30 Day No Junk, No Soda, No Fast Food?

I am sorry, did I miss something? I thought this was to support people, not show up on a thread for something I don't intend to do just to be catty. Anyway OP, I am in.

Edited to add, some people have no sense of humour. My hubby is a jerk that way too.

Yup you missed quite a bit by not being in the forums a lot.

giving up food because it's "bad" is silly...there is no bad food..food does not make you fat the amount you eat makes you fat...

You can eat what you want in moderation and lose weight and yes calling your husband a jerk for making your life easy by getting dinner on the way home was mean.

I liken it to self imposed punishedment for gaining weight...

Yeah, I am ok missing that, haha. Why can't we let people do what works best for them? Why does it have to always be a my way or the highway approach? If moderation works for you, then awesome! I mean it, that is wonderful. Everybody works different and if people find that detoxing from stuff that makes them feel bad is what they need to do then why piss on their parade? If someone came on here wanting to do something truly dangerous (i.e. anorexia, starvation, etc) then I get jumping on them in a supportive manner to encourage them to seek a different path, but I fail to see how wanting to eat fresh food and non "junk" is a bad or unhealthy thing.

In any case, I am out. Trolls can go back to your trolling without the nice people getting in your way, lol

Beannacht, agus póg mo thóin!

ironic post is ironic

and I don't think letting people know they don't have to give up foods they like is "pissing on" anyones parade it's letting them know they can have treats still if they really want....

What I don't understand is why when advice like that is given to be helpful those that give it are accused of having no manners, called mean or bullies and basically told to shut their cake hole...

So I'm not going to get into this fight, but I will say this in a voice of being neutral:

1) the OP was frustrated and thought it might help her to perhaps reset her body (or not over do it) by cutting out fast food/junk etc. for 30 days... so she was NOT asking an opinion of what YOU thought of her plan, she was asking for WHO wanted to JOIN her.

2) you (if I recall, it's a long thread/lots of replies) were called a troll because you came in here with a bit of a battle. YES you have your opinion, and you're absolutely right to it.

It wasn't that you disagreed... it's that you CONTINUED to do so ... " is a person who sows discord on the Internet by starting arguments or upsetting people, with the deliberate intent of provoking readers into an emotional response[5] or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion."

So while you didn't agree, you continued to come in here and repeatedly express your opinion.

This wasn't an opinion post... it was a "who wants to join me" post.

NOT the same thing - and in that case, I can totally see why she saw you as a troll. (And others saw too).

So while you don't agree, why would you repeatedly try to cause an argument, and insist YOUR way is right?

As someone pointed out, some things work for some people, but NOT everything works for everyone.

Fact is, I DO NOT eat fast food because I've read the ingredients!!! It's total CRAP. (And yes, I worked at BK when I was a kid).

And frankly I don't think I'll completely stop 'junk' either, but I can CHANGE what I eat - i.e., I recently just made a switch from having a treat daily of the 70 calorie choc bars (2-3) to a serving (20) of M&M Peanuts. STill gives the choc craving, but has more protein, and now that's been great (and the scale is finally moving in the right direction again).

BUT - while I've cut back on pop (soda), I still had one daily.

To me, this is motivation to improve on those few things (like cutting out pop).

So in short - the OP only wanted those to join her, not answer an opinion. Everyone has one, that's true. But to constantly battle is wrong when she didn't ask for an opinion. (Just my thoughts, and I was a forum moderator for a big name tv station, so I'm not a newbie by any means).

Yeah, I am ok missing that, haha. Why can't we let people do what works best for them? Why does it have to always be a my way or the highway approach? If moderation works for you, then awesome! I mean it, that is wonderful. Everybody works different and if people find that detoxing from stuff that makes them feel bad is what they need to do then why piss on their parade? If someone came on here wanting to do something truly dangerous (i.e. anorexia, starvation, etc) then I get jumping on them in a supportive manner to encourage them to seek a different path, but I fail to see how wanting to eat fresh food and non "junk" is a bad or unhealthy thing.

