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stalled out

Please help. I've been stalled for 3 weeks and before I get the same old answers, YES I weigh EVERYTHING and am eating at a deficit. I work out everyday 30 min to an hour circuit training. My diary is open so could someone please give me some advice. Everyone on here says the starvation mode doesn't exist so I shouldn't need to eat more. I'm burning way more than I eat. I've lost 20 lbs since Jan but still have 20 to go. What can I do to give me kick back into gear? Starting to get very frustrated!!!! Let myself eat banana bread this morning:(
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  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    Have you done a research about metabolism. So you have basically hit a plateau where what you are doing is not changing anything. I would recommend eat less workout less or eat more workout more. When you research metabolism plenty of places will recommend that.
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    NOt all your entries reflect weight...ie cereals, chex mix 1c, peaches 1/2cup...

    As for being stalled for 3 weeks...I see in your log on Friday it is at 584calories...did you forget to log a meal or two?

    It appears as though you log under 1k calories everyday almost...you don't eat back exercise calories...

    YOu shouldn't be burning more than you eat...you are putting a lot of stress on your body currently which has probably raised cortisol levels which is causing water retention which is masking weight loss.

    Suggestion..eat more food. esp with 16lbs to go. You should have a goal of 1/2lb a week...

    I am a bit younger than you but not by much and I lose weight on 1900 calories a day...cripes I could lose on 2k a day.
  • CindyB97
    CindyB97 Posts: 146 Member
    In my opinion you are not eating nearly enough. You are below 1200 most days, and I saw at least one day where you were below 700. If you are exercising (which most days showed you were), you need to eat back those calories in addition to eating your calorie goal for the day. Don't be afraid to eat!

    I stalled for the longest time too, and just recently I took others' advice here and added more calories by changing my MFP goal from "lose 1 pound per week" to "lose 1/2 pound per week". Not only did I start losing again, I'm less tired and cranky. You need to fuel your body or your metabolism will slow down (or whatever the scientific term is).

    Eat more! Sounds counter-intuitive but it works.
  • eldamiano
    eldamiano Posts: 2,667 Member
    Oh yes, the 'I weigh everything, I eat at a calorie deficit religiously' type. There are so many, and then there are also the ones who do lose weight.

    You clearly dont, because if you were eating at a deficit, then you would be losing weight.
  • wink212
    wink212 Posts: 46 Member
    @eldamiano- Sorry to break it to you but I do. I weigh every single thing that goes into my mouth unless I'm out to eat and in that case I use the nutrition info from the restaurant. I have way too much to do to waste my time asking for advice on here if I wasn't being truthful. There are some days I may forget to log what I ate but I'm ALWAYS under 1200. That is a deficit and I have lost 20 I'm just stalled. If you're not on here to help then why are you wasting my time by replying?
  • Francl27
    Francl27 Posts: 26,371 Member
    Give it another couple weeks... 3 week stalls happen, honestly (although 1200 is too little food in the first place).
  • LoosingMyLast15
    LoosingMyLast15 Posts: 1,457 Member
    @eldamiano- Sorry to break it to you but I do. I weigh every single thing that goes into my mouth unless I'm out to eat and in that case I use the nutrition info from the restaurant. I have way too much to do to waste my time asking for advice on here if I wasn't being truthful. There are some days I may forget to log what I ate but I'm ALWAYS under 1200. That is a deficit and I have lost 20 I'm just stalled. If you're not on here to help then why are you wasting my time by replying?

    are you positive about your exercise calorie burns because they seem very high to me. i ran 5.5 miles last weekend and only burned 600. one day you have 947 exercise calories burned. also you are eating very little. you're barely above 900 calories most days. you should be NETTING 1200 calories or more. being under all the time will help you drop a few pounds fast but it's not sustainable and you're going to gain them back unless you plan on eating 900 calories a day for the rest of your life.

    if you are exercising like your burns show (which to me are very high) then you need to fuel your body and well right now you're not.

    there's nothing wrong with having a banana - a SMALL banana is around 100 calories. bananas are good for you.

    your body needs fuel and you're not giving it what it wants so it's gonna hold on to whatever it can get to keep you functioning. to fix this you need to eat more good for your body food.
  • wink212
    wink212 Posts: 46 Member
    I use a polar HRM to calculate my calorie burn. I don't eat back my exercise calories because I'm not sure how accurate they are.
    I'm terrified of going over calories so I try to stay close but always under.
  • LoosingMyLast15
    LoosingMyLast15 Posts: 1,457 Member
    I use a polar HRM to calculate my calorie burn. I don't eat back my exercise calories because I'm not sure how accurate they are.
    I'm terrified of going over calories so I try to stay close but always under.

