Why do people gain all their weight back so often?
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Perhaps one reason is because you don't ever lose fat cells once they have been created, the cells just shrink with weight loss. Now, it takes less energy for cells to expand than to conduct mitosis and create new fat cells. So, once the cells have been created, or once you gain a significant amount of weight, you will always have those same fat cells from when you were bigger. The only way that I know of to remove fat cells is by surgery, which is dangerous and can damage your body.
Further reading: http://www.webmd.com/diet/news/20080505/fat-cells-slim-up-but-dont-ship-out0 -
I kept my 100 pounds off for six years no problem. New habits firmly in place, happy as could be. Then in the past year with no changes of behavior (so I thought) I gained ten pounds. After I, as the manager of my own health, did an assessment of myself, I focused on my January 2013 work assignment change. For one year now, I have a 2 hour a day commute instead of 20 minutes. My dr. also needed to make a minor adjustment in my thyroid medication. I never thought to consider either of those as health factors that might require tweaking of calories and exercise. Now I have and I only have six of those 10 pounds to lose. From now on, I will not gain more than 5 lbs before I do a behavior and lifestyle assessment of myself. Do note that I gained those pounds without losing my focus or my good habits.0
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I lost about 60 lbs before, and within 3 years put 50 of it back on. Why? I didn't really lose the weight for me. I lost the weight because I wanted to be more attractive and i was really unhappy with myself. I also did it on a very restrictive diet, which, when I look back was pretty stupid and a massive crash. It cut out a lot of things I love, and I lost it way to quickly. 60 lbs, 5 months. Not the best. Anyways, I finally found myself in a healthy loving relationship. And I gained the weight...because I was happy. We ate, we drank, we travelled, we were merry, and it was lovely and I enjoyed every bit of it. Do I regret having to start the journey again, yes. But now, its coming from a real place of self want. And Im still happy. Unlike what I was when I started before, when I was depressed and filled with self loathing. I felt sexy and beautiful at 210 lbs and I feel sexy and beautiful at 190, and I will feel sexy and beautfiul when I get back down to 175. This time though, its different. Because its not about 'looking good for someone who i don't know'--but rather because I already look good to the person I love--and being healthier means our lives are longer together
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The same reason broke people who win the lottery sometimes blow through all their money and end up broke again. Being broke wasn't their real problem. The reason they were broke was. Same with weight usually. Being overweight is a symptom. Not the actual problem.
Spot on analogy.0 -
Because they're not vegan.
I couldn't be vegan I'm a self confessed carnivore - that said some of my best friends are herbivores.
I think the problem is there's not one diet (eating style, life style change or whatever the word for it is) that fits everyone.
Some times people will lose vast amounts of weight, despite having to fight their way through their diet (like paddling against the current).
The real problem is that too many people (who I think generally have good intentions) will be so blinded by the fact they have had success eating one style that they almost force it onto to people who haven't made there mind up yet, as opposed to just offering it up a one of many suggestions.
We're all wired differently and have differing levels of will power, get up and go etc.
Find the right eating style and it will travel with you through life.
Sometimes finding that may be a bit of trial an error.0 -
I would think it's in HOW they lost it. A lot of times people use quick fix diets to lose the weight and then can't maintain long term. Some people have health issues. Some are just unlucky. It's different depending on who you ask.
I was 180 in high school, after I got down to 130-140 and shot to 204, no idea why. Real reason why, hypothyroidism. Then I had 3 kids. I've been all over the place from 130-ish to 234.0 -
I think it's a combination of the restrictive diets that most put themselves on, high expectations (I "only" lost one pound after all that hard work? I give up), over exercising, not thinking long term and goals that aren't adequate enough to keep one motivated.
For me, the restrictions were a bit problem. I tried just about every diet program out there, as well as a few different pills. The pills never worked because they made me feel weird (I can't even take Sudafed without feeling like a spaz). The diets didn't work because I am a foodie and trying to live off salad and fruit and frozen meals just didn't cut it. I need real food that tastes awesome. So this time I eat what I like, in more normal portion sizes and/or with healthy tweaks, allow myself some indulgences, and exercise to make up the difference. It's taking longer but I'm happy and still sticking with it 4 years in!0 -
easy.....................prob hit a plateau............stop working out and stopped tracking calories..................then said f it!:laugh:0
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From what I've been able to see, there are a few different reasons that people gain the weight back fairly quickly. The biggest reason that comes to mind and the one I've seen a lot of, is that the person was following a restrictive diet without paying much attention to calories or macronutrients, they essentially ended up starving themselves until they lost the weight they wanted, then didn't have a clue as to how to proceed after that. Since they didn't learn much about portion sizes, eating certain foods in moderation, etc. on a self-imposed, heavily-restricted diet, they soon return to their old eating habits, which led to them needing to lose weight in the first place. Rinse and repeat, some people go through that cycle for years and years without getting anywhere.
