Should Charles Barkley apologize?

ninerbuff
ninerbuff Posts: 49,021 Member
I doubt if Charles Barkley researched San Antonio's ranking as one of the most obese cities in the US (ranked 3rd), so when he made his comment about " big ol women" in San Antonio, I believe it was in jest and for entertainment. Here's his comments during an "Inside the NBA" show:

Barkley had said on the nationally televised broadcast last week that San Antonio is a “gold mine for weight-watchers,” that there are “some big ol’ women down there” and “Victoria is definitely a secret [in San Antonio] … they can’t wear no Victoria’s Secret down there.”

Barkley was called to apologize for his comments, but refused on "Tip off" on TNT. If you know Charles Barkley, he's always rippin' on anyone (jokingly) that comes up in the conversation. He even rips on himself for being overweight. The National Association to Advance Fat Acceptance asked for his immediate apology.

I don't believe he needs to apologize. Thoughts?

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  • L4manski
    L4manski Posts: 1,012 Member
    He should not. The world is so Politically Correct now that you can't express opinions or feelings anymore without judgment and harassment. Its sad. People have become more opinionated and vocal on the internet and more reserved and afraid in the real world. God forbid someone say something that may hurt someone else's feelings out loud...
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    I don't think he should apologize unless he wants to. That being said, his comments were appalling.

    I know many people think that brutal honesty is motivational, but this wasn't brutal honesty, this was intentionally hurtful insults directed at the female population of an entire city. Not everyone finds drive and motivation in anger and hate.

    But again, everyone has a right to their own opinion. If he doesn't care what others think of his opinion, then he shouldn't bother apologizing.
  • IronPlayground
    IronPlayground Posts: 1,594 Member
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    Srs, tho! No, I really don't see the point in an apology.
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  • CassandraBurgos83
    CassandraBurgos83 Posts: 544 Member
    Everyone gets their panties twisted so easily these days....
  • FitWithWit44
    FitWithWit44 Posts: 412 Member
    No, but he should apologize for this

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  • whovian67
    whovian67 Posts: 608 Member
    No apologies needed. He can speak his mind. It is the 3rd Fattest city. I think he's on WW himself. People are allowed to speak their minds in the Good Ole Fat USA
  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,275 Member
    Charles Barkley should apologize for being Charles Barkley......\m/
  • FitWithWit44
    FitWithWit44 Posts: 412 Member
    and this

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  • DamePiglet
    DamePiglet Posts: 3,730 Member
    No, but he should apologize for this

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    HA! love it!!!


    Someone can ask for an apology, but if the person isn't sorry, well... that's the way it goes.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,021 Member
    Here's the clip:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iUsJZzW-a-g

    Charles cracks me up. On one after game review they put up a picture of "FloRida" with a bunch of jewelry on and Charles said "Man I'd knock da hell outta him if I saw him in an alley. Man that's a million dollas right there!"

    He's great entertainment. To me no different than a comedian rippin' on people.

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  • 1PatientBear
    1PatientBear Posts: 2,089 Member
    I grew up in San Antonio. He's right. Fact is, people tend to only get offended when something hits home because it's TRUE. No, he shouldn't apologize for speaking the truth. If the people in San Antonio get offended, get in the freakin gym and do something about it!!
  • cbarn025
    cbarn025 Posts: 939 Member
    Wait.....there is an organzation for the acceptance of fat ppl? WTF?
  • Swilla_Swole
    Swilla_Swole Posts: 333 Member
    Everyone gets their panties twisted so easily these days....

    I agree. We are supposed to be a progressive society but yet we are terribly sensitive.
  • Swilla_Swole
    Swilla_Swole Posts: 333 Member
    Wait.....there is an organzation for the acceptance of fat ppl? WTF?

    I think you just discovered your lifes work! :laugh:
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  • ren_ascent
    ren_ascent Posts: 432 Member
    Everyone owes everyone else an apology. I'll start. I would like to sincerely apologize for my lack of tolerance for stupid people. I understand stupid people can't help that they're stupid and I plan to make a donation to the Organization for the Acceptance of Stupid People in response to my intermittent disregard and insensitivity.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,021 Member
    Wait.....there is an organzation for the acceptance of fat ppl? WTF?
    Oh yeah! And it started in 1969 I believe. I'm thinking they didn't think the actual weight limits would reach this magnitude!
    They have a convention every year in the summer. I saw it on Penn & Teller's "Bull****".

