New here and would love support. :)

Hi! I don't have much to lose, I'm a healthy weight. But my friends are heavier than me and look much better. I've accept I'm an hourglass shape and have very wide hips but would love it if my body parts didn't wobble so much down there...! I would love to add some friends so i can keep on track and any advice, both critical and non-critical would be appreciated. Add me. ^-^