when someone rejected your friend request?

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  • SnuggleSmacks
    SnuggleSmacks Posts: 3,731 Member
    This isn't Facebook, and you don't know these people. There's absolutely no reason to get hung up o your friend list. I wouldn't even notice if someone declined my request or defriended me. Maybe I'm a sucky friend on here? *shrug*
  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,275 Member
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  • ThePhoenixIsRising
    ThePhoenixIsRising Posts: 781 Member
    Honestly I could care less really.

    How much less?
    Just for that I may consider sending you a request!

    I may consider accepting it.

    I wouldn't. Have you seen her grammar? Yeesh.
    You just dont get me no request for you!:smokin:


    have fun with that^^^
    :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    Honestly I could care less really.

    How much less?
    Just for that I may consider sending you a request!

    I may consider accepting it.

    I wouldn't. Have you seen her grammar? Yeesh.
    You just dont get me no request for you!:smokin:


    have fun with that^^^
    :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:

    I'm from the South. That is perfectly legible.
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
    People don't deny my friend requests..

    LOL
  • CountryBabe75
    CountryBabe75 Posts: 120 Member
    IF your FR was rejected you probably did not put enough thought or personal touch into it....unless you are me and its just too perverted...

    Or not perverted enough. :tongue:

    ^^This!

    It bothers me a little to get rejected, but then I remember they are the one missing out on my awesomeness and move on.
  • Jenni129
    Jenni129 Posts: 692 Member
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  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    I need a FR so I can reject it.
  • AsaThorsWoman
    AsaThorsWoman Posts: 2,303 Member
    This isn't Facebook, and you don't know these people. There's absolutely no reason to get hung up o your friend list. I wouldn't even notice if someone declined my request or defriended me. Maybe I'm a sucky friend on here? *shrug*

    ^^^ This right here.

    I also have friends in RL.

    But since some of them care less about weight loss, I talk to ya'll about it.

    All. Day. Long.

    Is this Fetish behavior? Am I in a fetish community where I can't express my fetish in normal life so I come here and never shut up about it? Oh my god, I can't wait to weigh my next banana~!!!

    :-)
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
    I believe I've rejected once on here.
    It was from someone who has had multiple accounts.
    Each time they rage quit and came back they added me.
    I thought we were friends...at the very least on here.

    Not this time....it is what it is.
    It's their MFP page they are not required to add me....no biggy.
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    This isn't Facebook, and you don't know these people. There's absolutely no reason to get hung up o your friend list. I wouldn't even notice if someone declined my request or defriended me. Maybe I'm a sucky friend on here? *shrug*

    ^^^ This right here.

    I also have friends in RL.

    But since some of them care less about weight loss, I talk to ya'll about it.

    All. Day. Long.

    Is this Fetish behavior? Am I in a fetish community where I can't express my fetish in normal life so I come here and never shut up about it? Oh my god, I can't wait to weigh my next banana~!!!

    :-)

    I heard "Fetish".
  • Melonpaul
    Melonpaul Posts: 323 Member
    I'll admit I sometimes reject FR's but only when they are blank. I don't like adding people if I don't know who you are or what your intentions are. It doesn't take long to write a little message to the person.
  • ThePhoenixIsRising
    ThePhoenixIsRising Posts: 781 Member
    This isn't Facebook, and you don't know these people. There's absolutely no reason to get hung up o your friend list. I wouldn't even notice if someone declined my request or defriended me. Maybe I'm a sucky friend on here? *shrug*

    ^^^ This right here.

    I also have friends in RL.

    But since some of them care less about weight loss, I talk to ya'll about it.

    All. Day. Long.

    Is this Fetish behavior? Am I in a fetish community where I can't express my fetish in normal life so I come here and never shut up about it? Oh my god, I can't wait to weigh my next banana~!!!

    :-)
    That's why I'm here, family told me to shut it! :D
  • _SantaClause
    _SantaClause Posts: 335 Member
    I believe I've rejected once on here.
    It was from someone who has had multiple accounts.
    Each time they rage quit and came back they added me.
    I thought we were friends...at the very least on here.