THIS=ME!! Not this time though!! I am really trying to learn how to eat properly.0 -
I can tell you for me, it was emotional eating. I am a military wife, and while on shore duty orders (no deployments at all for three years), I worked really hard and lost a lot of weight, getting to my healthy BMI, Body fat %, and waist to height ratio for the first time since my early 20's. I lived 30 miles away from restaurants, and I had trainers and classes at the gym that I LOVED and were only a three minute drive from my house on base. I swore I would never go back, I would never gain the weight back. Then we moved. My husband deployed right away. I didn't have a support system. The gyms here didn't offer the classes I loved from my old duty station, and many were a 20+ minute drive. Fast food everywhere. I reverted back to my old habits of emotional eating on sea duty, because that is how I always use to cope with sea duty life- which is HARD. So over two years of sea duty, I have gained 60 pounds. Through most of it, I literally didn't care because I just wanted to numb myself. Or I would think about how hard it was going to be to start all over again, and i would get depressed and just eat more. I was in denial, really, about how bad I felt physically, until all of a sudden I can't breathe anymore when I bed over to tie my shoes, etc. Plus my husband will have to leave next year again, and I know if I don't fix it now, then I will have an even harder time next year. I got healthy when hubby was home all of the time. Now I need to learn to do it while he is gone. For those of us who are emotional eaters/food addicts, if you don't fix the reasons why you turn to food, then the weight will just come back when life gets really emotionally hard.0
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For the most part, people talk a good talk about "lifestyle change", but fail to actually implement such a change. They hit their goal weight and for them, they've crossed some finish line and they're done...what they don't realize is that they've actually just reached the starting line; hitting that goal weight is just the beginning but that's a concept that people seem to have a really hard time grasping.
This is so me. I have been down this road before and then I relaxed. I used all the right WORDS, i.e. "I am not dieting, I am making a lifestyle change"......the problem was I did not back up my words with action after I hit my goals. I have been using this site now for 105 days. I am not quite to goal weight yet, i.e "the starting line", but I am starting to look ahead to what do I need to do different this time to avoid the pitfalls and mistakes I made in the past. I am looking forward to making it last this time and putting the action behind my words.
Thank you for a great question OP and the answers that have followed from everyone. This was something I needed to read and think about.0 -
It's usually from complacency. Losing weight and keeping it off has to CONSISTENTLY be done. It's okay to have a bad day, but too many of them in a row adds up to weight gain and many people go into the thought of "well what's the damn point of working so hard for months, when it comes back in a week or two?" then let go.I commonly hear that the vast majority of people who lose weight end up gaining it all back again. Why is that? No matter how gently you lose, there is some amount of sacrifice involved, often over a very long period of time. Why throw all that away?
It seems logical that I can't go back to the eating habits that got me fat in the first place. Also, that my new smaller self will need fewer calories to maintain than my old larger self. I assume those things are self evident to other dieters, so it must be something else. Is it harder to maintain than it is to lose weight?
I'm not at my goal weight yet, but I want to do this right and not fall into the trap that so many seem to stumble into. I don't consider myself smarter than the average person, so I'm concerned I'll make the same mistakes the average dieter makes.
I hoped that those of you successfully maintaining have some insight into the problem and know the pitfalls that you need to avoid.
Trust when I say it doesn't get easier with age either. I either have to workout harder or eat less. Every year now. But I'll be damned if everything I've done so far gets erased because of complacency.
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I know a lot of people who are either "on" a diet or "off". When they are "off" they eat whatever they want, often ending up in a calorie surplus. Sadly my sister is one of these people.0
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I think people are deprived of nutrients a lot of the time and after restricting calories for a long time, if not eating a balanced diet, the body eventually demands those nutrients, and it is experienced as hunger. If you dont eat the right foods, the hunger doesnt go away no matter how many calories you eat and .... weight gain happens.
Not to mention not being educated about nutrition, and a sedentary lifestyle, plus poor habits.0 -
I think it's because people 'go on diets'. Once they hit their goal weight, they slowly (or immediately) return to their old ways and habits.
