Lazy Girl...HELP!

I'm lazy as hell too and it has nothing to do with my weight, it's just part of who I am. It's much more fun to sit around and watch silly videos on YouTube and/or play on my tablet than clean the house...obviously.

I've learned to play mind games with myself. I have to switch off the TV and put the tablet away until the housework is done. I'll allow myself to take breaks sometimes if I'm doing some above and beyond cleaning (like washing the windows) but will set a timer so I only have 10-15 minutes then I have to get going again.

Once I'm done with what I need to do, I can sit around all I want satisfied with a job well done. It takes some time to break the old habits but you can do it if you really want to.

For me, the act of moving produces more motivation. When I feel like I've accomplished something and I feel the endorphins from a good bout of exercise being released, it spurs me to do more. If you're a tv/movie freak (like myself), keep something in the living room to jump on and do during commercial breaks. Make it a goal that during one show, exercise during every commercial break. You can get in a good bit that way, and kill two birds with entertainment and health.
I keep a Simply Fit board (it's a crossover balance and twist board, is silent, small, and gets a good burn on), and a T-Bow board in the living room. I also keep some dumbbells in there. If I'm sitting on the sofa and they're staring me in the face, it's like the angel on the shoulder, telling you to do something good

With that said, exercise is great for your heart, your health and your state of mind, but it doesn't play a huge factor in weight loss unless that's all you do for hours per day. If your major concern is weight loss, you need to focus on your diet, and exercise will help nudge it along.

I have a tendency to be lazy, also. I've adopted a "for five minutes" philosophy. Instead of telling myself I'll do something IN 5 minutes, I do it FOR 5 minutes. I used to set a timer, even, so I could go back to being lazy the moment those 5 minutes were up. Now I don't, and I have a greater tendency to finish my task before lazy-butting. I also agree with the previous poster, about checking out flylady, though even that I wasn't able to stick with. :laugh:

Also, if you're suffering from depression, have you considered speaking with a therapist or your doctor about it? I lost my job over depression once upon a time (and our house looked... well... I wont even go there!), and I know how debilitating it can be. The good news is, exercise is an incredible antidepressant! Chances are, if you get yourself moving, you'll experience fewer depression symptoms. Still, worthy of speaking to your doctor about.

Good luck! Go do something for 5 minutes.

I use to be so lazy and still have my days. My key to getting up and moving is music. I find if I get up eat, chill for a bit and then turn on some music and dance my way through a clean house. By the time I am done I am looking for something else to do. I also drink a lot of water now instead of pop and other things. I realize now that lots of the foods I was eating were making me crash.

I am SUPERRRRR lazy so here are my tips.

I won't go into too much detail bc, like I said, I'm lazy but here it goes.

To maximize productivity in the corporate world I recommend a book called "Getting Things Done" by David Allen.
When I worked in corporate and applied the principles in this book, I shaved HOURS off my insane work day.
It's an easy read. But you must implement the suggestions for it to be worth it.

As for my fit life:

I realized that I am not as lazy as I always thought. Don't get me wrong, "Sloth" is still one of my deadly sins, but it's not as bad as I thought. It is not that I HATE working out period! I just hate doing most gym workouts.
The thought of lifting dumbbells and running on a treadmill give me an anxiety attack, that's much I hate it.

Now, I've had to find ways to enjoy working out.

For example, I found out years ago that I adore Brazillian Jiu-Jitsu, Muay Thai and practicing yoga at a small studio.

Unfortunately, because of logistics and budget, I can no longer do the only exercise I enjoyed so I had to go back to the drawing board.

Now, I regularly do the following:

• Running (Only outside and before sunrise --otherwise it still sucks)
• Yoga DVDs
• Pilates DVDs
• Hula Hoop
• Barre/baller
• Trampoline
and I just started kettlebells (They are awesome!!! so much more fun for me than machines or dumbbells --probably a psychological thing)

Anyway, the point is that the secret to staying fit and active is finding something that your really enjoy.

When most people think of "working out" they immediately think: Lifting and Cardio Machine

Although I really wish I was one of those people with a gym membership that bust their *kitten* efficiently at the gym and just get 'er done; I'm just not one of them.

There are many, many ways to get fit. Find something that you have fun doing and then creating a habit of it won't feel like a chore, but rather something that you will look forward to.

Best of luck on your journey. You can do this!!!

I guess my advice, take it or leave it, is this. You are very aware of the problem. You either want to change it or you don't, and you know that YOU are the only person who can change this quality about you. It's tough, I know. I work 40 hours a week, have 2 teenage girls, a fiance, and 3 dogs, and a house to run/keep clean, but my choice is that if I don't take care of me and be productive, that I am the one that suffers first and foremost and everyone else would suffer as well. So I choose me!! I choose to make sure I am eating well, I choose to work out every day, even on the days I don't feel like it, because once I start making excuses like, "It's just one day, what does it hurt", that is when it begins trickle down into the next day and the next, and truthfully I am WORTH the work, and so are you!! Feeling bad? Going to sit down and watch The Office again?? Realize that is the source of the problem, put on a pair of tennis shoes a go outside and take a nice walk!! You are worth it and you CAN do it!

Yep.

