How do you break through the metal barriers?

I'm having a really hard time staying motivated to exercise lately. I had the WORST attitude at hot yoga yesterday, and I haven't gone for a run in a long time. I have a major problem with wanting to see results NOW, and not having the endurance to stick with anything long enough for results. How do you guys stay motivated? How do you convince yourself to stay positive? What keeps you going on hard days/weeks? I guess sometimes the task of losing weight seems so daunting that I just shut down and convince myself that its not worth it because I'm not seeing results anyway. I need some helpful advice/ideas. Anyone?
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  • BlueBombers
    BlueBombers Posts: 4,064 Member
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  • sana1314
    sana1314 Posts: 17 Member
    I hate cardio, running was like a torture....
    Tried Kenpo X, few times it was hard and then I just realized that I love it!!
    to this day I'm doing only fighting cardio, thats my thing....
    Find your thing!

    Have a problem with demanding results now?... forget about results!!!
    I know I'm stupid haha but look you just pushing yourself too hard...
    Have fun first and eat good healthy food!

    Don't like running? Then don't run, go try swimming, playing tennis, boxing..... whatever makes your mind happy and your body busy!
  • RachelRuns9
    RachelRuns9 Posts: 585 Member
    For me it's become routine now, and that really helps. Try making a schedule for your week so you are forced to do your workouts. Then, schedule your next week in advance, too. By the end of the month you'll be used to it again and perhaps it will stick for longer. I find that when I break my routine it is VERY difficult to get back into it - but you just have to push through! You can do it :)
  • bebeisfit
    bebeisfit Posts: 951 Member
    I'm having a really hard time staying motivated to exercise lately. I had the WORST attitude at hot yoga yesterday, and I haven't gone for a run in a long time. I have a major problem with wanting to see results NOW, and not having the endurance to stick with anything long enough for results. How do you guys stay motivated? How do you convince yourself to stay positive? What keeps you going on hard days/weeks? I guess sometimes the task of losing weight seems so daunting that I just shut down and convince myself that its not worth it because I'm not seeing results anyway. I need some helpful advice/ideas. Anyone?

    I cannot take credit for this quote - but I think it's true.

    Being overweight is hard (or daunting)
    Losing weight is hard
    Maintaining weight is also hard

    So - pick your hard.

    If we let ourselves go and give up, we end up miserable and that's pretty daunting as well. I also believe that you need to find an activity that you enjoy. Sometimes I don't want to run or lift weights, but I know that when I'm done, I'm pretty proud of myself. I've tried a few activities that I didn't like, so I didn't stick with it.

    Try something new! A new class, biking, hiking, fly a kite, dance around, rent or stream a DVD, walk the neighborhood, borrow a dog or child and walk them. Run up stairs. Endless possibilities.

    Good luck!
  • gwencakes
    gwencakes Posts: 15 Member
    For me it's become routine now, and that really helps. Try making a schedule for your week so you are forced to do your workouts. Then, schedule your next week in advance, too. By the end of the month you'll be used to it again and perhaps it will stick for longer. I find that when I break my routine it is VERY difficult to get back into it - but you just have to push through! You can do it :)

    Totally agree. If it's a routine then it's just what I have to do next in my day. It's not an option, it's an appointment set I have to go to like any other part of my day!
  • wonderbeard101
    wonderbeard101 Posts: 75 Member
    It helps to have something that you enjoy and want to improve in. Then, set goals for yourself.

    For me, it's strength training and hitting certain numbers by the end of the year. Maybe for you it's cycling sprints, or being able to hold a really advanced yoga position for an extended time, or climbing that one wall, or whatever! Find something that you want be be better at and then train, train, train.
  • Eric_DeCastro
    Eric_DeCastro Posts: 767 Member
    I stopped trying to lose weight and just concentrate on my running. going for distance, duration. I enjoy running so it doesn't feel like a chore. in the end you lose weight. but while I'm running i'm just relaxing. letting my mind free and letting go for awhile.
  • Thank you so much, everyone! These have all really helped. I love reading your advice.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    Blow torch?
  • nomeejerome
    nomeejerome Posts: 2,616 Member
    Blow torch?

    giggle
  • Jestinia
    Jestinia Posts: 1,153 Member
    Sometimes you remember the last time you had to drag yourself kicking and screaming to do something and how great you felt afterward. You remember that afterward and make yourself do it again.

    As for breaking through metal barriers, very carefully (haven't had a tetanus shot in awhile) and only when I'm sure the cops aren't looking.
  • Blow torch?

