Cheating

How often do ya'll have a cheat meal? Do you cheat the entire day or just one meal? How is this working for you?

Sorry if this has been posted before. Somewhat new here.
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  • Veil5577
    Veil5577 Posts: 868 Member
    I try not to have an entire "meal" but occasionally I will treat myself to a little snack that is within my calorie limit. I only have a "cheat" day when I'm with family or it's a special occasion, which is not often.
  • laurenleola
    laurenleola Posts: 8 Member
    Thanks!
  • missiontofitness
    missiontofitness Posts: 4,059 Member
    I never "cheat". I fit items into my macros.
    Like Hershey's kisses today. And a slice of homemade birthday cake last night. Moderation is key, and it's not necessary to label foods as "good" or "bad", so that you have to feel like "cheating" to eat them.

    Just eat the cookie, pizza, or burger, and balance it with the rest of your day!
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  • ElliTree
    ElliTree Posts: 23 Member
    I don't cheat. If I want some fries, I will damn well have some. But when I think that I will have to skip a meal to do it (400 cal at In and Out) it really curbs the craving pretty damn fast.
  • Berkables
    Berkables Posts: 35
    It's all about what works for you!

    I personally am incapable of having a cookie after dinner and then calling it a day. If I have one cookie, I will have ten cookies. Therefore, I eat very low cal for most of the week but have one planned "cheat day" during which I eat literally anything I want. The trade off is I have to stay within my 1200-calorie goal for the rest of the week, which is difficult. But, I've tried this weight loss thing a bunch of different ways and what works for me is knowing that I'll always have that one, glorious cheat day to look forward to!
  • laurenleola
    laurenleola Posts: 8 Member
    I try very hard to stay on track and 99% of the time I do. My friend and I were planning on having lunch Saturday at a Mexican restaurant. Probably not the best pick but I don't want to deprive myself either. Thanks for all the great input!
  • beamer0821
    beamer0821 Posts: 488 Member
    i don't believe in cheating, that word is not a part of my diet vocabulary. cheating implies you are depriving or restricting yourself and thus must "Cheat" to get what you want.

    i work in the foods i love into my plan. all in moderation and eating them all in a healthier approach
  • fittoday14
    fittoday14 Posts: 128
    If I cheat, I try to do it by adding in one cheat-type food (ie. cake, cookies, etc). I don't recommend doing it by 'day' because it has had a reverse effect for me. I end up going 2-3 days of "cheat" before getting back on the wagon!
  • serindipte
    serindipte Posts: 1,557 Member
    I find that I do better with zigzagging my calories.. High days/low days. Then I can fit those "cheats" into my overall calorie goal without feeling even a little bit guilty.
  • laurenleola
    laurenleola Posts: 8 Member
    It's all about what works for you!

    I personally am incapable of having a cookie after dinner and then calling it a day. If I have one cookie, I will have ten cookies. Therefore, I eat very low cal for most of the week but have one planned "cheat day" during which I eat literally anything I want. The trade off is I have to stay within my 1200-calorie goal for the rest of the week, which is difficult. But, I've tried this weight loss thing a bunch of different ways and what works for me is knowing that I'll always have that one, glorious cheat day to look forward to!

    That's what I did last week and still lost 2.8. I'm going to try it again this week. I didn't go crazy on my food either and I still logged everything I ate.
  • suremeansyes
    suremeansyes Posts: 962 Member
    It's all about what works for you!

    I personally am incapable of having a cookie after dinner and then calling it a day. If I have one cookie, I will have ten cookies. Therefore, I eat very low cal for most of the week but have one planned "cheat day" during which I eat literally anything I want. The trade off is I have to stay within my 1200-calorie goal for the rest of the week, which is difficult. But, I've tried this weight loss thing a bunch of different ways and what works for me is knowing that I'll always have that one, glorious cheat day to look forward to!

    This is what I used to do except I ate about 1400 calories M-F and 3000 on Sat, 2000 on Sunday. Now that I use TDEE -10% and started lifting weights I have more discretionary calories however and don't have to save calories for an effing sweet meal.
  • JDearman143
    JDearman143 Posts: 48 Member
    I rarely comment on these, but I just had to say THANK YOU for posting this.. It's exactly what I needed to see as I tend to be that "impulse" eater.. Way to keep it positive!
  • chocolatexxmintt
    chocolatexxmintt Posts: 85 Member
    Moderation. Add in it to your MFP and work it off with cardio.
  • suremeansyes
    suremeansyes Posts: 962 Member
    I can understand people saying moderation, however there are some times you really feel like putting away a couple pints of beer, three or four slices of pizza, and half a dozen buffalo wings, and that just isn't going to fit very well into most people's macros or calories.

