i want to start living!!!

nianiamplampla
nianiamplampla Posts: 4
in Motivation and Support
hi everyone i am kim:happy: ...i need to lose 40pounds....im stuck with that amount the last two years:brokenheart: ...i weighed more but i lost them easier....now i want to have some help to prevent me from eating or being lazy:drinker:
i know its probably hard and as i am a stranger you dont care...but please anyone??
i am feeling my bones screaming when i am moving!!!!:sad:
thank you very much in advance
have a nice day :flowerforyou:

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  • Ainar
    Ainar Posts: 858 Member
    You can add me as friend and I can lurk and Like your posts when you log something. Some people gets more motivation when they are watched/cheered up. Also don't be shy to ask any questions if you need help. We are, mostly, helpful community here at forums. That's about as much help I can imagine you can get here, in the end it's your weight loss and you need to count cals and watch what you ate yourself, we can't do it for you.
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  • Ainar
    Ainar Posts: 858 Member
    You can add me as friend and I can lurk and Like your posts when you log something. Some people gets more motivation when they are watched/cheered up. Also don't be shy to ask any questions if you need help. We are, mostly, helpful community here at forums. That's about as much help I can imagine you can get here, in the end it's your weight loss and you need to count cals and watch what you ate yourself, we can't do it for you.

    Will you also be encouraging her to not eat ?
    I can give some advice for calorie counting or how to stop binging like a pig like I used to. Ya know, what worked for me to become healthy. I do not support starving tho or just "not eating". And I assumed she had no eating disorders. But if she does I guess anything I would say can be interpreted in her own way even if it's not meant like that. I guess you are right, it's rather complicated thing to give advice without knowing what kind of person is receiving them and what she is making out of them.
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  • LC458
    LC458 Posts: 300 Member
    Self control and getting active? I am totally on board with that :bigsmile: fr sent
  • Junctionbox
    Junctionbox Posts: 47 Member
    I would guess that English is not the OPs first language, so I don't expect there is anything sinister in the "prevent" wording. I've sent a friend request too.
  • frannieshack
    frannieshack Posts: 327 Member
    Look at the success stories on this site!!! That might get you inspired and out of your negative thoughts. Take one day at a time. Do something different and fun today!
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  • nianiamplampla
    nianiamplampla Posts: 4
    thank you for the understanding!
  • nianiamplampla
    nianiamplampla Posts: 4
    hello everyone!:wink:
    first of all what OP means? second ED?!??!!?!:noway:
    english is not my native language but why is so bad to use the word prevent? it means keep (something) from happening.:glasses:
    like me from eating too much by saying a word obviously(hello?!?!?!?):embarassed:
    To the girl who mentioned the op/ed blabla bla cant remember : 'dude relax!i asked people to say something, anything that would help me..you didnt!and its not necessary to reply you can send im to sb else":huh:
    thank youuu:flowerforyou:
  • cherryblossomrose
    cherryblossomrose Posts: 41
    Dipping into the Success Stories threads, and having a supportive group of MPF friends will be big support on your journey. Remember it is a lifestyle change, not a diet. For long term success you have to buy into this concept otherwise you will be on a depressing yo-yo trip. Good luck.
  • PurpleCupcakes01
    PurpleCupcakes01 Posts: 141
    Lol
  • nianiamplampla
    nianiamplampla Posts: 4
    thank you very much!
    i know that i used to be 95 kg 3years ago...my lifestyle is changed, my way of thinking too....i am going to the gum at least 3 times per week, working as a waitress in a busy place almost everyday, so yes i am not like old days....but i dont see my weight going down as much as i would like to...
    and thats what i was asking through this topic..ideas maybe an advice, or just chatting

    thanks again:smooched:

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