Cheat Day?

buibear88
buibear88 Posts: 23 Member
edited September 22 in Health and Weight Loss
Ive read in several books/magazines that its ok to allow yourself a "cheat day" or a break from your diet one day a week. I've been considering doing this but I wanted to see if anyone else does this and if they think its a good idea first.
Now when I say cheat i dont mean that I will go to Baskin Robbins and eat myself silly lol. I just mean maybe at the family dinner on Sundays I'll get seconds or have ice cream for dessert. Your thoughts?
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  • UpToAnyCool
    UpToAnyCool Posts: 1,673
    :wink: i totally do this only because i won't make healthy changes long term if i think i have to live the rest of my life w/o certain foods. that said, props to those of you that don't ever cheat. i just don't know how you do it! :blushing:
  • sandollar1977
    sandollar1977 Posts: 10 Member
    A cheat day is ok as long as you have the ability to jump right back on track. If you can't handle the urge to cheat more than the one day, then maybe wait a bit longer before introducing the cheat-time back in to your diet. Or start out with 1 day a month or every 2 weeks and allow yourself a special meal or dessert....but I would avoid seconds....you want to still be careful with your portion size....
  • Mindful_Trent
    Mindful_Trent Posts: 3,954 Member
    I incorporate treats into my regular eating plan - I'm not talking about a piece of cheesecake every day, but rather a no-sugar-added hot cocoa regularly, or a bowl of frozen yogurt once a week, and a piece of dark chocolate one a week or stuff like that. I find I'm much more likely to stay on track if I plan the treats in a structured manner as part of an overall healthy day rather than having one whole cheat day - that's just likely to knock me off track. But... everyone's different, so you have to figure out what works for you.
  • Sigra
    Sigra Posts: 374 Member
    In all honesty, you could probably cheat every day with this way of eating, as long as you worked all the calories off before the day was up. That's probably how I would go about it. Allow yourself to eat what you want, but do it on a day you can work most of it off.

    This isn't a "you can never eat fast food again" it is a "get out of the habit". - When eating, just make sure to make the right decisions!

    ^_^ Best of luck.
  • meggonkgonk
    meggonkgonk Posts: 2,066 Member
    Try it out and see if it works for you. I personally don't really have much need for a cheat day- I log everything and if I want seconds, I get them and log it, even if it puts me over. But I'm pretty laid back about my diet- not everyone can be like that. So if what you need is a day to not count calories to destress and learn how to control your portions with out the red line numbers stabbing you in the eye like you did something wrong, then I say go for it.
  • kri5tin
    kri5tin Posts: 23
    I usually do a cheat meal or snack rather than an entire day; however, I still get a good work out in. An entire day can really throw off your goals if your not carfeul.
  • Bigpelly8
    Bigpelly8 Posts: 504 Member
    I think it's a good thing to throw you metablosim a shock or two once in a while. Nothing wrong with that!
  • Hitsujikai
    Hitsujikai Posts: 111 Member
    Whilst I agree with cheat days in principle I have seen first hand what happens with regular cheat days.

    A friend of mine used to eat quite well during the week and allow himself to 'cheat' on the weekends, this was a disaster for him as he completely undid all the good work he'd done throughout the week and he'd gain weight. He's a big guy, I'd estimate about 23 stone at the time and 25 stone now, and this completely destroyed his self confidence to the point he has given up on himself in all aspects of life.

    Personally I have a cheat meal once a month, going to the pub with friends and having whatever I feel like (but still exercising so that I have the calories for it) as a reward for doing so well the rest of the month.
  • NightOwl1
    NightOwl1 Posts: 881 Member
    I think your idea of a cheat day is completely fine and a good idea. Where people get in trouble with cheat days as when they use it to scarf down Wendy's Triple Quarter Pounders or all you can eat wings. Cheating like that will undo a lot of good work you do over the week. But if you want to have your favorite meal or an extra desert that puts you a couple of hundred calories over for the day, I think that's completely healthy.
  • sing1998
    sing1998 Posts: 38 Member
    absolutely necessary to avoid burn out! i do it twice a week when i'm at my goal. eat healthy as i can the other 5. nachos and cookies on my cheat days!
  • hpsnickers1
    hpsnickers1 Posts: 2,783 Member
    I've heard it's very good to have a cheat day. Not only to keep from feeling deprived but to keep you metabolism 'guessing'. (not good with words).
  • I do not do so called cheat days... I incorporate the things I enjoy in to my everyday eating. I still eat out too. Not all the time but maybe once a month. I have chocolate, ice cream and other goodies as my calories will allow.
  • I have always allowed myself a cheat day or cheat meal and I still lose regularly. Like the other poster, I can't imagine going my entire life without some of my favorite foods. If I know that on the weekend, I'm doing something special and I can eat whatever I want, I feel 100% better and it motivates me the rest of the week.