    Not this time....it is what it is.
    It's their MFP page they are not required to add me....no biggy.

    How will you ever recover???
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    Hnnnnnnnnnng that felt amazing
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Why would someone reject my Friend Request?
  • ThePhoenixIsRising
    ThePhoenixIsRising Posts: 781 Member
    Hnnnnnnnnnng that felt amazing
    Just remember I sent glitter bombs! Prepare to sparkle for the next 6months.:devil:
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    Hnnnnnnnnnng that felt amazing
    Just remember I sent glitter bombs! Prepare to sparkle for the next 6months.:devil:

    I already dazzle.
  • Italianma7
    Italianma7 Posts: 83 Member
    I take it more personally when someone deletes me as a friend then them rejecting my friend request. :noway:
  • ThePhoenixIsRising
    ThePhoenixIsRising Posts: 781 Member
    Hnnnnnnnnnng that felt amazing
    Just remember I sent glitter bombs! Prepare to sparkle for the next 6months.:devil:

    I already dazzle.
    You have a bedazzler too!?!?!?
  • harvo
    harvo Posts: 4,676 Member
    IF your FR was rejected you probably did not put enough thought or personal touch into it....unless you are me and its just too perverted...

    Or not perverted enough. :tongue:

    I know that can't be the case...
  • El_Cunado
    El_Cunado Posts: 359 Member
    1. I've never sent a friend request.
    2. No, It wouldn't bother me.
  • harvo
    harvo Posts: 4,676 Member
    IF your FR was rejected you probably did not put enough thought or personal touch into it....unless you are me and its just too perverted...

    Or not perverted enough. :tongue:

    ^^This!

    It bothers me a little to get rejected, but then I remember they are the one missing out on my awesomeness and move on.

    I have heard rumors of this awesomeness
  • jmv7117
    jmv7117 Posts: 891 Member
    There's no way of knowing when someone has declined, or is just holding onto your request for an indefinite period. I almost never, ever send requests, so if I do and it's declined, it does hurt. I don't do well with rejection. :noway:

    ^^^^This except I don't accept or send friend requests.
  • fatcity66
    fatcity66 Posts: 1,544 Member
    I've sent very few friend requests...I think they have all been accepted, but if not, I guess I didn't notice.

    I deny friend requests that have absolutely no accompanying message, unless I've actually s/w them on a forum, and a private profile doesn't help either.
  • harvo
    harvo Posts: 4,676 Member
    I've sent very few friend requests...I think they have all been accepted, but if not, I guess I didn't notice.

    I deny friend requests that have absolutely no accompanying message, unless I've actually s/w them on a forum, and a private profile doesn't help either.

    And with you profile pic being your kitty i bet you get tons of requests...
  • fatcity66
    fatcity66 Posts: 1,544 Member
    I've sent very few friend requests...I think they have all been accepted, but if not, I guess I didn't notice.

    I deny friend requests that have absolutely no accompanying message, unless I've actually s/w them on a forum, and a private profile doesn't help either.

    And with you profile pic being your kitty i bet you get tons of requests...

    Haha I get a few...he is adorable and he knows it! Little brat...
  • Guns_N_Buns
    Guns_N_Buns Posts: 1,899 Member
    "I'm a mom of 7 kids trying to lose that last 10 lb from 115 to 105, I believe in a gluten free no vaccination Christian lifestyle"...wtf am I gonna talk about with that person? Decline.

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  • harvo
    harvo Posts: 4,676 Member
    I've sent very few friend requests...I think they have all been accepted, but if not, I guess I didn't notice.

    I deny friend requests that have absolutely no accompanying message, unless I've actually s/w them on a forum, and a private profile doesn't help either.

    And with you profile pic being your kitty i bet you get tons of requests...

    Haha I get a few...he is adorable and he knows it! Little brat...

    I don't ever think i have met a kitty that was not adorable...
  • Yoshirio
    Yoshirio Posts: 242 Member
    I wouldn't even notice to be honest.

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