Fat and Disgusting

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  • vmlabute
    vmlabute Posts: 311 Member
    Someone who speaks so negatively about you especially in front of your children, is a pitiful human being. At least talk behind your back...

    you are not disgusting, you are beautiful. Don't even respond. She/he is probably just so miserable with their personal life that they feel the need to put you down because it's easier
  • Alluminati
    Alluminati Posts: 6,208 Member
    Because it was an easy way for them to end the argument and feel the satisfaction of "winning".

    I notice when people stoop to the level of insulting easy things like weight, race, gender, disability etc....it usually means they feel like they are losing an argument and they are hateful enough to pull that card. The fact that they did it in front of kids just makes it 10x more douchetastic.
  • weightliftingaddict
    weightliftingaddict Posts: 28
    Fat and disgusting? That's abusive. Don't even dignify that with a response. Steer clear of negative people like that and continue to be the fabulous that you are!
  • MyOwnSunshine
    MyOwnSunshine Posts: 1,312 Member
    I would eliminate this person from my life permanently without drama or further interaction.
  • FindingAmy77
    FindingAmy77 Posts: 1,268 Member
    The best response is no response but a huge smile to show them it didn't effect you. Anyone who says this is a sad person inside and it should make you smile to know how much of a dumbass they just made themselves look like. This is how I play it to my mother in law and it seems to piss her off. I love it. Mean people hate happy people. :drinker: :flowerforyou:
  • jboccio90
    jboccio90 Posts: 644 Member
    My question is what led up to that level of hostility? There is definitely more to the story here...

    Otherwise, the response is to successfully lose weight and look smokin' hot in front of her every time the opportunity arises. I find that people like that are often most pissed off by others success and happiness ;)
    She thinks I "scammed" her on a raffle I did over 2 years ago. The issue is, we've seen each other since and she's never mentioned it before. She was mad that I wouldn't give her her $5 back. Other than that, I think she is just mentally unstable.

    I would mail her a jar with 5 dollars worth of pennies in it and write "the value of your dignity" on it.
  • smantha32
    smantha32 Posts: 6,990 Member


    I would mail her a jar with 5 dollars worth of pennies in it and write "the value of your dignity" on it.

    :laugh:
  • mamaoftwins9197
    mamaoftwins9197 Posts: 142 Member
    My question is what led up to that level of hostility? There is definitely more to the story here...

    Otherwise, the response is to successfully lose weight and look smokin' hot in front of her every time the opportunity arises. I find that people like that are often most pissed off by others success and happiness ;)
    She thinks I "scammed" her on a raffle I did over 2 years ago. The issue is, we've seen each other since and she's never mentioned it before. She was mad that I wouldn't give her her $5 back. Other than that, I think she is just mentally unstable.

    I would mail her a jar with 5 dollars worth of pennies in it and write "the value of your dignity" on it.
    Bwahahah...that's awesome!
  • htrombleyl
    htrombleyl Posts: 63 Member
    Absolutely what I would have said. Lol. Seriously that is all she could come up with. That is so like "15"
  • Liftng4Lis
    Liftng4Lis Posts: 15,151 Member
    This woman did this in front of children??? Over 5 bucks?? Ok well let me tell you you're a hell of a woman cuz I would have knocked her *kitten* out myself!

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  • GardenGirlie
    GardenGirlie Posts: 241 Member
    I would cut this person out of my life simply because I would refuse to have someone like that around my kids. It would be one thing if she said it to me, but if my kids were around and that is how she conducts herself, they deserve better than that. I would not even hesitate and I can assure you it would be a permanent change.
  • mamaoftwins9197
    mamaoftwins9197 Posts: 142 Member
    This woman did this in front of children??? Over 5 bucks?? Ok well let me tell you you're a hell of a woman cuz I would have knocked her *kitten* out myself!

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    This is totally what I wanted to do, but decided it was better not to for two reasons. We were in Chick Fil A, where we go for family night a couple times a month and I would hate to get banned and have my kids lose that. And my kids were there. I try all day long to get them to solve their disputes with words...what kind of example would that set? But it would have felt so good to just knock her out!!!
  • fattymcrunnerpants
    fattymcrunnerpants Posts: 311 Member
    My sister said something simmilar once, I beat her over the head with my purse.
  • tulips_and_tea
    tulips_and_tea Posts: 5,741 Member
    All of this because of a fiver? Ain't nobody got time for that....................
    My thoughts exactly! Seriously, good for you for not responding. Karma will take care of it eventually.
  • Sugarbeat
    Sugarbeat Posts: 824 Member
    If it were someone I wanted/needed to keep seeing I would find a way to make them understand how much I did not appreciate their comment, especially in front of my kids. You may be overweight, but I'm sure they have something about themselves they are sensitive about. I might say something like "You wouldn't like it if I made ugly remarks about (insert sensitive issue)." If, however, I didn't need or want to see this person again, I would drop them from my life. If they ask why, then I might tell them.

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