    okay so you're not sure how accurate your exercise calories are plus you're afraid to eat over your 1200 so lately you've been eating under 1000 and you're still not loosing. so since you're not loosing anymore what do you do - drop your calories even lower plus CONTINUE exercising at the level your exercising and assume nothing is going to go wrong?

    clearly dropping your calories is not working (because you're stalled) why not try the opposite and increase your calories. what's the worst that's gonna happen?
  • wink212
    wink212 Posts: 46 Member
    NOt all your entries reflect weight...ie cereals, chex mix 1c, peaches 1/2cup...

    As for being stalled for 3 weeks...I see in your log on Friday it is at 584calories...did you forget to log a meal or two?

    It appears as though you log under 1k calories everyday almost...you don't eat back exercise calories...

    YOu shouldn't be burning more than you eat...you are putting a lot of stress on your body currently which has probably raised cortisol levels which is causing water retention which is masking weight loss.

    Suggestion..eat more food. esp with 16lbs to go. You should have a goal of 1/2lb a week...

    I am a bit younger than you but not by much and I lose weight on 1900 calories a day...cripes I could lose on 2k a day.


    There were a few days I didn't feel well and didn't feel like eating in the evening so I know I was way under those days. Most days I hover at 1000
  • StaciMarie1974
    StaciMarie1974 Posts: 4,138 Member
    What you're doing isn't working. The only logical thing anyone here can think to suggest is to eat more. What's the harm?

    Starvation mode doesn't exist in the way the myth assumes. But the body won't necessarily respond the way you want it to, if you don't properly care for it. You could keep at what you're doing, eventually your weight would continue downward but at the expense of damage to your organs, skin, hair, nails, etc. Not to mention the damage done to your muscles as your body consumes muscle mass in addition to fat for energy stores. So why not try for 2 weeks eating at 1200-1500 total calories.
  • wink212
    wink212 Posts: 46 Member
    Thanks so much you guys! I'm terrified of eating more but I'll give it a shot. If I gain I'm hunting you all down :)
  • PJPrimrose
    PJPrimrose Posts: 916 Member
    @eldamiano- Sorry to break it to you but I do. I weigh every single thing that goes into my mouth unless I'm out to eat and in that case I use the nutrition info from the restaurant. I have way too much to do to waste my time asking for advice on here if I wasn't being truthful. There are some days I may forget to log what I ate but I'm ALWAYS under 1200. That is a deficit and I have lost 20 I'm just stalled. If you're not on here to help then why are you wasting my time by replying?


    Eating too low will cost you muscle weight. It will lower your metabolism when it does. Eating under 1200, especially while working out, is NOT good for you. You WILL stall out if you starve yourself.

    About weighting vs cups. IDK if this is the case here, but I will weight the grams on a food for 1/2 cup according to the package. IE... package says food XYZ is 1/2 cup (74 grams) I will weigh out 74 grams and list it as 1/2 cup if there is no grams listing.
  • lemon629
    lemon629 Posts: 501 Member
    I hit a plateau several weeks ago and increased my calorie goal slightly from 1500 to 1600 last week. Because my calorie goal was higher, I also ate back less of my calories burned (approximately half or less). I lost half a pound last week, my first loss since early April.
  • wilsoje74
    wilsoje74 Posts: 1,720 Member
    how do you get your exercise burns? Seem a bit high.
    Maybe get checked out at the doctor, because eating only 1000 cal you should definately be losing weight. Maybe you have a medical issue.
  • lavaughan69
    lavaughan69 Posts: 459 Member
    I've had plenty of three week stalls over the past year. Try not to get to stressed about it, maybe even relax a bit on your exercise for a week and try to eat your 1200 calories. As long as you're confident that you're weighing and measuring everything accurately then the weight will come off.
  • wink212
    wink212 Posts: 46 Member
    @eldamiano- Sorry to break it to you but I do. I weigh every single thing that goes into my mouth unless I'm out to eat and in that case I use the nutrition info from the restaurant. I have way too much to do to waste my time asking for advice on here if I wasn't being truthful. There are some days I may forget to log what I ate but I'm ALWAYS under 1200. That is a deficit and I have lost 20 I'm just stalled. If you're not on here to help then why are you wasting my time by replying?