You can't make a temporary change and expect permanent results.0 -
I've been a serial dieter for 30 years and I've always gained back the weight. The number one reason that has happened was because the type of diets I've done over the years involved restricting my eating in a very unnatural way, a way that I couldn't possibly maintain moving forward. Example, Atkins diet. I've done that diet several times over the years and it always worked but when you start adding carbs back into your diet you ultimately gain weight. Slim fast, herbal magic, Susan summers, etc etc. Ultimately you stop following the plan and you gain back the weight.
So here's what I've done differently. I'm not following a plan, I haven't eliminated anything from my diet, I eat what I want in moderation. I gain weight SO easily and I know I will need to measure, weigh and log my food for life. Also, I'll have to continue to weigh myself every week.0 -
Excellent posts! For me, about a year ago, I started a 12-week "Biggest Loser" competition at the base gym where I work. The competition was a motivation for me. Then, about two months after that, I had my 30-year class reunion to attend. After those events, I thought maybe I could enjoy some of the foods I avoided for awhile. Well, those temporary treats turned into bad habits and eventually, all the weight was back. While there are great concepts out there: "eat to live, not live to eat" and "lifestyle change", none of it does any good until we can get our minds to think that way. So I am back into it now, but I don't know if this stubborn noggin of mine will accept this as a lifestyle change.0
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What a great question and great posts! I love the comment about the finish line and reaching your "goal" weight.. It is rather counterintuitive to keep running after the finish line or kicking past the goal, isn't it? Maybe we just need to switch up our thinking and have our goal be to maintain a healthy lifestyle for the rest of our lives. Weight loss is just one of the benefits of that new life.0
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I've lost and gained many times. In fact, losing and gaining has pretty much been my lifestyle. I am, in fact, right now trying to lose 10 lbs I gained back after joining MFP. :grumble:
I think for me, part of it is that losing weight is fun. Sacrifice aside, it's fun to see the scale go down, to fit into smaller clothes, to have people compliment you on the weight loss. During maintenance, everything just stays the same and people rarely say "Great job on not gaining weight."
I think this time I might shoot for a 20 lbs loss just so I can gain 10 back and still be at my original goal. :laugh:0 -
I've been a serial dieter for 30 years and I've always gained back the weight. The number one reason that has happened was because the type of diets I've done over the years involved restricting my eating in a very unnatural way, a way that I couldn't possibly maintain moving forward. Example, Atkins diet. I've done that diet several times over the years and it always worked but when you start adding carbs back into your diet you ultimately gain weight. Slim fast, herbal magic, Susan summers, etc etc. Ultimately you stop following the plan and you gain back the weight.
So here's what I've done differently. I'm not following a plan, I haven't eliminated anything from my diet, I eat what I want in moderation. I gain weight SO easily and I know I will need to measure, weigh and log my food for life. Also, I'll have to continue to weigh myself every week.
Absolutely. I also found when I started not eating as a great, I avoided the scale like it was the plague. this time, I need to make myself accountable, whilst not being obsessive.0 -
Because the vast majority of people simply starve themselves to get down to their goal weight, and no human can maintain a starvation diet in the presence of so much food. It's inevitable.0
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I can only speak for myself but I lost gained and lost many times. The first time I lost by tracking calories and exercise MFP, then I quit tracking after being diagnosed with a mental illness and feeling sorry for myself, at the same time my mom had a deadly liver disease and I had a nervous breakdown so food became my best friend and gained back the 30 I had lost plus 30 more. Then things calmed down and I became really active again and lost 30 on my own with just exercise until I had an accident and broke my neck, then I gained 36 lbs back to get to my highest weight ever. I also suffered a traumatic brain injury during my riding accident and now have chronic migraine syndrome and after a lot of research learned about the benefits of exercise and eating a balanced nutrition plan (I don't diet, and I don't eat any specific foods, just avoid trigger foods). So I got back on MFP and started tracking again and started exercising in addition to riding and getting a job at the barn where I board my horse. I tried to 1200 calorie thing until my hair fell out so now I eat real food and different amounts depending on my burns since I work a manual labor job, lift weights and run 3 seasons out of the year. Restriction doesn't work for me, avoiding migraine trigger does, being active is a lifestyle I absolutely love since I was always athletic and it helps me mentally.