    Oh my! haha That's what I get for not proof reading. I didn't even notice I had done that. To clarify: mental* hahaha
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    Blow torch?

    Oh my! haha That's what I get for not proof reading. I didn't even notice I had done that. To clarify: mental* hahaha

    :wink:

    Sorry. I couldn't resist.

    But to answer your question, sometimes you just have to push yourself through it. I often have to remind myself that while I have often regretted not doing a workout, I have never regretted doing one. Sometimes that helps.
  • Shropshire1959
    Shropshire1959 Posts: 982 Member
    With a hack saw
  • scraver2003
    scraver2003 Posts: 526 Member
    I register for 5k's and such... this way I am not exercising just to exercise - I have a *bigger* purpose for my exercise. I am working towards a goal. Knowing I've paid the money and I am going to be racing helps keep me commited.
  • _Zardoz_
    _Zardoz_ Posts: 3,987 Member
    I'm having a really hard time staying motivated to exercise lately. I had the WORST attitude at hot yoga yesterday, and I haven't gone for a run in a long time. I have a major problem with wanting to see results NOW, and not having the endurance to stick with anything long enough for results. How do you guys stay motivated? How do you convince yourself to stay positive? What keeps you going on hard days/weeks? I guess sometimes the task of losing weight seems so daunting that I just shut down and convince myself that its not worth it because I'm not seeing results anyway. I need some helpful advice/ideas. Anyone?
    You need to find an exercise that you enjoy. if you don't enjoy running don't do it. Find something else. I love running but no matter waht I am not motivated all of the time, no one can be. Now though it's just habit the same way logging my food is. SOme days I love it and others I really wonder what I'm doing but habit keeps me going. Motivation in reality is highly over rated as that only gets you started.

    So look for exercises activities you may enjoy. Go walking, sign up for classes give wind surfing a go, try skateboarding, think what would you like to try and give it a go. You need to enjoy what you're doing otherwise whats the point?
  • AreUjoking2
    AreUjoking2 Posts: 142
    I used to be where you are today. I found my "thing", I ride. I bought a bike and just went for it. Now, I can't go a day without it. I get a "runners high". I started off with going 3 miles, that was 2 months ago, now I ride anywhere from 10-20 a day. You can free your mind, listen to music, feel the wind in your face. You just need to start something that you LOVE to do. Find your passion, your obsession and then it won't be a chore to do, you will want to do it. Try anything and everything until it clicks for you. Good luck on finding your passion!
  • beertrollruss
    beertrollruss Posts: 276 Member
    I try to get to know people at my gym to make the workouts a little more enjoyable and to give me something to look forward to. When I did classes, I showed up early and let the teacher know I was a noob. I talked to the teacher before and after class. Cardio is a little trickier but you could try catching people before or after. Exercise questions or general comments about the facility are good ice breakers.
  • sshields1975
    sshields1975 Posts: 22 Member
    Glad I found your topic. I feel like this everyday. I just can't picture the end result either. So thanks. I used this quote I found that said "It takes 21 days to get into a routine" I put a reminder in my phone to show this everyday and it did help with a fitness challenge I was doing. I won :) I need to do it again. It is about getting moving and just doing it, even if is just 15-30 minutes that day for me. Good Luck.
  • I register for 5k's and such... this way I am not exercising just to exercise - I have a *bigger* purpose for my exercise. I am working towards a goal. Knowing I've paid the money and I am going to be racing helps keep me commited.

    Wow, that is SUCH a great idea. Why haven't I thought of this? Thank you! Now, I will have to get over my commitment issues. haha That's great!
  • I try to get to know people at my gym to make the workouts a little more enjoyable and to give me something to look forward to. When I did classes, I showed up early and let the teacher know I was a noob. I talked to the teacher before and after class. Cardio is a little trickier but you could try catching people before or after. Exercise questions or general comments about the facility are good ice breakers.

    Thank you for sharing that. It definitely helps me. Sometimes I get to shy to do things like that, yet connections to people in other areas of my life are what keep me coming back to them. What a wonderful suggestion! I like those ice breakers as well. I never know how to approach strangers at the gym, and I should not be so timid that it keeps me from speaking to my instructors.
  • I used to be where you are today. I found my "thing", I ride. I bought a bike and just went for it. Now, I can't go a day without it. I get a "runners high". I started off with going 3 miles, that was 2 months ago, now I ride anywhere from 10-20 a day. You can free your mind, listen to music, feel the wind in your face. You just need to start something that you LOVE to do. Find your passion, your obsession and then it won't be a chore to do, you will want to do it. Try anything and everything until it clicks for you. Good luck on finding your passion!