In any case, I am out. Trolls can go back to your trolling without the nice people getting in your way, lol

Beannacht, agus póg mo thóin!

ironic post is ironic

and I don't think letting people know they don't have to give up foods they like is "pissing on" anyones parade it's letting them know they can have treats still if they really want....

What I don't understand is why when advice like that is given to be helpful those that give it are accused of having no manners, called mean or bullies and basically told to shut their cake hole...

So I'm not going to get into this fight, but I will say this in a voice of being neutral:

1) the OP was frustrated and thought it might help her to perhaps reset her body (or not over do it) by cutting out fast food/junk etc. for 30 days... so she was NOT asking an opinion of what YOU thought of her plan, she was asking for WHO wanted to JOIN her.

2) you (if I recall, it's a long thread/lots of replies) were called a troll because you came in here with a bit of a battle. YES you have your opinion, and you're absolutely right to it.

It wasn't that you disagreed... it's that you CONTINUED to do so ... " is a person who sows discord on the Internet by starting arguments or upsetting people, with the deliberate intent of provoking readers into an emotional response[5] or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion."

So while you didn't agree, you continued to come in here and repeatedly express your opinion.

This wasn't an opinion post... it was a "who wants to join me" post.

NOT the same thing - and in that case, I can totally see why she saw you as a troll. (And others saw too).

So while you don't agree, why would you repeatedly try to cause an argument, and insist YOUR way is right?

As someone pointed out, some things work for some people, but NOT everything works for everyone.

Fact is, I DO NOT eat fast food because I've read the ingredients!!! It's total CRAP. (And yes, I worked at BK when I was a kid).

And frankly I don't think I'll completely stop 'junk' either, but I can CHANGE what I eat - i.e., I recently just made a switch from having a treat daily of the 70 calorie choc bars (2-3) to a serving (20) of M&M Peanuts. STill gives the choc craving, but has more protein, and now that's been great (and the scale is finally moving in the right direction again).

BUT - while I've cut back on pop (soda), I still had one daily.

To me, this is motivation to improve on those few things (like cutting out pop).

So in short - the OP only wanted those to join her, not answer an opinion. Everyone has one, that's true. But to constantly battle is wrong when she didn't ask for an opinion. (Just my thoughts, and I was a forum moderator for a big name tv station, so I'm not a newbie by any means).

Take this in however voice you want.

I responded to the OP once and gave my opinion Once Just once...as helpful advice that it wasn't necessary if she really didn't want to do it...and she explained she couldn't do moderation and said thanks tho...

Responded to another person and then was told to kiss their *kitten* for absolutely no reason...and I responded to that post because it was rude, then continued to get ruder...and guess what I wasn't called a troll at all during this thread so for you to respond to me in this way is just absolutely laughable.

So you will have to excuse me if I think you need to go back and reread the entire thread before you post something like this..

Repeatedly came back to express my opinion my butt...and I don't care if you were a moderator of anything your opinion in here has nothing to do with joining the group either so guess what

Ironic post is ironic

Esp for you to come in here "with your neutral voice" because you 'used to be a moderator" seems to me like you are trolling...mainly because this is directed at someone who wasn't even accused of "trolling" this post but was told to kiss someone's *kitten* for absolutely no reason...

Put that in your former moderator pipe and smoke it.

PS ToS of this forum is that you will not attack another user...esp without just cause and this is an attack on me directly for no reason and you personally have hijacked and have flame baited me in to increase the "drama" of this thread for no apparent reason other than to chastize someone who wasn't even called a troll...*shakes head*

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I think the idea is great! I'm participating to help develop better habits when it comes to fast food. Instead of ordering out when I'm tired, I want to learn how to make home made quick food. That doesn't mean I might not have a BK once I've completed my 30 days.

The soda is going to be a tough one for me as I drink a minimum of of couple cola zeros a day! I've stocked up on lots of bottled water.

The lady who created the thread is not rude for calling her husband a jerk in a playful way. I think many people have not understood how the comment was intended.

If anyone doesn't believe that the 30 day no junk, no soda, no fast food thing is a good idea, can they not say "I don't think this is a good idea." in a constructive way rather than slamming someone good intentions?