MFP Silliness

BrainyBurro
BrainyBurro Posts: 6,129 Member
edited February 18 in Chit-Chat
you know when you delete somebody or somebody deletes you without any sort of message, but they are still friends with lots of your friends and you see them all over your newsfeed and in the forums and vice-versa... but you don't interact with them EVER again because you don't know why they deleted you or they don't know why you deleted them... so you sort of just pretend they don't exist and/or they just pretend you don't exist from from that day forward? if you've been here for any amount of time, you know what i'm talking about.

i just wanted to say that behavior is silly and i'm not doing it anymore.
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  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    I still talk to them on other people's feeds...


    And often don't even realize I've been deleted LOL
  • SofaKingRad_II
    SofaKingRad_II Posts: 591 Member
    I still talk to them on other people's feeds...


    And often don't even realize I've been deleted LOL

    ^^ She doesn't even realize I just deleted her a few days ago!
  • myuhmaya
    myuhmaya Posts: 71 Member
    As silly as a *kitten*' *kitten* pic.
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    As silly as a *kitten*' *kitten* pic.

    *an *kitten*...

    also, *shots fired*
  • miss_jessiejane
    miss_jessiejane Posts: 2,819 Member
    I never notice when someone deletes me. I think that makes me a bad friend.
  • Iceberg_Simpson
    Iceberg_Simpson Posts: 737 Member
    I rarely delete people because I don't like them. It's usually because we don't interact much. I still like a lot of people that I'm no longer friends with. I just get chop happy with my FL sometimes.
  • _JPunky
    _JPunky Posts: 508 Member
    Guilty of said silliness...
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    I still talk to them on other people's feeds...


    And often don't even realize I've been deleted LOL

    ^^ She doesn't even realize I just deleted her a few days ago!


    *grumble grumble grumble*

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  • Derp_Diggler
    Derp_Diggler Posts: 1,456 Member
    So, what are you going to name the elephant in the room?
  • BrainyBurro
    BrainyBurro Posts: 6,129 Member
    I still talk to them on other people's feeds...


    And often don't even realize I've been deleted LOL

    i never really knew how to act in this situation so i just sort of avoided them to avoid any drama and it seems like that's what others do too, so i thought i should say something here instead of on my wall.
  • BrainyBurro
    BrainyBurro Posts: 6,129 Member
    As silly as a *kitten*' *kitten* pic.

    you don't like my hump day pic? :frown:
  • Derpes
    Derpes Posts: 2,033 Member
    It can be slightly awkward......

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  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,274 Member
    *crickets*

    ...........

    \m/
  • _John_
    _John_ Posts: 8,646 Member
    I rarely delete people because I don't like them. It's usually because we don't interact much. I still like a lot of people that I'm no longer friends with. I just get chop happy with my FL sometimes.

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  • funforsports
    funforsports Posts: 2,656 Member
    Wow wow wow, someone deleted.

    D@mn.
  • FoxBean
    FoxBean Posts: 910 Member
    I've had my friend count drop down a few times, not sure who deleted me though, so I have no right to be upset if I don't even remember "who". A few I did notice, but I will act the same regardless, it's not a big deal. :smokin:
  • Iceberg_Simpson
    Iceberg_Simpson Posts: 737 Member
    I rarely delete people because I don't like them. It's usually because we don't interact much. I still like a lot of people that I'm no longer friends with. I just get chop happy with my FL sometimes.

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    Hi Noobie!! I still love you.
  • myuhmaya
    myuhmaya Posts: 71 Member
    As silly as a *kitten*' *kitten* pic.

    *an *kitten*...

    also, *shots fired*

    I would so delete you!
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  • _John_
    _John_ Posts: 8,646 Member
    There's very few I've interacted on this site that I've allowed on my FL that I didn't still like after we ceased being friends.
  • The_Enginerd
    The_Enginerd Posts: 3,982 Member
    Nope. I just delete the whole clique.
  • RockWarrior84
    RockWarrior84 Posts: 840 Member
    I only delete people who either do not log in forever or never talk or do anything.
  • BrainyBurro
    BrainyBurro Posts: 6,129 Member
    So, what are you going to name the elephant in the room?

    this wasn't directed at anybody in particular. i know of a couple of people who i deleted who won't talk to me because they don't know why. they shouldn't feel like they have to avoid me to avoid any drama. the reasons i deleted them are probably not as bad as they think. and i've been deleted by people as well. some of them i still think are funny and clever and i'm not bothered that we're not friends anymore, but it does seem silly that i have been avoiding them. so i've been thinking about this for a couple of weeks and how ridiculous it is and figured i couldn't be the only one doing this, so i posted this thought publicly to see if other people also found other MFP behaviors silly.
  • EddieHaskell97
    EddieHaskell97 Posts: 2,227 Member
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  • Cameron_1969
    Cameron_1969 Posts: 2,855 Member
    Happens to me all the time. . I usually dont' realize it until I see them post somewhere then I run and check my list and am shocked. . SHOCKED! . .when they aren't on it anymore. . .

    But yeah. . once you realize you've been dumped it's sort of proper etiquette to make no mention of said dumping. .either via forum posts or PMs or other people's feeds I think. .
  • FoxBean
    FoxBean Posts: 910 Member
    What if you thought you were on each others friends list, but never were, but you aren't quite sure - so there is that awkwardness always there? :frown:
  • Ihatecoldsoup
    Ihatecoldsoup Posts: 186 Member
    You could ask them what was the cause of deletion
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,215 Member
    Yep...
  • KrazyDaizy
    KrazyDaizy Posts: 815 Member
    I used to delete people more when I was a newbie (on an old profile) because b!tch is a b!tch :laugh: . I don't know why I did it honestly other than having trouble keeping up with people and it being too hard to stay on top of them.

    I very rarely delete people now unless they haven't logged in for a long time or they stepped over a boundry. Ha, who am I kidding, I don't have boundries.

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