Should we allow euthanasia?

ninerbuff
ninerbuff Posts: 49,024 Member
I'm sure sooner than later this will end up being on a bill. I currently have a good friend who's terminal with a rare cancer. She's down to 80lbs, and in hospice. Every 15 minutes she has to hit a pain button to release morphine to tolerate pain. She wants to die with dignity, but doesn't want to break the law to do it.
The cost of care is tolling on the family and she does have a small charity trying to help them out. But she's been in hospice for over 5 weeks now and she wants to let go, but somehow is still surviving.
So should euthanasia be allowed in circumstances like this?

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  • besaro
    besaro Posts: 1,858 Member
    it already exists in oregon, since late 90s actually. i wont get into states rights vs federal, but, im glad i live in oregon.
  • George_Baileys_Ghost
    George_Baileys_Ghost Posts: 1,524 Member
    I was really in support of this post until I realized that it didn't say "enthusiasm".
  • broox80
    broox80 Posts: 1,195 Member
    The youth in Asia are just as important as the youth in America!!!! Oh wait......
  • Sabine_Stroehm
    Sabine_Stroehm Posts: 19,263 Member
    Very sorry your friend has to go through this.

    Absolutely. OREGON has it right.

    A family member moved to oregon upon diagnosis, in case it was needed. It was.
  • emdeesea
    emdeesea Posts: 1,823 Member
    Yes. We treat our companion animals far kinder.

    I worked for a short time on an oncology floor. There is nothing dignified in losing your hair, puking up everything you eat, and being in pain all the time, every day, until your organs finally shut down.
  • PinkyFett
    PinkyFett Posts: 842 Member
    Yes. Definitely.
  • alychil820
    alychil820 Posts: 219 Member
    Absolutely! People should have the right to end their lives with dignity and on their terms. In Oregon, the patient needs to be able to administer euthanasia themselves - doctors will write the prescription, but they aren't allowed to administer the treatment. I think that's a start, but I'd like to see euthanasia being delivered by healthcare providers if necessary - like in cases where the patient can't self-medicate, such as with ALS.
  • FJcntdwn2sknyluv
    FJcntdwn2sknyluv Posts: 651 Member
    http://euthanasia.procon.org/view.resource.php?resourceID=000132

    It didn't come without it's controversy but I'm glad that the 2 states I have lived in have passed it Oregon and Washington :) People should have the right to end it in cases like your speaking of...

    I'm sorry for your friend and send thoughts of release to them *hug*
  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    I've been on both sides of this - as a caregiver, and now as the patient.
    I worked in health care for years, and watched patients die slowly in pain, knowing that nothing would stop their deaths. The agony they suffered, and the expensive care they received that left immense bills for their families to pay afterward, were just senseless. Some of them wept and wished for it all to end. Why shouldn't they have that right? We make that decision for our pets when they are suffering; we should do no less for our family members.

    Now, I've been diagnosed with a disease that will sometime in the next two to ten years render me terminally ill and cause a slow and painful death for me. I'll eventually sleep more and more and lose the ability to care for myself, and suffer. There will be no saving me. When that day comes, I would like to have the right to decide when it's time to end my life with dignity and to save my family the pain of watching me suffer slowly and wait for me to finally die.

    Euthanasia is just the right thing to do.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    Absolutely.

    ETA: The one thing that absolutely every human being should have is the sovereignty of their own body. If they choose to no longer live, they should be allowed that choice, because no other person has the right to tell them they have to live.
  • SunofaBeach14
    SunofaBeach14 Posts: 4,899 Member
    At risk of wading into what will undoubtedly be a train wreck, let me say (1) I'm very sorry, and (2) yes. Self determination is a big one for me and I think we all have a right to it, perhaps subject to serious mental health issues, but that's not part of the above question.
  • JenAndSome
    JenAndSome Posts: 1,893 Member
    Yes, it absolutely should be allowed. I will never understand why we grant animals more dignity in death than we do our loved ones.
  • kinkyslinky16
    kinkyslinky16 Posts: 1,469 Member
    I'm a nurse and most definitely think it should be allowed.
  • Such a difficult time OP. I do hope that your friend is peaceful soon.
  • blakedebo
    blakedebo Posts: 130 Member
    I absolutely believe we should "allow" people, and allow doctors to assist when necessary, to die with dignity. I do not understand the opposition to this, and I am not trying to bait or offend anyone, I genuinely do not understand the reasoning behind not allowing someone the right to pass with dignity and at their choosing.
  • Forty6and2
    Forty6and2 Posts: 2,492 Member
    I agree with euthanasia for sure. Last semester, I had to do blog posts on news articles and one that I did was on a little girl who was deprived of oxygen for so long that she was going to die in a matter of days. The hospital she was at did not allow euthanasia (it was in Texas) so they "withheld nutrition" to make her go faster. I couldn't imagine being her mother, sister, aunt, etc and having to watch this little girl starve to death. Maybe she couldn't feel it, but does that mean her family doesn't matter?