I know switching to maintenance will be a challenge as far as knowing how much to eat but I will cross that bridge when I get to it. But I also know I can never stop tracking calories or exercise, this is my life now. Even when I have setbacks tracking my food is a must, that is my key to success.0 -
It depends on the person. For example,at one point I had lost 70lbs
then I had two more babies,my hypothyroid got really bad and I was exhausted and not paying attention really to calories and stuff. I had no issue maintaining the loss pre babies. Now my youngest is two and I don't have to worry about eating enough to bf or eat fast before the baby.wakes up anymore. So life in general is easier. Other people might now know how to eat to maintain or they go back to old habits or maybe something happens in their life and they get depressed and overeat0 -
This is so true.....and i speak from experience. This time i plan on doing just this. If we focus on what he said we can keep it off.0
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I hit my goal weight last year in March, and maintained easily for the first few months. I was still hitting the gym just as much though being a little less careful with my eating. For some reason in November I had a bad week which involved too much drinking and eating, I gained a few lbs which wasnt the end of the world though I let myself go then as it was December and I was away a lot for the festivities. Once January came I realised that I had gained 14lbs over those 5/6 weeks. Old habits can come back so quickly if you allow yourself to fall back into them. I should have been more careful during the week. But glad that it wasnt only 14lbs gain after losing 100lbs I will get back to where I was very soon 0
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The same reason broke people who win the lottery sometimes blow through all their money and end up broke again. Being broke wasn't their real problem. The reason they were broke was. Same with weight usually. Being overweight is a symptom. Not the actual problem.
^ This. For me, I gained 30 lbs in 6-12 months due to severe depression. I didn't even notice I gained the weight until I couldn't button my pants. I stepped on a scale and lo and behold, I was the heaviest I had ever been. This actually happened following being the fittest I had ever been (I spent the prior summer hiking in the Rockies 8-10 hrs/day six days a week). When you're that depressed, eating properly and exercise aren't even on your radar.0 -
It has nothing to do with "restrictions" in my opinion and rather has to do with a lack of focus on the long-term. People hit their goal and then rest on their laurels. They stop doing what they did to lose weight and instead fall back into their old habits. If you previously gained weight with those old habits, odds are you will gain weight again when you revert to your old ways. It's really as simple as that. It doesn't matter whether you ate pop tarts while losing weight or whether you ate whole foods while losing weight; it comes down to what you do at maintenance.
I agree with this, except that restrictions do play a part in some cases. They think if they give up sugar or something, they will lose weight, and then once they get there, they start eating sugar again. What people fail to realize is that there is no before and after. It's a before and during. Figure out how to eat for the rest of your life, and you can keep the weight off.
Agreed but I think we see the problem here differently. If you cut out most sugar while losing weight and then reintroduce it into your diet, that in and of itself doesn't mean you will gain weight again. If you continue tracking calories while reintroducing sugar into your diet, I see no reason you should expect any weight gain. You're simply readjusting your macros. On the other hand, if you start eating lots of sugar again AND you stop paying attention to the amount of energy you're consuming each day, then yes that's a recipe for undoing all the progress you've made. But sugar or a lack thereof while losing isn't the problem - complacency is.
I completely agree, but I was commenting more along the lines of those that don't count calories (and using cutting sugar as an example). Of course they lose weight when cutting out carbs or whatever, because they are indirectly cutting the number of calories they are eating. But yes, the bottom line is that when they reach their goal weight, they view it as a finish line and think they have freedom to eat whatever they want and however much they want.0 -
It's not just about losing weight; it's about losing the lifestyle and mindset that got you there. - Dr. Steve Maraboli <--- this pretty much sums it up. If all you did was lose weight then why would you expect it to not come back.0
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I think it's because they see themselves as 'done' once they have lost the weight. But that is the furthest from the truth. Maintaining is the hardest part of losing weight, and requires the most effort IMO.0
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I think much of it has to do with personality and behavior (for many). There have been stories on people who have the bypass surgery who become alchoholics or become addicted to drugs/medication. They never fixed (or changed) the wiring that got them fat in the first place. Look at that kid who Chris Powel trained. I think he was on TLC the 500 pound virgin or something. Powell helped him lose all of the weight. He looked amazing, had a new girlfriend, was certified to become a PT, was on several shows. Last december, I see a youtube video of him back at the original weight! It is freaken scary *kitten*.
That is why I am trying meditation and even might a form of affirmations. What is worst than being overweight? Losing weight and gaining it back. Super sucks.0
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