    Eating too low will cost you muscle weight. It will lower your metabolism when it does. Eating under 1200, especially while working out, is NOT good for you. You WILL stall out if you starve yourself.

    About weighting vs cups. IDK if this is the case here, but I will weight the grams on a food for 1/2 cup according to the package. IE... package says food XYZ is 1/2 cup (74 grams) I will weigh out 74 grams and list it as 1/2 cup if there is no grams listing.

    That's exactly what I do. I don't have time to scroll through all the foods in the mfp database to find each one with grams listed. Some only have cup or 1/2 cup. I weigh it then use the equivalent.
  • wink212
    wink212 Posts: 46 Member
    how do you get your exercise burns? Seem a bit high.
    Maybe get checked out at the doctor, because eating only 1000 cal you should definately be losing weight. Maybe you have a medical issue.

    I use a HRM that tells me how many calories I burn.
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    Please help. I've been stalled for 3 weeks and before I get the same old answers, YES I weigh EVERYTHING and am eating at a deficit. I work out everyday 30 min to an hour circuit training. My diary is open so could someone please give me some advice. Everyone on here says the starvation mode doesn't exist so I shouldn't need to eat more. I'm burning way more than I eat. I've lost 20 lbs since Jan but still have 20 to go. What can I do to give me kick back into gear? Starting to get very frustrated!!!! Let myself eat banana bread this morning:(
    Do you log everything you eat? Your diary reflects that you are eating 500-1100 calories a day. 20 pounds list from Jan to 3 weeks ago is about 1.5 to 2 pounds a week, so my guess from that is inaccurate logging. EAting that little it seems you should have lost more.

    If you were eating that little now you would be losing weight, so something has changed.

    Have you had your thyroid checked? Are you on new meds that can inhibit weight loss.

    Make sure you are tracking exercise calories accurately as well.
  • serindipte
    serindipte Posts: 1,557 Member
    What is your height/weight?
  • lindsey1979
    lindsey1979 Posts: 2,395 Member
    It's water retention -- some women can retain up to 10 lbs of water, which could easily mask up to 10 weeks of hard work (if she was losing at 1 lb/week).

    Weighing food is really important to be sure of your calories, but it looks like you're doing that already. Eating more can help in a specific way -- it can help counter some of the stress responses by the body reacting to a prolonged caloric deficit or overtraining from too much exercise (cortisol being one of the most popular suspects). That is the whole idea behind calorie cycling and refeeds -- to help counter those stress responses that can leave you feeling so tire, run down, cranky, etc. in addition to the frustration of not seeing the scale move.

    Here are two good articles on it that I'd recommend:

    www.bodyrecomposition.com/fat-loss/of-whooshes-and-squishy-fat.html
    leangains.com/2010/01/how-to-deal-with-water-retention-part_28.html
  • wink212
    wink212 Posts: 46 Member
    What is your height/weight?

    150 5'3"
  • Aaron_K123
    Aaron_K123 Posts: 7,122 Member
    Please help. I've been stalled for 3 weeks and before I get the same old answers, YES I weigh EVERYTHING and am eating at a deficit. I work out everyday 30 min to an hour circuit training. My diary is open so could someone please give me some advice. Everyone on here says the starvation mode doesn't exist so I shouldn't need to eat more. I'm burning way more than I eat. I've lost 20 lbs since Jan but still have 20 to go. What can I do to give me kick back into gear? Starting to get very frustrated!!!! Let myself eat banana bread this morning:(

    3 weeks isn't very long, could just be random water retention while your fat loss is actually continuing along just fine. If you were maintaining for months that is one thing, but three weeks isn't very long.
  • eldamiano
    eldamiano Posts: 2,667 Member
    @eldamiano- Sorry to break it to you but I do. I weigh every single thing that goes into my mouth unless I'm out to eat and in that case I use the nutrition info from the restaurant. I have way too much to do to waste my time asking for advice on here if I wasn't being truthful. There are some days I may forget to log what I ate but I'm ALWAYS under 1200. That is a deficit and I have lost 20 I'm just stalled. If you're not on here to help then why are you wasting my time by replying?

    Sorry to break it to you, but why does this situation occur to so many people, whereas on the other hand, loads of other people lose weight while mysteriously eating at a calorie deficit? It isnt rocket science.