    As long as you aren't doing it all the time, some splurges or cheats are good for a person's sanity. For some it doesn't work, for some it does. I was at my lowest weight using a low cal M-F and high cal Sat and Sun.
  • beamer0821
    beamer0821 Posts: 488 Member
    i do think you do what you need to do for yourself.

    but i would argue the reason you can't stop at one slice of pizza or cookie and therefore you need a cheat day to do it is because you are not really allowing yourself to have it.

    if you did not make it the forbidden fruit you would not need 4 slices of pizza or 5 cookies and wouldn't be so tempted. if you know you can have it whenever you want it won't seem so alluring.
    it takes time to get there to think about it differently but over time it works...
  • laurenleola
    laurenleola Posts: 8 Member
    Last weekend I went out to eat and ordered what I normally do. I couldn't eat near as much as I did before after exercising and counting my calories.
  • sculli123
    sculli123 Posts: 1,221 Member
    Pretty rare that I even do what I would consider a cheat meal. Whatever I eat I fit into my daily macros, so I basically don't cheat on that. I do however do carb refeeds 1 to 2 times per week. Normally I keep my carbs under 75g but bump that up to over 300 once or twice a week. Calories are usually 2K but bump up to 2600 - 2700 on high carb days.
  • jec285
    jec285 Posts: 145 Member
    I eat and drink myself half to death 1 day a week. Works for me, but you gotta be careful as 1 day turns to 2, 2 turns to a week, etc.
  • mud7urtle
    mud7urtle Posts: 500
    Pretty rare that I even do what I would consider a cheat meal. Whatever I eat I fit into my daily macros, so I basically don't cheat on that. I do however do carb refeeds 1 to 2 times per week. Normally I keep my carbs under 75g but bump that up to over 300 once or twice a week. Calories are usually 2K but bump up to 2600 - 2700 on high carb days.

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  • ninav1980
    ninav1980 Posts: 514 Member
    How often do ya'll have a cheat meal? Do you cheat the entire day or just one meal? How is this working for you?

    Sorry if this has been posted before. Somewhat new here.

    Here is how it went for me

    Started out eating right mon-thursday cheated Fri-Sun, that didnt work, no loss

    Switched it up to only only one day-Saw slight improvement, so got a little more motivivated

    Switched again to only a cheat meal-saw much more improvement-again, got even more motivated

    These days, even when I have a cheat meal, its pretty healthy. For instance, I had salmon and a baked potato at my favorite steak place Saturday night. I figure I could do a lot worse than Salmon and baked potato.

    In time once you see results, its easy to scale down on cheat meals/days
  • say_pocket
    say_pocket Posts: 54 Member
    I do a whole "cheat day" once a week, usually on a Saturday. I don't go out of my way to eat crazy stuff, but I do eat whatever I want. My boyfriend and I usually eat two meals out at a restaurant on those days and there is often ice cream or gelato at the end of the day. We split meals when we eat out, though, because we've found that we're unable to finish a meal at a restaurant since we really started practicing good portion control. I still log everything I eat, and sometimes am pleasantly surprised that I stayed in calorie count without trying. (And sometimes less pleasantly surprised with extremely high overages. Ha)

    If we ate 100% clean all of the time, would I be seeing faster results? Probably. But I've still seen progress in my fitness goals, and I like food too much to do that.

    (I've also been known to eat bad things during the week as long as they fit in my calorie goals. 200 extra calories at the end of the day? Well then I can eat 3 oreos! Yay!)
  • bcattoes
    bcattoes Posts: 17,299 Member
    I don't really do "cheat meals" but I am very strict with my diet throughout the week so that I can let lose on the weekends.
  • suremeansyes
    suremeansyes Posts: 962 Member
    but i would argue the reason you can't stop at one slice of pizza or cookie and therefore you need a cheat day to do it is because you are not really allowing yourself to have it.

    For me, it wasn't that I COULDN'T stop myself, oh I could, I just didn't want to. If I'm gonna have pizza, I'm gonna HAVE pizza. I love to indulge, and that will slow my losses, I completely am fine with that. When I drink beer, I don't want 16oz of crap light beer. I want at least a 22oz porter or stout. My point is, I can have my life of indulgence, AND still lose/maintain my weight.

    I don't consider it binging, or cheating, it's my way of living.
  • asdowe13
    asdowe13 Posts: 1,951 Member
    How often do ya'll have a cheat meal? Do you cheat the entire day or just one meal? How is this working for you?

    Sorry if this has been posted before. Somewhat new here.

    Here is how it went for me

    Started out eating right mon-thursday cheated Fri-Sun, that didnt work, no loss

    Switched it up to only only one day-Saw slight improvement, so got a little more motivivated

    Switched again to only a cheat meal-saw much more improvement-again, got even more motivated

    These days, even when I have a cheat meal, its pretty healthy. For instance, I had salmon and a baked potato at my favorite steak place Saturday night. I figure I could do a lot worse than Salmon and baked potato.

    In time once you see results, its easy to scale down on cheat meals/days

    If you consider salmon and a baked potatoe to be cheating, you are doing it wrong!
  • rsoice
    rsoice Posts: 212 Member
    Cheat is a negative word. I find planned splurge to be much more positive.

    ^ This ^

    Because you'll hear people talk about fitting it (whatever it may be) into their macros or whatever. For me a splurge meal is something I wouldn't normally eat because it isn't going to fuel me properly or help me in my weight loss journey. Example: BW3 has killer wings and onion rings. While feasibly I could fit it into my macros to eat a meal there, that would be the only meal of the day and that isn't healthy either so I splurge once a week or every other week and have something I want that I wouldn't normally.

    But I log it.
  • sculli123
    sculli123 Posts: 1,221 Member
    I learned from the best.













    I mean reported :D
  • mud7urtle
    mud7urtle Posts: 500
    I learned from the best.

    I mean reported :D

    =D

    tell SCC I miss them (all except cakes)
  • AlysonG2
    AlysonG2 Posts: 713 Member
    I have a "cheat meal" once a week, but it's not really a cheat meal because I have it planned into my weekly calories. I eat 1600-1700 calories 6 days/week, then have my one "cheat day" of ~2500 calories.