New here and looking for friends

I am new here. I am the father of two great little girls and the husband to my wonderful wife. I realize that at this point I am planning vacations, projects and family time around things that I don't think I can do because of my weight.. That is not the person /husband/ dad that I want to be. So, I am making a change in my life. It is time to get my eating, lack of exercise and general apathy under control. Any motivation or support that I can get will be greatly appreciated.