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walldancer
walldancer Posts: 910
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On a scale of 1-10, how important is it to you for your partner to healthy and physically attractive to you.

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  • 3laine75
    3laine75 Posts: 3,069 Member
    Meh, 2 maybe
  • hookilau
    hookilau Posts: 3,134 Member
    100%

    If I'm not hot for him, then, err, it won't work. That's not to say he's got to turn heads when he walks into a room, just as long as he turns mine.
  • Raisingsonshines
    Raisingsonshines Posts: 50 Member
    3

    I go for personality and the ability to put up with my crazy kids. :P
  • Raisingsonshines
    Raisingsonshines Posts: 50 Member
    I go for sexy voices, cute smiles. :love:

    I am weird.... :glasses:
  • maroonmango211
    maroonmango211 Posts: 908 Member
    10 If I'm going to be with someone, I need to want them 100%, does that mean they have to be perfect, no of course not. I want my man 100% of the time and to me he's a 10 and thats what matters.
  • danibrosseau
    danibrosseau Posts: 45
    7 or 8. (I wanted to say 10 but couldn't bring myself to.) I know, I know.. I'm shallow.
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  • aedreana
    aedreana Posts: 979 Member
    10. I never have and never will enter into a sexual relationship that is not based 100% on sexual attraction. and sexual compatibility. I fall in lust not love.( I love my pit bulls. ) There is a word for relationships based on shared interests, companionship, intellectual compatibility, similar values, etc.: friendship (no benefits).

    Yes he needs to be healthy because I don't want to catch any diseases.
  • dlionsmane
    dlionsmane Posts: 674 Member
    On a scale of 1-10, how important is it to you for your partner to healthy and physically attractive to you.

    Of course my partner needs to be healthy, why would you want to be with someone who wasn't? Also I want to be attracted to my partner, I don't need him to turn heads or to have every woman in the world be after him or anyone else actually be attracted to him for that matter. I just want to melt when he looks at me and I look at him.
  • Sbrn_
    Sbrn_ Posts: 351 Member
    8-10, but I'm not (completely) shallow! Personality would also be about 8-10. Both physical attraction and a likable character are equally important to me.
  • JazzFischer1989
    JazzFischer1989 Posts: 531 Member
    My boyfriend is pretty out of shape but I'm still attracted to him. I do want him to be healthy though so I guess I would rate that a 9 or 10?
  • Meerataila
    Meerataila Posts: 1,885 Member
    Two different questions, and I need some clarification on that partner thing. Is it death do us part partner, or just hooked up for awhile? Because answers will vary based on that.

    Hooked up: He better be healthy and good looking, or I'm leaving him. No commitment = I'm looking out for my own interests first.

    Getting married: I don't think I can marry someone I'm afraid I'll be taking care of in a couple years, and if I'm not attracted to him, we won't even get to that discussion.

    Married: Til death do us part, unless he cheats or is dumb enough to take a swing at me or something.
  • tehboxingkitteh
    tehboxingkitteh Posts: 1,574 Member
    Depends. How is the sex?
  • 3dogsrunning
    3dogsrunning Posts: 27,167 Member
    I think both are very important. So 10.
    That said, I think physical attraction is more than just outward appearance. I've dated guys who I didn't find overly attractive appearance wise at first but became very attractive to me both in appearance and physically. I've also know gorgeous guys who I was not physically attracted to at all.
  • KailaGrace93
    KailaGrace93 Posts: 1 Member
    My better half has always been insanely attractive to me physically but that is not at all the reason why we are together. I amand always have been way more attracted to who he is as a person. My appearance bothers me a lot more in our relationship because I often feel like I am not as attractive as he is and that people think that when they see us. (He says and does nothing to instill that fear in me. Quite the opposite. Just the way I feel)
  • Meerataila
    Meerataila Posts: 1,885 Member
    I think both are very important. So 10.
    That said, I think physical attraction is more than just outward appearance. I've dated guys who I didn't find overly attractive appearance wise at first but became very attractive to me both in appearance and physically. I've also know gorgeous guys who I was not physically attracted to at all.

    Definitely true as well. I've known some men who were sexy as hell to me but not, subjectively, very physically attractive.

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