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salembambi
salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
edited February 16 in Chit-Chat
when you have a weird crush on someone who is basically a celibate monk?

seriously mfp I bet you know the answer

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  • ElliottTN
    ElliottTN Posts: 1,614 Member
    Tickle his balls when he's asleep.
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    Tickle his balls when he's asleep.


    I do my very best to only touch people if I clearly have their consent ---as everyone should be doing btw
  • I would love to just tickle Elliott's abs....just sayin'......;)


    .....if I had his consent.....;)
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  • ElliottTN
    ElliottTN Posts: 1,614 Member
    I would love to just tickle Elliott's abs....just sayin'......;)


    .....if I had his consent.....;)

    Consent granted. They can use some attention today.
  • MinnieInMaine
    MinnieInMaine Posts: 6,400 Member
    Same thing I would do if he was married or gay or otherwise unavailable...accept it, respect it and move on.
  • I think it's something like, people always want what they can't have. That might be the reason for the weird crush Lol. Doesn't mean you can't enjoy them as a person still. They might be quite amazing because I'm sure they are mature/dedicated and intelligent. Qualities that a lot of people now days don't seem to have. Not saying some don't. Just society as a majority.
  • impyimpyaj
    impyimpyaj Posts: 1,073 Member
    Is he an actual monk? Because if so, he's pretty much off-limits forever.

    But if you're using that word for emphasis, why is he celibate? There are all kinds of reasons for celibacy that don't necessarily preclude having a relationship. Unless you basically only want him for sex and are not interested in a relationship, in which case, yeah, he's off-limits.
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    Is he an actual monk? Because if so, he's pretty much off-limits forever.

    But if you're using that word for emphasis, why is he celibate? There are all kinds of reasons for celibacy that don't necessarily preclude having a relationship. Unless you basically only want him for sex and are not interested in a relationship, in which case, yeah, he's off-limits.

    no not an actual monk...more like a broody musician with slight hermit tendency who has been celibate for a while

    i dont know I should probably just let the crush go and continue with the connection we have as is
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Turn into a nun?
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  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    when you have a weird crush on someone who is basically a celibate monk?

    seriously mfp I bet you know the answer

    Make out with a girl. A hot one.

    I do not use my bisexuality as a way to impress men..its not something to be sexualized :grumble:
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  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member
    when you have a weird crush on someone who is basically a celibate monk?

    seriously mfp I bet you know the answer

    Make out with a girl. A hot one.

    I do not use my bisexuality as a way to impress men..its not something to be sexualized :grumble:

    Too late. I'm already impressed and sexualized.

    We should not sexualize sexuality? Is there anything left that we *can* sexualize that we'd actually want to?

    All that's left is Brainy Burro, I think. :ohwell:
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    when you have a weird crush on someone who is basically a celibate monk?

    seriously mfp I bet you know the answer

    Make out with a girl. A hot one.

    I do not use my bisexuality as a way to impress men..its not something to be sexualized :grumble:

    Too late. I'm already impressed and sexualized.

    We should not sexualize sexuality? Is there anything left that we *can* sexualize that we'd actually want to?

    All that's left is Brainy Burro, I think. :ohwell:

    female bisexuality is highly sexualized by society making bisexuality to look like nothing more than "potential threeways/slut will do anything wooo " (or something that apparently does not exist at all -which is extremely wrong) instead of focusing on the issues that actually matter- like creating more positive visibility for all bisexuals including men , women & transgendered people within both the LGBTQA community & the heterosexual community
  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    when you have a weird crush on someone who is basically a celibate monk?

    seriously mfp I bet you know the answer

    Make out with a girl. A hot one.

    I do not use my bisexuality as a way to impress men..its not something to be sexualized :grumble:

    Too late. I'm already impressed and sexualized.