    It is a lifestyle change but who wants to live life without an occassional fattening meal at Olive Garden or Krispy Kreme Donut. That is no way to live. :-)

    When I have my cheat meal or day I eat whatever will satisfy me and if I stick to my goals the rest of the week, I don't see any weight gain at all. However, I will say that I weigh on Friday mornings before the weekend (weekends are harder for me and I usually have my cheat meal then) so by the time I weigh again, it's been almost a week. I have never had my cheat meal Sunday night and then gotten up to weigh Monday morning.
  • I have attempted "cheat days" in the past and it completely messed me up. I couldn't seem to get back on track. "Cheat days" do boost your metabolism however so if you feel like it wont mess you up in the long run i don't see anything wrong it!
  • AsaThorsWoman
    AsaThorsWoman Posts: 2,303 Member
    I think it's a good thing to throw you metablosim a shock or two once in a while. Nothing wrong with that!

    Yes, our ancestors have done this for aeons.
  • I forgot to add that I didn't incorporate my cheat meal into my routine until I was into my routine a month or so. I need to keep the momentum up for the first month to get on track and feel secure. I don't think you want to have a cheat meal after only 4 or 5 days of eating well. :-)

    Just my two cents and what works for me. :-) Good luck!!
  • championnfl
    championnfl Posts: 324 Member
    I use the method of a healthy lifestyle. Don't cut anything out, just eat in moderation. Instead of not having candy bar will instead eat only half,this way body still will get the cravings[which is all about low blood sugar levels] satisfied.
    Everyone has there there own method,just to me having a cheat day signals to the body not to keep even blood sugar levels and have swings of up & down which in turn makes you crave and eat more!
    Body doesn't know that its a cheat day,just knows its getting a different food supply. The key to a weight loss control is keeping even blood sugar level day to day.
    Suggestion, Google "Glycemic foods" Blood sugar levels body interaction with foods will be amazed at what you learn.:wink:
  • CasperO
    CasperO Posts: 2,913 Member
    Calories in - calories out. If you do a 500 cal a day deficit throughout the week, and you get to saturday morning 3000 calories under for the week,,, and then you go have the Hardees mongo-burger lunch and then the big Fettucine Alfredo at Olive Garden for dinner (why not, it's 'cheat day'!) then you can easily put those 3000 calories back and pretty much destroy your progress for the week.

    Personally I do a 'cheat meal' once a week, but I try to make it more about enjoying a really exceptional QUALITY of food, and not think about indulging in a huge quantity of food. I might go to Red Lobster, but I'll have the grilled feast o' goodies, not the lobster linguine with cheese sauce. I'll go a little over, but nothing nuts.

    It has worked for me. That treat keeps me from feeling deprived.
  • Ive read in several books/magazines that its ok to allow yourself a "cheat day" or a break from your diet one day a week. I've been considering doing this but I wanted to see if anyone else does this and if they think its a good idea first.
    Now when I say cheat i dont mean that I will go to Baskin Robbins and eat myself silly lol. I just mean maybe at the family dinner on Sundays I'll get seconds or have ice cream for dessert. Your thoughts?

    Of course it's okay to allow yourself a "cheat day" or a break, for psychological reasons if nothing else. It certainly won't hinder your goals to any significant degree!

    That said, your body doesn't NEED a cheat day. It sounds like what you're doing is having more of a cheat "meal", which is much better. Having a little bit extra dessert on Saturday evenings is a safe way to go... but the real danger of cheating at all is the fact that high-fat/high-carb stress to your body will make it more difficult to resist additional cheating. I'm sure most of us have dealt with it in the past -- how just one trip to the dessert table suddenly becomes two, then three, then a cheat week...