    That definitely gives me hope!! I've always wondered if I would like cycling. I may just have to give it a whirl.
  • richardositosanchez
    richardositosanchez Posts: 260 Member
    You need to find something that you enjoy doing, or find ways to make it enjoyable (good music for instance). Also make it a routine. Me, I pack my gym bag the night before and take it with me in my car, so I go straight to the gym after work to get it done. Also, once you begin to see the results that will help boost your motivation. Having people tell me all the time that I've lost a lot of weight, that I look great, etc, give me incentive to continue doing what it.
  • bookworm_847
    bookworm_847 Posts: 1,903 Member
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    This made me LOL.


    OP, I agree with others who suggest finding your thing. I've done exercises I enjoyed before, but would eventually run out of steam. Then I tried something totally different from the other workouts I'd done, and it's awesome. It sounds weird, but sometimes at work, I'll get really excited to get to do my next workout. Something is out there that'll be perfect for you. Then you'll feel so great after breaking through the mental barriers that you can break through those metal ones. :wink:
  • nancybuss
    nancybuss Posts: 1,461 Member
    I found what worked for me AND was in groups where we checked in each day. If I knew I had to tell someone, it helped me do it. Once its a habit, its so much easier.

    Its not just about weight loss, its about HEALTH. You are young, and maybe don't feel that part as much yet, but doing this will help you be healthy a whole lot longer in your life.


    How do you study for school? How do you keep up with it? Why bother doing it?

    similar questions... I'm assuming it Means enough to you, you have a "why" for your degree, and where you want to go in life, and this is the same thing in a different way. Find what you love to do and WHY you are doing it!!!!!

    Nancy
  • yo_andi
    yo_andi Posts: 2,178 Member
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  • RUNNING_AMOK_1958
    RUNNING_AMOK_1958 Posts: 268 Member
    I stopped trying to lose weight and just concentrate on my running. going for distance, duration. I enjoy running so it doesn't feel like a chore. in the end you lose weight. but while I'm running i'm just relaxing. letting my mind free and letting go for awhile.

    This^. And if running isn't your thing, try different things until you find yours.
  • Wiltord1982
    Wiltord1982 Posts: 312 Member
    That's how I break through metal barriers

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  • Amberlynnek
    Amberlynnek Posts: 405 Member
    This is definitely a challenge I have faced in the past. I will give you the best advice that I can. One of the things that helped me to most was planning. On saturday mornings, I sit with my coffee and a notebook (for historical references) and I start by two pages that detail the week. The first page is for food broken up into meals and the second is for am/pm workout schedules. I start with the workout page. I write what activities I will complete each day, weights, cardio, classes etc. and when based on my schedule.

    Then I write out my food page according to the intensity of my workouts. Mondays, I spin at 6am and then head back to the gym to lift at night so I bump all my snacks up, weds. is a rest day so I lower my cals for the day and so forth. I make sure to incorporate 1 new-ish activity each week and 2 new recipes that can be used for mutliple meals. Any new recipe I use and like, I write into the notebook for future use. After I have written all this out, I use the menu to plan my grocery list. I organize my grocery list into departments ( produce, dairy, etc) so I have no reason to look for anything else or stray.

    I grocery shop on sundays, cook whatever I can in advance and store and then set up my gym gear for the week. It seems like a lot of planning but its really only a couple hours of time for a week of success. The sheer planning alone and looking for new recipes and workouts puts my head in the zone for the week. I eliminate all excuses and am someone who responds well to structure and organization. This helps me consider the hard part to be done and all I have to do is show up somewhere!

    That being said, we all face tough motivational days. YOu need to find things you like and make sure you are changing up your routine. Sometimes a bad day is just a bad day and you'll be back on it tomorrow. Weight loss sucks, staying on top of it is hard, its all hard but if it weren't hard anyone could do it.

    When I ran my 3rd marathon, I was debating whether or not it would be my last because I mentally was not into it but I saw a sign at the start line that I now repeat to myself when I'm out running or in a tough position. Maybe it will help you too: "One day you will no longer be able to do this, TODAY IS NOT THAT DAY."

    Good luck, feel free to add me.
  • kuolo
    kuolo Posts: 251 Member
    I love the title :)
    I think this is why they say you need to find something you enjoy doing. Sounds like you don't enjoy what it is you are doing, so are looking entirely for results, which may not work in the long term. Maybe try finding something you enjoy, or you can fit into your day (like cycling to work) so it's not a chore.