    I make out with girls to impress my man sometimes..... he likey.
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  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    Shave? :laugh:
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member


    I make out with girls to impress my man sometimes..... he likey.
    I'm bi, but I don't like making out with girls .-.
    -must be strange bi-
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member

    female bisexuality is highly sexualized by society making bisexuality to look like nothing more than "potential threeways/slut will do anything wooo " (or something that apparently does not exist at all -which is extremely wrong) instead of focusing on the issues that actually matter- like creating more positive visibility for all bisexuals including men , women & transgendered people within both the LGBTQA community & the heterosexual community

    Or you could just kiss a girl. A hot one.

    you are trolling and im over it

    and yes I am highly capable of making out with extremely hot women just as an fyi
  • SuperSexyDork
    SuperSexyDork Posts: 1,669 Member

    female bisexuality is highly sexualized by society making bisexuality to look like nothing more than "potential threeways/slut will do anything wooo " (or something that apparently does not exist at all -which is extremely wrong) instead of focusing on the issues that actually matter- like creating more positive visibility for all bisexuals including men , women & transgendered people within both the LGBTQA community & the heterosexual community

    Or you could just kiss a girl. A hot one.

    you are trolling and im over it

    and yes I am highly capable of making out with extremely hot women just as an fyi

    You can't make a claim like that without people wanting you to prove it. Just an FYI.
  • MiloBloom83
    MiloBloom83 Posts: 2,724 Member


    I make out with girls to impress my man sometimes..... he likey.
    I'm bi, but I don't like making out with girls .-.
    -must be strange bi-

    Now I'm confused...


    ETA spelling
  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member

    female bisexuality is highly sexualized by society making bisexuality to look like nothing more than "potential threeways/slut will do anything wooo " (or something that apparently does not exist at all -which is extremely wrong) instead of focusing on the issues that actually matter- like creating more positive visibility for all bisexuals including men , women & transgendered people within both the LGBTQA community & the heterosexual community

    Or you could just kiss a girl. A hot one.

    you are trolling and im over it

    and yes I am highly capable of making out with extremely hot women just as an fyi

    Your angry/indignation/thesis is trumping his trolling, you'll win by scorecard if this keeps up. :laugh:
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  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member

    female bisexuality is highly sexualized by society making bisexuality to look like nothing more than "potential threeways/slut will do anything wooo " (or something that apparently does not exist at all -which is extremely wrong) instead of focusing on the issues that actually matter- like creating more positive visibility for all bisexuals including men , women & transgendered people within both the LGBTQA community & the heterosexual community

    Or you could just kiss a girl. A hot one.

    you are trolling and im over it

    and yes I am highly capable of making out with extremely hot women just as an fyi

    Your angry/indignation/thesis is trumping his trolling, you'll win by scorecard if this keeps up. :laugh:

    No way. I've got girls discussing making out with other girls. That's a win-win.

    That happens every single thread here. :ohwell:
  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    when you have a weird crush on someone who is basically a celibate monk?

    seriously mfp I bet you know the answer

    Make out with a girl. A hot one.

    I do not use my bisexuality as a way to impress men..its not something to be sexualized :grumble:

    Too late. I'm already impressed and sexualized.

    We should not sexualize sexuality? Is there anything left that we *can* sexualize that we'd actually want to?

    All that's left is Brainy Burro, I think. :ohwell:

    female bisexuality is highly sexualized by society making bisexuality to look like nothing more than "potential threeways/slut will do anything wooo " (or something that apparently does not exist at all -which is extremely wrong) instead of focusing on the issues that actually matter- like creating more positive visibility for all bisexuals including men , women & transgendered people within both the LGBTQA community & the heterosexual community

    Please explain the political correctness of your use of the term 'slut' while describing a girl who would be willing to participate in a sexual experience with two other consenting adults, and then later you are standing up vigilantly for the LGBTA community. Calling her a slut while defending them makes you a hypocrite.
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  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    TIL sexuality should not be sexualized
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    when you have a weird crush on someone who is basically a celibate monk?

    seriously mfp I bet you know the answer

    Make out with a girl. A hot one.

    I do not use my bisexuality as a way to impress men..its not something to be sexualized :grumble:

    Too late. I'm already impressed and sexualized.

    We should not sexualize sexuality? Is there anything left that we *can* sexualize that we'd actually want to?

    All that's left is Brainy Burro, I think. :ohwell:

    female bisexuality is highly sexualized by society making bisexuality to look like nothing more than "potential threeways/slut will do anything wooo " (or something that apparently does not exist at all -which is extremely wrong) instead of focusing on the issues that actually matter- like creating more positive visibility for all bisexuals including men , women & transgendered people within both the LGBTQA community & the heterosexual community

    Please explain the political correctness of your use of the term 'slut' while describing a girl who would be willing to participate in a sexual experience with two other consenting adults, and then later you are standing up vigilantly for the LGBTA community. Calling her a slut while defending them makes you a hypocrite.

    nothing wrong with being a slut imo however in society it is indeed seen as something to shame
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