    Be aware of that and avoid the pitfalls. :smile:
  • One of my employees and I were talking about this very thing yesterday. Last year I didn't do any cheat days and I lost over 60 pounds. However, I stopped losing 7 months ago (so yeah... 60 pounds in 6 months...lol) I decided that this year I am not going to deprive myself of the food I love, but just limit how often I have it. He said that he used to do cheat days and would find that by the end of the day he had eaten 8000 calories, so he limits himself to cheat meals. (not that you couldn't do 8000 in one meal i suppose...lol)

    I think you need to figure out how to best balance it for you.
  • meanbmc
    meanbmc Posts: 28
    i think the hardest part of dieting is giving up the foods you really love. that said, why give them up? incorporate them into your daily calories, and you're not giving up anything! an extra helping, or going out to eat once every couple of weeks won't hurt, as long as you stay reasonable close to your daily limit. good luck!
  • ciaobella47
    ciaobella47 Posts: 95 Member
    I never really could do a cheat day. I had a hard time going "free" without going "crazy". I do however have a cheat MEAL- Sunday dinner. It's a family dinner and I have no control over what is cooked, but I don't worry about it. Whatever it is, I enjoy it. And then I enjoy the dessert that follows. I still limit myself to one serving of dinner, one of dessert. No seconds. I feel like I've gotten to enjoy something I normally wouldn't eat without feeling guilt.

    That's what works for me anyway! :)
  • My husband started The Abs Diet a few years back, and they totally encourage a cheat day once a week. He skipped the first month of cheat days, then started with a cheat meal once a week. Then a whole cheat day every couple of weeks. Now he has one day a week where it's a free-for-all for him. He eats what he wants that day, but he is VERY disciplined the rest of the week, and has had 4 years of success.

    Me, on the other hand, I'm not so disciplined. But it's really important for me not to feel deprived of something I want. My night-time fix is popcorn, and I enjoy it. I've built those extra night-time calories into my diet a few nights a week. Is it great to have all those carbs at night so often? Nah, but if I'm not going over, I'm okay with that. I could never not "cheat" but I'm not ready for anything more than a cheat meal every couple of weeks right now. I need to lose weight first, feel secure in my routine, and then I will be ready to indulge (in moderation) without feeling like I'm sabotaging myself.
  • I always have a cheat day which is usually on Saturday. I don't cheat the whole day, just for one meal and maybe a snack. Come Monday, I'm back on track again. But honestly I cheat a little everyday; nothing drastic but enough to satisfy my taste buds:)
  • NoAdditives
    NoAdditives Posts: 4,251 Member
    I definitely do it. I give myself two days off from exercise and staying strict to my calorie goal. I need to feel free, you know? At first I was doing it simply because I needed it to stay sane, but now I've realized that if I'm planning on eating foods like pizza, ice cream, a soda now and then, once I've lost the weight (which I do), there's no reason why I shouldn't eat them while I'm losing the weight. If it will be part of my diet later, it's part of my diet now.

    That said, I am always trying to find healthier alternatives to my favorite foods. I get take and bake pizza instead of pizza from Papa John's or Dominos because it has way less fat and fewer calories. And their DeLite thin crust pizzas are really yummy! Instead of soda we now drink Izze sparkling juice. I want to be as healthy as possible, but I still indulge.
  • pkd1
    pkd1 Posts: 170 Member
    By all means have a cheat day, if your working out 5 or 6 days a week like i am on the 7th day you should be able to enjoy it!, i usually make homemade pizza, banana splits with low fat frozen yogart yummy, so go for t we all deserve a treat for out hard work
  • goron59
    goron59 Posts: 890 Member
    I do, but don't really think of it as a cheat day, just part of the process. It's not every week...sometimes it's more than once a week, especially around the recent party season.

    I do try to look at my net calorie intake averages over a week though and will try to make amends on days after an excessive day.

    Although as Yoda said: "do or do not, there is no try."
  • lucielu2
    lucielu2 Posts: 251 Member
    yes cheat days are good
  • arewethereyet
    arewethereyet Posts: 18,702 Member
    I do not like the expression 'cheat', cheat who?

    If I want a burger and fries, I take the time to make a healthier version of these things.

    If I want a cupcake, I exercise extra hard that day to earn the 250 calories.

    After awhile, it is not worth the effort to cheat on myself.

    I also feel if you can control it, and it helps you the rest of the month, then 1 day a month out with friends eating junk aint gonna kill ya. The problem is I cannot stop once I start:laugh:
  • Fit4Penny
    Fit4Penny Posts: 75 Member
    I don't call it a cheat day/meal either, but I do allow myself to have whatever I want for dinner and dessert on Saturday nights as long as I stuck to my goals during the week. When I was younger it was an entire day, but that does not work for me now :(

    You will probably have to try it out for yourself and see if it works for you.
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