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How long on your FL?

ninerbuff
ninerbuff Posts: 49,131 Member
edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat
How long do you keep an inactive friend on your list? For me, if there's 30 days of inactivity, I delete them. And it takes me quite some time to go through my FL.

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Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

Replies

  • trogalicious
    trogalicious Posts: 4,584 Member
    I'll prune after 3 months, normally.
  • serindipte
    serindipte Posts: 1,557 Member
    I haven't culled any yet but don't have many, either. As my list starts growing, I will likely go with the 30 days and delete.
  • FitCowgirl8
    FitCowgirl8 Posts: 175 Member
    I usually delete someone if they have been inactive for 2-3 months.
  • tomomatic
    tomomatic Posts: 1,794 Member
    I keep hoping that a few people will come back. I think the longest inactive person I have is 10 months.
  • askeates
    askeates Posts: 1,490 Member
    I just recently started removing people.... for me it's 3 months. If are someone I know personally, that can be different.
  • SunofaBeach14
    SunofaBeach14 Posts: 4,899 Member
    I don't have any set rules. It depends on the individual and my mood.
  • beernpizza2
    beernpizza2 Posts: 553 Member
    I don't usually delete. I'm the one that gets deleted.
  • Babsie777
    Babsie777 Posts: 203
    The ones I know personally, I'll keep no matter what.. However, I do not have many inactive friends so I haven't run in to this problem yet and I hope I don't. I have a good bunch on my FL so far... The only ones that are inactive are those I know personally and they aren't very many.
  • Otterluv
    Otterluv Posts: 9,083 Member
    It depends. Some people I will keep on there indefinitely even if they are inactive. But there are others that I won't keep for more than a month of inactivity.
  • krissenior
    krissenior Posts: 68 Member
    14 Days
  • Mamoonie
    Mamoonie Posts: 328
    I keep the one I personally know... all the others: 1 year. I'm a nice girl :-)
  • murphey21
    murphey21 Posts: 126 Member
    I usually keep 30 days unless I know them personally then I usually don't delete.
  • Jess1989ica
    Jess1989ica Posts: 2,391 Member
    2 weeks and their gone
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    Depends how well I "know" them. I have little patience I prune my list regularly
  • pie_eyes
    pie_eyes Posts: 12,964 Member
    I've been debating doing some cleaning but not seriously.
  • MJFSH
    MJFSH Posts: 7,252 Member
    Mine don't even have to be inactive. i like and comment of my friends posts, if they don't return the favor, they're gone!
  • JeffreyMGiron
    JeffreyMGiron Posts: 3,582 Member
    I just keep everyone who actually talks, if i dont hear anything from you in 2 weeks or so, i might just delete, but it doesn't mean you cant message me
  • besaro
    besaro Posts: 1,858 Member
    edited January 2016
    i have about 300. i have never culled my list. 1) their absence, inactivity, never affects my progress, i couldn't care less if they give me a thumbs up because i completed a diary entry or logged in for x amount of days 2) so many come back and are happy to see a happy/familiar face when they do return 3) i absolutely love seeing those members return because it reminds me that no matter how long or how far i go off course, i can always return.

    (i have been deleted though, lol/shrug)

  • jbuzzed
    jbuzzed Posts: 10,172 Member
    If I never interact with someone, a few days of inactivity and I delete. If I have interacted I keep them until it bothers me seeing them not logging in.
  • Cheekies_
    Cheekies_ Posts: 319 Member
    besaro wrote: »
    i have about 300. i have never culled my list. 1) their absence, inactivity, never affects my progress, i couldn't care less if they give me a thumbs up because i completed a diary entry or logged in for x amount of days 2) so many come back and are happy to see a happy/familiar face when they do return 3) i absolutely love seeing those members return because it reminds me that no matter how long or how far i go off course, i can always return.

    (i have been deleted though, lol/shrug)

    Love this! I've been that returning member and was happy to see the friendly faces that didn't delete me.
  • _whatsherface
    _whatsherface Posts: 1,235 Member
    I actually delete after 7-10 days of inactivity unless specified other wise. But I just took my FL from 240 to 108 the other day. Deleted people who I don't talk to or who don't talk to me, or never support me. It's not a one way street.
  • jrevis001
    jrevis001 Posts: 505 Member
    30 days unless they showed great progress before then I'll wait two.
  • FitGirl0123
    FitGirl0123 Posts: 1,273 Member
    14 days on average. Someone I really like I keep regardless and someone whom never interacts with, maybe less.
  • michael1976_ca
    michael1976_ca Posts: 3,488 Member
    Three month usually
  • Erindipitous
    Erindipitous Posts: 1,234 Member
    besaro wrote: »
    i have about 300. i have never culled my list. 1) their absence, inactivity, never affects my progress, i couldn't care less if they give me a thumbs up because i completed a diary entry or logged in for x amount of days 2) so many come back and are happy to see a happy/familiar face when they do return 3) i absolutely love seeing those members return because it reminds me that no matter how long or how far i go off course, i can always return.

    (i have been deleted though, lol/shrug)

    This.
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