allows me a feeling of control and power...work towards small goals. Have you read Nia Shanks' website. She's awesome! She did a podcast interview about her past binge habits that really resonated with me. My next goal is to ditch the scale! So far it's been 2 weeks and I feel so much better for it! Also, I would highly recommend therapy!!!

I have gotten better than I was in the past. I used to binge daily, then I cut it out all together for 2 months but lately I have been up to my old tricks. I need to recommit to the cause every so often. I made the decision when I turned 40, I was going to drop about 40 pounds and get in shape. I was working out before, but my body processes couldn't keep up with what I was putting in. As I type this I just finished 2 servings of Doritos. I love to cook and I love food, but I have made major changes in what I eat. And to me, it is just will power and not saying to myself, "You just lost 35 pounds, see you can do it. Its ok to eat what you want now because you have proven you are capable of losing it."

I will go to the gym now and burn off the Doritos and a lot more as I have been averaging 1000 calorie workouts and attempt to stay "clean" for another day. My addiction is food. I love the smell, taste, texture and putting ingredients together to form wonderful things. As some of my friends who have been through AA and NA tell me like any other addiction, its one day at a time and their are good days and bad days.

Ashamed to admit this but Bethany Frankle's book 'naturally thin' did it for me. I may have just been ready to hear it but thats the point at which I stopped eating to the point I was sick.

Many of these replies are unhealthy and counterproductive, in my opinion. I've death with eating disorders (anorexia and binge eating) for several years and have been in therapy for eating disorders for several months. I have an amazing therapist (technically a nutritionist) who is helping me make a lot of progress. I think that some of these comments (having to do with denying cravings and willpower) are still coming from places of disordered food relationships, so i would recommend no one listens to them (although I say that with nothing but respect and compassion for the commenters who posted them).
I am certainly not healed yet (heck, I even binged today!) but i do believe I am gaining some important insights which I'd love to share. First of all, restriction in any form (including counting calories) and the desire to lose weight are the enemies of healing. Acceptance of your body the way it is RIGHT NOW is probably the hardest thing in the world to accomplish, but I believe it is the surest path to healing. Mindful eating seems to be the other key: eating slowly and consciously (really being aware of taste, texture, scent, etc), not multitasking while eating, listening to what foods you really truly want at that moment (not foods you feel you should have or want), and listening to (and responding to!!) your hunger/fullness level. Really attuning to what foods make you feel good (short term and long term) will help you discover a diet (not in the weight loss sense!) that is nurturing and life enhancing for you personally. Trying to breathe and create space between a strong emotion and the reaction to it (binging or restricting) will help you gain insight into your habitual pathways and help you respond thoughtfully to situations.
My eating disorders have been the hardest, most miserable and trying parts of my life. I am not through them yet, but I can see hope for healing! I really feel for all of you struggling with similar issues, and I wish you nothing but happiness and healing! good luck!

Identifying triggers and finding good coping mechanisms. I would binge eat whenever I was anxious or unhappy. I would also eat anything that was pre-prepared, such as chips, or microwave meals. Now I only keep around foods that I have to put an effort in to prepare, and also keep myself distracted if I am anxious. I have really bad anxiety, and also suffer from depression, so I have to keep myself motivated enough to find out WHY I am feeling that way and what I can do about it. If I am beating myself up and wallowing in self pity, I want to eat my feelings away, but now I try to clean or write or paint. It's definitely helped to keep myself accountable.

OP posted this in July of 2012.

Bump...I need to read this. My husband doesn't understand.

So unfortunately after losing around 15kgs (not even purposely) I have now become obsessed with calories and my intake. I used to work in the middle of the day and would only get one meal a day. Now, in an attempt to eat healthy, I have 3 meals a day bit its the constant snacking I cant stop and it's only when i'm at home. I hate being there and I think that's why I eat. I'll have 'just 5' almonds, and then it turns into 2 finger scrapes of ice cream, a handful of dried fruit, a handful of cereal, 2 pieces of chocolate, a spoon of peanut butter and a spoon of Nutella.
I need help.
I'm 45 kgs and terrified of gaining weight because its too hard to lose, even though I know I'm unhealthy and don't have the funds to workout hours on end everyday

Ugh. I'm typing this from my bed and I feel like dying. I ate over 5000 calories yesterday and it's like I can't even look in the mirror without being disgusted.

To give a little background on me: I'm not overweight and never have been, but I've developed a ridiculously unhealthy relationship with food. I will eat MASSIVE amounts of food - and generally do, a few times a month - but I always feel like crap afterward. I always tell myself that I'm going to stop binging and that I will eat normally and healthfully but a few days or maybe a week down the road I'll always come back to those cookies and cakes. Of course, I eat below my calorie limit for several days in a row in attempt to "make up" for these binges, but that's just textbook yo-yoing. I feel so dumb, and I feel like I'll never learn.


I'm sick of this. I'm sick of my obsession with food. I'm sick of counting calories every single day as I've done for the past 5 months - literally, I've not missed ONE day. I want to go back to the old me who knew when to stop eating, who exercised and enjoyed it and didn't use it as punishment. But it seems like no matter what I do, I can't break free from my mind. When I get in that binge zone, I am in the zone, and I go at it, hard.

To all former bingers, what did it in for you? Was it therapy? Was it something someone said? Was it the feeling after a particular binge? I'm so desperate to stop binging for good...I appreciate the support. Thank you.

I'm looking at your pics, how can you eat 5000 calories lol.....you must be doing something right because you look beautiful.
and even if you did, you must be doing pretty good on the rest of the days.....if you go nuts on calories every once in a while it won't hurt ya. all I can say is drink more water,eat more protein/protein shake and if you get the growls just go get some exercise to get your mind off of food. have a good day.