MFP Silliness

you know when you delete somebody or somebody deletes you without any sort of message, but they are still friends with lots of your friends and you see them all over your newsfeed and in the forums and vice-versa... but you don't interact with them EVER again because you don't know why they deleted you or they don't know why you deleted them... so you sort of just pretend they don't exist and/or they just pretend you don't exist from from that day forward? if you've been here for any amount of time, you know what i'm talking about.

i just wanted to say that behavior is silly and i'm not doing it anymore.

So you will acknowledge me now?

I tend to only delete people after at least a week of not logging in at all or if they are high drama problem magnets.

I've had a few people delete me who I am almost sure did it because I wasn't an active enough member of their fan club.

Yes we interacted, yes I commented and liked, yes I wrote on their walls, yes I responded to them, but I committed the horrible unforgivable sin of missing a few days here or there. Sorry but I just don't have time to give every last person on my FL tons of personal attention everyday. Meanwhile I am sure these same people have dozens of friends who never interact with them at all, go figure.

I laugh at it... shrug... move on.

I've deleted i've been deleted. Oh well.

You look familiar...

This thread has the potential to become really awkward lmao

At least I know the OP isn't talking about me since they never accepted any of my FRs

I tend to only delete people after at least a week of not logging in at all or if they are high drama problem magnets.

I've had a few people delete me who I am almost sure did it because I wasn't an active enough member of their fan club.

Yes we interacted, yes I commented and liked, yes I wrote on their walls, yes I responded to them, but I committed the horrible unforgivable sin of missing a few days here or there. Sorry but I just don't have time to give every last person on my FL tons of personal attention everyday. Meanwhile I am sure these same people have dozens of friends who never interact with them at all, go figure.

I laugh at it... shrug... move on.

I've deleted i've been deleted. Oh well.

You look familiar...

This thread has the potential to become really awkward lmao

At least I know the OP isn't talking about me since they never accepted any of my FRs

Would it be awkward if I sent you something in a PM? Maybe a kitty?

My TMI had a new friend instant delete me yesterday. Hahahahha

I love TMI. You can share with me.

Most of the time I can't figure out who deleted me, but it's usually because of a deactivation. I only ignore one member in all of MFP land. Just one!

Good news is one knows me IRL, so if they delete me...meh.

I tend to only delete people after at least a week of not logging in at all or if they are high drama problem magnets.

I've had a few people delete me who I am almost sure did it because I wasn't an active enough member of their fan club.

Yes we interacted, yes I commented and liked, yes I wrote on their walls, yes I responded to them, but I committed the horrible unforgivable sin of missing a few days here or there. Sorry but I just don't have time to give every last person on my FL tons of personal attention everyday. Meanwhile I am sure these same people have dozens of friends who never interact with them at all, go figure.

I laugh at it... shrug... move on.

I've deleted i've been deleted. Oh well.

You look familiar...

This thread has the potential to become really awkward lmao

At least I know the OP isn't talking about me since they never accepted any of my FRs

go re-read the OP. this thread is not about deletions. it's about that awkwardness after deletions where people don't know how to act around their ex-friends, so they pretend they don't exist and avoid any future interaction with them. that's what's silly.

Yes... reading comprehension is something I possess... and of course my latest post that you quoted specifically speaks to that awkwardness.

As for the rest of what I said not 100% being exactly and exclusively a response to your OP, well this is a conversation involving more people than just you exchanging more ideas than just yours.

Everything I said was on topic and relevant to the conversation taking place... of course since it's your thread feel free to quote everyone else before and after me who talked about deletions in general without directly addressing the awkwardness aspect, or just focus on me if that makes you happy :flowerforyou:

I just clicked quote because I wanted to like a post.

never change, MFP!

My TMI had a new friend instant delete me yesterday. Hahahahha

No Junk Pic = instant deletion


Duh.

I don't lay it out on the table for errrbody yah know...

Clearly you are still on my list:blushing:

you know when you delete somebody or somebody deletes you without any sort of message, but they are still friends with lots of your friends and you see them all over your newsfeed and in the forums and vice-versa... but you don't interact with them EVER again because you don't know why they deleted you or they don't know why you deleted them... so you sort of just pretend they don't exist and/or they just pretend you don't exist from from that day forward? if you've been here for any amount of time, you know what i'm talking about.

i just wanted to say that behavior is silly and i'm not doing it anymore.

It has happened on facebook a few times. Long time friends have deleted me with no explanation. I usually only delete people I added to play games, who no longer play.