When it comes to keeping my home and such things I too am incredibly lazy. Some of it I think comes from I'd rather do something I enjoy instead of something I don't but there comes a point where you just have to get off your *kitten* and do the stuff. Changes won't happen unless you make an effort and a point to do make the change. I saw a therapist many, many, many years ago about some of this and my depression and she said instead of being all upset about not doing A LOT of work all at once try doing it in smaller chunks. So, today I'm going to dust and feel good about the fact that I did do something instead of being upset that you didn't clean the whole house.

In the end though it comes down to choices....are we going to CHOOSE to be a lazy fat *kitten* or are we going to get up and do something, that after we do it will make us feel good about the accomplishment?

Henry Ford said: "whether you think you can, or think you can't YOU are right... tie that to everything that you think, say, do, or don't do... YOU SAY, think, feel you are lazy... therefore you ARE. changing your self defeating thought patterns is the only thing that will lead you to succeed...unless you don't want to succeed... THE blame lies solely with YOU... not your parents, not your friends, not your environment, not your genetics.. it lies with YOUR conscious thoughts... and because you are packing a few extra pounds... you give yourself permission to BE... because the alternative involves change... and change is a scary thing...it creates problems... and who needs more problems on top of the health issues you will be or already have developed? YOU have taken a step... you are here... which means at some base level you have decided you need to do something to help yourself... CONGRATULATIONS!!!

that was the first step and it wasn't so bad was it? ...NOW... all you need is to take the next step in your journey of 10 000 steps...
BE the person you want to be... don't settle for the person you currently see in the mirror.. are you NOT worth more than that? DO you not deserve more than that?

whether you think you can, or think you can't....

I think we've all gone through this, but it's the getting out of it that is the toughest part! I started a 100 days of fitness and am now on my 25th day. My goal is to exercise for 60 minutes everyday for 100 day and using MFP has given me accountability of what I put in my mouth. I started this, because just like you I was just sitting on the couch watching too much tv. Don't allow yourself to continue this trend. When a commercial comes on, just get up and walk around your coffee table or just get up and walk in place until the commercial is over. Imagine how much exercise you will get done just by doing this. Try it for one day and don't give up! Our bodies need to exercise in order for those endorphins to be released, which in turn bring us happiness!

You are a smart individual, who just needs a little kick in the butt to get moving! Love yourself, because only you can make yourself happy! You must also stop making excuses for the lazy part! Just get up and get moving! Good luck! We are all here for any moral support!

Yeah, I probably should've mentioned this inthe original post. I have been diagnosed with Major Depression, with a general anxiety disorder and an eating disorder.....all of this, especially the depression, makes it so hard to get up off the couch and do what I know needs to be done.

It's tough! But that doesn't mean you can't get help and change your patterns and circumstances. Sometimes "just doing it" isn't enough, ya know? At the depths of my depression, there's absolutely no way I'd be able to "just do it" and log calories, get up and exercise, clean the house, and so on. I needed help before I could do ANY of that.

In short, you're NOT lazy! What you're experiencing has nothing to do with laziness. I'd vote it's more likely related to your diagnoses. Are you receiving help for any of it? Because that would be a great place to start, to shed yourself of being "lazy," or the conditions that are causing it, so that you CAN just do it.

I think most people enjoy being lazy. I am a procrastinator when it comes to chores, laundry, whatever isn't fun really, but I always get it done. I hate being bored and wasting time, which is why i work 7 days a week lol. Here's the thing... it all comes down to how bad you want it. If you want to make a change, you'll do it. You'll hit the gym, clean the house, do your laundry, whatever it is. If it bothers you so much and you're so aware of it, make an effort to change. Being lazy is just another excuse (not to sound harsh). Don't waste your life being lazy, be productive. I guarantee once you start feeling the highs of completing things you'll wanna keep doing it!

--> just saw you have severe depression... i would suggest seeking professional help, it's not just an issue of being lazy if that's the case!

HabitRPG is a fun to do list. You make an avatar and get "gold" coins for doing you chores. It may motivate you out of your chair.

I have a tendency to be lazy, also. I've adopted a "for five minutes" philosophy. Instead of telling myself I'll do something IN 5 minutes, I do it FOR 5 minutes. I used to set a timer, even, so I could go back to being lazy the moment those 5 minutes were up. Now I don't, and I have a greater tendency to finish my task before lazy-butting. I also agree with the previous poster, about checking out flylady, though even that I wasn't able to stick with. :laugh:

Also, if you're suffering from depression, have you considered speaking with a therapist or your doctor about it? I lost my job over depression once upon a time (and our house looked... well... I wont even go there!), and I know how debilitating it can be. The good news is, exercise is an incredible antidepressant! Chances are, if you get yourself moving, you'll experience fewer depression symptoms. Still, worthy of speaking to your doctor about.

Good luck! Go do something for 5 minutes.

I could have written this myself. I often set my phone timer for five minutes in a room and then move on to the next, doing a little circuit. In my most extreme lazy times I reduce the time further. I've gone as low as 30 seconds, alternating a task I absolutely did not want to do (study Mandarin) with a task that seemed like a great diversion (clean the kitchen). I'm about to use it right now to do some fiscal year end tax crap that I have been procrastinating doing for forever. BUT keeping busy isn't the perfect solution to losing weight, tracking your calories and staying with a small but consistent deficit is.