A Wedding that I don't want to go to

I am still figuring out what a husband brother is

It sounds sort of like a sister wife.... Maybe?

Wow! That's all I gotta say. I re posted it cause I guess the first one didn't make since so I guess you'll all dumb to not understand!

From your profile, OP -

We'll I am pretty bad explaining things about myself.

You may want to work on that before making a third post about this.

Hey everybody,

So there is a wedding I don't want to go to..... now your probably asking well then don't go. Well there is a problem its my Husband Brother. I have no problem with him its her ( we will call her Marry)
Now why don't I like Marry well, the time when I was with my husband we were together for 7 years at that time and Marry tried to split us up and she was new to the family! There was a lot of stuff she done for example I got her a job at my work and she goes around telling bull **** lies to everyone at my work. ( glad she quit )
There was so much she dont to upset my husband and I so now she is not welcome in the house but my husband brother is aloud to come over and all.

Now the wedding we have to fly which is 3 hour flight and we have to rent a car and find a place to stay just for a one day wedding which is going to cost us so much money that its stupid.

Would you go?

I's would take the metro to da wedding and thens I's go strong to the crib and take it easy until I's like "hey wha 'sup? Let's go, ya know and watch these m-fer's gets them so marriage on 'em." Then I's go to the place where it be happen' and I's be like "hey this cost so much stupid money, whys we here?"

fur realzzzzz.

Wow! That's all I gotta say. I re posted it cause I guess the first one didn't make since so I guess you'll all dumb to not understand!

Brush up on your spelling and grammar. Those make a world of difference in your posts.

In for your second man brother thread!

Wow! That's all I gotta say. I re posted it cause I guess the first one didn't make since so I guess you'll all dumb to not understand!

You'll all are not dumb. You'll all know proper English and grammar. And no it did not make "since".

Maybe you'll all should just ask your man brother what he thinks.

P.S. Hooked On Phonics

Edited FOR GRAMMAR

I think husband brother is somehow related to sister wife, but I'm not sure.

I'm sorry, I couldn't read the OP's post because of the horrendous spelling and grammar errors.

Don't go to the wedding if it bothers you so much.

What does Cat Daddy say you should do?

this is what I'd go with

Wow! That's all I gotta say. I re posted it cause I guess the first one didn't make since so I guess you'll all dumb to not understand!

The first line of your profile statement:

We'll I am pretty bad explaining things about myself.

Pretty much says it all, doesn't it?

THIS. This is me right now.

I don't understand. If you married your brother - NOT judging; YOU GO GIRL! - how is he marrying someone else? Is this like a polygamy thing? Your husband brother understands that you'll have to have separate homes, right? I mean, if she's not even allowed in your house, you can't be expected to live under the same roof. Tell him the separate homes worked great on Big Love.

Also, I would go to the wedding to support your husband brother but recognize that you probably don't need to worry about a place to stay for him since he'll probably be with her after the wedding, right? Good luck and congrats on the sister wife!:drinker:

I'm laughing so hard my dogs are looking at me funny :laugh:

There's only been one wedding that I really wish I'd skipped. . .

Hey, Debbie Downer, knock that serious crap off!

Hey everybody,

So there is a wedding I don't want to go to..... now your probably asking well then don't go. Well there is a problem its my Husband Brother. I have no problem with him its her ( we will call her Marry)
Now why don't I like Marry well, the time when I was with my husband we were together for 7 years at that time and Marry tried to split us up and she was new to the family! There was a lot of stuff she done for example I got her a job at my work and she goes around telling bull **** lies to everyone at my work. ( glad she quit )
There was so much she dont to upset my husband and I so now she is not welcome in the house but my husband brother is aloud to come over and all.

Now the wedding we have to fly which is 3 hour flight and we have to rent a car and find a place to stay just for a one day wedding which is going to cost us so much money that its stupid.

Would you go?

OP, I've done a rewrite on this for you.

Hello, everybody.

I have a dilemma. My brother in law is getting married. However, I cannot stand the woman he is getting married to (code name: Mary).

Mary has caused a lot of problems for my husband and me. We had already been married for seven years when we first met Mary, and she tried to split us up. She ended up working for the same company that I do, and started spreading lies and rumors about me. Luckily, she no longer works for the company, but it was a real hassle for me to have to deal with all of her lies.

She has done a lot to hurt my husband, but I really don't want to go into all the details. My BIL is always welcome, of course, but Mary is banned from our home.

In order to get to the wedding, we'll have to take a 3 hour flight, rent a car, and get a hotel room for just one night. It really seems like a lot of hassle, and I'm not sure that it's worth it.

What would you do in this situation?

** Please note, OP, that you didn't actually say what your husband wants to do. His opinion on this issue > than the opinion of strangers on a forum.