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  • AtticWindow
    AtticWindow Posts: 295 Member
    I think in a sea of lots of other terrible **** being said, notably humorous Charles Barkley can have a pass; it's not like he implied that fat people are disgusting or anything (lookin' at you, PeTA). If San Antonio has a high population of fat women, Weight Watchers would likely do well down there. It's logical! (I get that he was joking and not making an argument for the company's success, I'm not obtuse.)

    HOWEVER, as slightly overweight girl myself, I gotta say, VS clothes are SUPER FLATTERING and they have more generous sizing options than you might expect from their models :tongue: Plus they have pants with 34 and 36 inch inseams, which makes me so happy.
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    AtticWindow Posts: 295 Member
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  • AtticWindow
    AtticWindow Posts: 295 Member
    I am just. So. Technologically challenged. Ugh.
  • MuscleAndMascara
    MuscleAndMascara Posts: 1,260 Member
    Wait.....there is an organzation for the acceptance of fat ppl? WTF?

    I was wondering the same thing!! :noway:

    and NO!! He should not have to apologize for freedom of speech.
  • AtticWindow
    AtticWindow Posts: 295 Member
    Wait.....there is an organzation for the acceptance of fat ppl? WTF?

    I was wondering the same thing!! :noway:

    and NO!! He should not have to apologize for freedom of speech.

    I mean, freedom of speech only applies to the government telling you what to say. Freedom of speech doesn't give people the right to spew bull**** without being criticized. It's definitely being misinterpreted as the latter more and more these days, though.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Wait.....there is an organzation for the acceptance of fat ppl? WTF?

    I was wondering the same thing!! :noway:

    and NO!! He should not have to apologize for freedom of speech.

    I mean, freedom of speech only applies to the government telling you what to say. Freedom of speech doesn't give people the right to spew bull**** without being criticized. It's definitely being misinterpreted as the latter more and more these days, though.

    Criticism is one thing. Trying to force others to take away an individual's livelihood for expressing their opinion is another.

    The first amendment denies government the power to take away an individual's freedom to say whatever they want (with certain restrictions specific to harming children or slandering others). It does not at all refer to an individual expressing an unpopular opinion. There is no law that forbids people from expressing their opinions and the government can not pass any laws that forbid such. That is what freedom of speech really means.
  • parkscs
    parkscs Posts: 1,639 Member
    Looks like Charles' just being funny to me, but I'm not surprised there's a lot of pressure on him to apologize. If you think back a few months to how much backlash there was to Maria Kang posting a simple picture, you have to imagine cracking fat jokes on national television would get him a lot of criticism. Personally I think people get offended way too easily these days.
  • MuscleAndMascara
    MuscleAndMascara Posts: 1,260 Member
    Wait.....there is an organzation for the acceptance of fat ppl? WTF?

    I was wondering the same thing!! :noway:

    and NO!! He should not have to apologize for freedom of speech.

    I mean, freedom of speech only applies to the government telling you what to say. Freedom of speech doesn't give people the right to spew bull**** without being criticized. It's definitely being misinterpreted as the latter more and more these days, though.

    Criticism is one thing. Trying to force others to take away an individual's livelihood for expressing their opinion is another.

    The first amendment denies government the power to take away an individual's freedom to say whatever they want (with certain restrictions specific to harming children or slandering others). It does not at all refer to an individual expressing an unpopular opinion. There is no law that forbids people from expressing their opinions and the government can not pass any laws that forbid such. That is what freedom of speech really means.

    so back to what I was saying, the man has the rite to say whatever he wants. Just as they have a rite to get bent about whatever they want. They can not demand him to apologize.
  • T_Roc
    T_Roc Posts: 65 Member
    He has said worse.
  • SavageAbbey
    SavageAbbey Posts: 79
    I don't think he should apologize. I'm tired of the PC police.
  • joehempel
    joehempel Posts: 1,543 Member
    One....like other people were shocked to find out....there's an association for the acceptance of fat people?? weird....no worse than NAMBLA though, there's an organization for everything.

    Two...Charles is being Charles, hell no he shouldn't apologize!