    Also in Texas, there was a pregnant woman who died and her baby was also deprived of oxygen (she was in the first trimester, I believe) and the hospital kept her on life support for more than a month to "save" the baby. There was no way her baby could have been saved, it was not viable outside the womb and it wasn't getting proper nutrition from its dead mother.

    It's sad that our culture is more ok with executing a criminal (and try to do it humanely) but we won't do the same for a child or let a pregnant woman die peacefully? Ridiculous, really.
  • tmauck4472
    tmauck4472 Posts: 1,785 Member
    Def. YES. And because I believe in it my MOM won't let me be her POA for living will, LOL, she doesn't understand it.
  • kdeaux1959
    kdeaux1959 Posts: 2,675 Member
    My mom is in a similar, though not yet as dire situation. She is 99 lbs with lung cancer and on hospice. It does make one re-evaluate one's stand on such matters.
  • mank32
    mank32 Posts: 1,323 Member
    as someone who has tried (and failed) to end my life on account of chronic pain, i approve this discussion. and yes, i'm pro-. it wasn't the answer for me, but some people are much worse off than i ever was and i can understand (a bit of) how they feel. :brokenheart:
  • Golightly17
    Golightly17 Posts: 347 Member
    I think that people should have the right the end their life with dignity.
  • As a nurse, I wholeheartedly agree.

    As a daughter who cared for both of her rather young parents who were dying tragically (at separate times)... I would have preferred my father have that option (and he did have that option since we live in Oregon,) but chose to not exercise it.
  • randomusername5
    randomusername5 Posts: 36 Member
    Yes.
  • jenilla1
    jenilla1 Posts: 11,118 Member
    Yes. We treat our companion animals far kinder.

    I worked for a short time on an oncology floor. There is nothing dignified in losing your hair, puking up everything you eat, and being in pain all the time, every day, until your organs finally shut down.

    Agreed. :brokenheart:
  • VBnotbitter
    VBnotbitter Posts: 820 Member
    Yes. Even though my job is resuscitation I spend far more time advocating for my patients to have a peaceful, dignified end.
  • JenniCali1000
    JenniCali1000 Posts: 646 Member
    Absolutely, 100%!
  • EricJonrosh
    EricJonrosh Posts: 823 Member
    Euthanasia is a political slippery slope. Countries that have legalized it have seen cases increase 5 fold, including state sponsored killings of healthy people. It can become a tool for rogue governments (see Hitler's Action T4). Some think Hitler's "Master Race" doctrine was welcomed because eugenics was so popular in that day. Oregon has refused funding for chemo while paying for assisted suicide in at least one case, making life or death a state decision.

    If a federal law is passed, radical eugenics groups will waste no time foisting their agendas on its back, calling for euthanasia of the disabled, certain ethnic groups, whoever they deem unfit or unhealthy. Then who will determine the subjective meaning of "quality of life?" Will you always trust your government once a law is in place? Imagine a world where gays are euthanized, or certain ethnic groups deemed inferior, or people with wrong political views. In 1939 Margaret Sanger created the "Negro Project" to exterminate blacks in America. In 2013, a DHS employee called for genocide of "white people."

    If you truly want euthanasia to be legal, it can be done at great cost. But will we always trust the stewards of that law?
  • darrensurrey
    darrensurrey Posts: 3,942 Member
    She has a button for pain? Keep whacking it. ;)
  • amwbox
    amwbox Posts: 576 Member
    One of the many perks of living here in Oregon...I can avoid dying in slow agony if I want.

    Can't imagine any other outcome.
  • workout_ninja
    workout_ninja Posts: 524 Member
    I have a question on this one: What happens with your life insurance policy if you die by euthanasia? In britain, a life insurance policy becomes void if you commit suicide (euthanasia is not legal here). Would there be a special Claus put in place for that in those states where it is legal?
  • darrensurrey
    darrensurrey Posts: 3,942 Member
    You mean... like a Santa one?
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