    I am not wasting your time. You are wasting your own time by replying to a post which you think is pointless
  • psych101
    psych101 Posts: 1,842 Member
    Have you thought about switching to TDEE - % instead of following MFP? Though if it's only been 3 weeks could be fluid masking things?
  • wink212
    wink212 Posts: 46 Member
    @eldamiano- Sorry to break it to you but I do. I weigh every single thing that goes into my mouth unless I'm out to eat and in that case I use the nutrition info from the restaurant. I have way too much to do to waste my time asking for advice on here if I wasn't being truthful. There are some days I may forget to log what I ate but I'm ALWAYS under 1200. That is a deficit and I have lost 20 I'm just stalled. If you're not on here to help then why are you wasting my time by replying?

    Sorry to break it to you, but why does this situation occur to so many people, whereas on the other hand, loads of other people lose weight while mysteriously eating at a calorie deficit? It isnt rocket science.

    I am not wasting your time. You are wasting your own time by replying to a post which you think is pointless

    Sorry to break it to you but loads of people also have the same problems. I'm wasting my time with you because I don't appreciate being called a liar. I wouldn't be on here if I didn't really want help. I wouldn't ask for help then not be honest about what I've been doing because that wouldn't help me would it? If you're not here to help leave it alone.
  • wilsoje74
    wilsoje74 Posts: 1,720 Member
    how do you get your exercise burns? Seem a bit high.
    Maybe get checked out at the doctor, because eating only 1000 cal you should definately be losing weight. Maybe you have a medical issue.

    I use a HRM that tells me how many calories I burn.
    what kind of exercise?
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    how do you get your exercise burns? Seem a bit high.
    Maybe get checked out at the doctor, because eating only 1000 cal you should definately be losing weight. Maybe you have a medical issue.

    I use a HRM that tells me how many calories I burn.
    what kind of exercise?
    In her exercise diary I see kickboxing and circuit training.

    OP, HRM are not accurate for kickboxing or circuit training because they are not steady state cardio. Your numbers look pretty inflated as well. I'd say therein lies the problem to your stall.

    Plus, your ticker shows you have 16 pounds left to lose. You need to lose that slow anyway to sustain your weight loss long term.
  • wink212
    wink212 Posts: 46 Member
    how do you get your exercise burns? Seem a bit high.
    Maybe get checked out at the doctor, because eating only 1000 cal you should definately be losing weight. Maybe you have a medical issue.

    I use a HRM that tells me how many calories I burn.
    what kind of exercise?
    In her exercise diary I see kickboxing and circuit training.

    OP, HRM are not accurate for kickboxing or circuit training because they are not steady state cardio. Your numbers look pretty inflated as well. I'd say therein lies the problem to your stall.

    Plus, your ticker shows you have 16 pounds left to lose. You need to lose that slow anyway to sustain your weight loss long term.

    so then how do I calculate my burn. My numbers are always lower than the mfp database. That's also why I never eat back my exercise calories.
  • lindsey1979
    lindsey1979 Posts: 2,395 Member
    @eldamiano- Sorry to break it to you but I do. I weigh every single thing that goes into my mouth unless I'm out to eat and in that case I use the nutrition info from the restaurant. I have way too much to do to waste my time asking for advice on here if I wasn't being truthful. There are some days I may forget to log what I ate but I'm ALWAYS under 1200. That is a deficit and I have lost 20 I'm just stalled. If you're not on here to help then why are you wasting my time by replying?

    Sorry to break it to you, but why does this situation occur to so many people, whereas on the other hand, loads of other people lose weight while mysteriously eating at a calorie deficit? It isnt rocket science.

    I am not wasting your time. You are wasting your own time by replying to a post which you think is pointless

    Don't listen to Eldamiano. You were losing weight before, so you obviously know how to create a deficit. The reality is that some people will continue to lose in a more linear, consistent fashion and other will lose in fits and starts -- their weight loss trends would look steady and then drop a lot of weight in a few days. It's all due to water retention and they don't seem to really know why some hold onto more and some don't -- but it's a pretty common phenomenon.

    Really, check out the Lyle McDonald articles -- he explains this in depth, to the extent an explanation is possible. It's been only three weeks - keep doing what you're doing and you'll experience the whoosh soon enough.

    http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/fat-loss/not-losing-fat-at-20-deficit-what-should-i-do-qa.html
    http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/fat-loss/of-whooshes-and-squishy-fat.html