Are calorie goals accurate, or am I "doin' it wrong"?

I don't know what "Java Monster - Mean Bean" is but it seems like a whole load of empty carbs to start the day. The eggs are a better idea.

I'm extrapolating from the ticker that you're over 200 lbs looking to lose weight. You could use the breast feeding as your deficit and just eat for maintenance - let's say 1800 calories for starters. If you don't lose weight after 2 weeks you may need to revise it.

Have you had your blood sugar checked, you might have reactive hypoglycaemia or something. Best to minimise the blood sugar swings by avoiding high carbs without fats and proteins. If you don't eat enough salt / potassium you can have low blood pressure too.

Any calorie use estimates are at best +/- 10%, but to be honest your actual diet is a bigger issue than the numbers.

Hi,

Firstly don't be too hard on yourself! :-)

I have a 2 kids who are 5 years and 16 months so I know what your going through. The exclusive breastfeeding, sleepless nights, worrying about your baby and generally just looking after another person 24/7 is very stressful and knackers you out. I have literally only in the last month or 2 got back into healthy eating and regular exercise so I take my hat off to you as your little one is 3 months.

I would say you need to eat a lot more whole foods and fresh fruit and veg, also watch your caffeine intake. When you say you started getting the shakes it's probably the come down from your sugar high. I know how hard it is but try to reach for a piece of fruit or veg, it will give you the chance to make some proper food and in turn regulate your blood sugars better.

Make sure your drinking a lot of water for yourself and to make your milk.

Hope this helps a bit, if only for a bit of moral support that they are so many women in the same boat!

Do you mind sharing your current weight and height?

From looking at your diary, you are eating far too much un-natural sugar. That teamed with the amount of carbs you are eating will result in the jittery feeling you are describing.

Try to opt for more high protein foods, lean meat & natural greek yogurt for example. These will keep you fuller for longer.

You are at the start of a long road and you have realised that you want to lose weight and get healthier You have to start making better choices of food (and certainly cut out the sugary drinks and snacks!!)

There is plenty of posts on here with healthy alternatives, keep at it and you will see results!!

Hi. I get like that - jittery and anxious - when I have too much caffeine. Those Java monster drinks are loaded with caffeine 188mg in one can. Maybe that could be it?

First off, I'm sending a big virtual hug your way. You are brave for posting and sharing!

As a recovering emotional eater, I know all too well what you are talking about. For me, daily exercise really helps. Can you take your baby for a walk a few times a day just to get out and moving?

Also, if you are having issues with anxiety you should cut out all caffeine products. Certainly you should STOP drinking energy drinks! They will contribute to feelings of anxiousness. Try to find one special drink you can enjoy once a day that isn't too high in calories and has no caffeine. I drink all different types of herbal tea (love Berry Zinger and Pomegranate Pizzazz), and switched my one decaf coffee from cream and sugar to milk and 2 sugars. Cr

There is nothing wrong with not wanting to feel stressed, bored, lonely, unfulfilled, etc. That's pretty normal to want to avoid those negative emotions. So first off, realize that what you are attempting to do with food has a basis in wanting to feel better. That is good and nothing to be ashamed about. The thing that is important to realize is that food actually doesn't meet your emotional needs. It masks them. It won't do what you want it to do long term.

Many emotional eaters assume that if they don't overeat that they will be anxious, sad, feel empty, bored, etc. Thinking about giving up the security of overeating can feel scary but that is because people assume food is the only thing that can alleviate those feelings but that's just not true. Exercise, reading a great book, taking a bath, talking with friends, playing with your baby, taking up a hobby, meditating, etc. can all alleviate bad feelings BETTER than food.

You want to feel less anxious, stressed, sad, bored, etc. and you want to get to a healthy weight. Those two goals are not opposed but actually complimentary. Modeling healthy eating and more effective coping skills for your child is a gift you can start to work on now. You have taken the first step by coming here. Bravo for you! You may stumble along the way but nobody does this perfectly. This is a journey to learn about what works for you, so give yourself time to make mistakes and correct them. And you don't ever need to starve yourself while doing it.

You could try upping your calories by 100 a day and see if that helps? Breastfeeding, ive heard, can burn up to 800 cals a day depending on how much milk your baby is taking and I guess how fatty it is.

I waited until my daughter was a year old to start cutting calories to ensure dieting didnt affect her milk supply. I was a bit paranoid about drying up. She is 20 months now but I still give myself an extra 100 cals a day to make up for what she is taking.

Dont forget growth spurts are common around this age and they will need to feed more to help bump your supply up. If you are a calorie deficit it may be harder for you to make more milk to meet demand. Be careful x

Try tea or water with lemon slices instead of the Mountain Dew. Also, looking at your snack choices, the Pop Tarts are full of sugar, empty calories and processed stuff that is not that great for you. Try some fruit - strawberries, grapes and oranges for example. If you are really craving some starch try some whole wheat toast or a whole wheat toaster waffle with a little peanut butter on it. You'l find it more filling than the Pop Tarts. The rest of your food choices looked pretty decent. If you take away the calories just from the Pop Tarts and Mountain Dew you would save 900 calories! You might want to try a month of Weight Watchers. They are excellent at helping educate you about healthy food choices. Counting calories is not enough if you aren't sure what you are supposed to be eating. I lost 40 lbs with them in the past, but they are not available in my current location. They were super helpful in teaching me about making better food choices. It makes using MFP much easier in my opinion. You could also ask your doc if there are any nutrition classes available for nursing mothers. You may be able to find some free classes that way (or at least covered by insurance). Best of luck to you!

I know that jittery, sicky hunger feeling, and for me, it was always the result of too many sugars and carbs.

When I started this diet a month ago there was a short time when I had to tough it through a little of that but you will find that once you cut out the energy drinks and processed junk, and replace it with real food, that your hunger pangs will be far more manageable. What you are feeling now is blood sugar related and you aren't fixing it with the food and beverages you are putting in your body. Those energy drinks are honestly just horrible for your body.

So the short answer is, cut out all that junk, replace it with real, unprocessed food. Your body will thank you and when you have your blood sugar levels even, hungry will just be hungry, not the jittery-sicklys.

Good luck and much love for trying to do this while breastfeeding, I know every parent (man or woman) knows what a struggle that is.

I assumed my diet isn't good, but I'm gradually incorporating better foods as I weed out bad ones. I've noticed too just how much I eat for comfort... several times a day I stop myself from reaching for a snack just because I'm bored/stressed/upset/whatever. I'm honestly ashamed of much of what goes in my food diary, but I make it a point to log EVERYTHING no matter how embarrassing... if not then what's the point, right?

I just can't seem to find a healthy substitute for junk food that keeps my panicky-ness at bay. Healthier options like oatmeal or a boiled egg only buy me an hour at best. I feel like an addict or something and it's embarrassing...

As for my blood sugar, they did routine tests for that a few months ago while I was just recently pregnant and my levels were ok.

And the Java Monster is a coffee-flavored energy drink.

You're on the right lines! You're logging it all! You're battling habits and cravings - it's only been two weeks, so don' t despair! This isn't easy but it is possible!

Maybe, try just making smaller changes - aim for having half the snacks you used to, then aim to eliminate certain ones - you've spent your life developing these eating habits, it's going to take time and effort to turn them around, but you can do it! But maybe going cold turkey is too much, trying to completely restructure your eating habits overnight is a big ask! And then when you can't manage the whole day, it feels like a failure. It's not! It's effort! Plenty of people on here have inched their way out of it, one bar of chocolate at a time!