Don't know what to eat.. what do you do??

Hi all,
So at the moment I am struggling to know what to eat.. I don't have many go to healthy recipes or ideas.. how did you find out what to eat?? did u use a certain programme or book??

Thanks all
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  • wonderwoman234
    wonderwoman234 Posts: 551 Member
    Just eat anything you like as long as it fits into your calorie goal for the day. Eating fruits, veggies, lean protein, low fat dairy, and limiting sweets and simple carbs naturally helps you limit calories. But honestly, if you just want to lose weight, just make sure what you eat for the day does not exceed your calorie allotment.
  • There are so many good websites with meal ideas... just do a web search! Or... spend a couple of hours at your local big bookstore, where there will be dozens of cookbooks. A good diet is going to be based on whole vegetables, fruits, whole grains along with a reasonable amount of meat and dairy products. It will have a good balance of protein, fat and carbs. There won't be a lot of processed foods, chemicals, additives, extra sugar or fat. If a cookbook is using ingredients like these and including calorie counts, then it will probably work pretty well for you.

    If you are like me, you will find a relatively small group of foods that you eat an awful lot... i have yogurt, cottage cheese, chicken, salad vegetables, apples, tuna, a high fiber cereal, peanut butter, soy milk and protein powder on my list. While I don't restrict the kinds of foods I eat, these are the ones that form the foundation of my diet. if you look at my food diary, you can see i repeat meals an awful lot, which makes it pretty easy to know how many calories i am eating and so on.

    It is not so hard, really!

    Good luck!
  • Snip8241
    Snip8241 Posts: 767 Member
    The skinnytaste website has tips and really good recipes. You can try that.

    I look for folks in the forums that have been successful, I see if we have anything in common, I send a FR and I see what they eat day to day. This gives me ideas as to what to eat. I have learned SO much from these folks.

    Weight watchers has very good cookbooks. Amazon has most of them. I really like the "Powerfoods" cookbook.

    Good luck. Send me aFR with a message if you'd like. :smile:
  • aethre
    aethre Posts: 150 Member
    Meal planning is your saviour, to be honest. Even if you try out just one new 'skinny' dish every week, you'll find out what you like and don't like and will have a decent repertoire in no time.

    For last minute 'I don't know what I want to eat!' kind of days, there are two things I recommend having on hand... lots of frozen veggies, and EGGS. There's always something healthy you can do with eggs.... whether it's an omelet using up veg from the fridge, poached on toast, or even just boiled as a snack. They're a great hit of protein, too. Although I have to say, I don't understand the 'egg whites only' thing that people do... all the flavour's in the yolk. But each to their own :flowerforyou:
  • amusedmonkey
    amusedmonkey Posts: 10,330 Member
    I turn to the mighty internet for help with meals. Today I started following a Pinterest board for weight watchers recipes (from 8 or so lower calorie cooking blogs). I was sent an email about it from skinnytaste, checked them all and liked them. What's nice about them is that serving sizes are not doll-house size like those on many weight loss websites. I was checking out an Indian-inspired recipe on one of these websites and it's 1 3/4 cups per serving, 22 protein and only 270 calories. That's an ice cream waiting to happen after a respectable meal!

    Edit: here is the link to the board http://www.pinterest.com/slenderkitchen/weight-watchers-recipes/
  • abadvat
    abadvat Posts: 1,241 Member
    That is approximately me at the moment- with the exception that I am hungry but have no clue what to eat!
    will open the fridge, eat what ever catches my sight and track it - problem solved!
  • kommodevaran
    kommodevaran Posts: 17,890 Member
    I like to think that knowing what to eat is intuitive for me, but in reality I use a combination of
    - what I like to eat
    - what makes me feel good (satisfied, happy, energetic, calm)
    - what I can afford
    - what is easy to prepare
    - new things I would like to try
    - what feels right from an environmental, human rights and animal ethics point of view
    - how many calories do I need based on my height, weight, age, gender, activity level; if applicable: what I want to change and how fast
    - what official guidelines tells us to eat (how many portions a day of fruits, vegetables, grains, meat, dairy, nuts and so on)
    - disregarding what I think is wrong (lean protein, non-fat dairy, excessive fiber intake)
    - and tweak, tweak, tweak, until it works for me - and change it up again whenever I feel like it
    :bigsmile:
  • Cheyenelikewyoming
    Cheyenelikewyoming Posts: 52 Member
    Get a Pinterest account and look under the food and drink category or the health and fitness category. Lots of ideas. You can narrow your search too.:drinker:
  • cowgalsarah29
    cowgalsarah29 Posts: 15 Member
    Thanks so much all of you for your help.. I will be saving these answers :)
  • DawnieB1977
    DawnieB1977 Posts: 4,248 Member
    It depends what you like, and how much time you have! I make quite simple, but healthy things as I have children I need to feed too, so I need to make something they like. I also need things that are easy as my husband does shift work, so I'm on my own with the kids a lot. So I just go for things like fish or chicken and veg, jacket potato, stir fry etc.

    There are so many recipes on the Internet, so you could just google 'chicken recipes' for example and it would give you loads of choices.

    You get used to the amount of calories, protein, fat etc in things so you can fit your meals into your day nicely.
  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
    What do you eat now?

    I really think it complicates it unnecessarily to focus on finding new recipes that you will have to use, unless that inspires you (I like to cook, and also like to browse cookbooks or websites for fun -- 101 cookbooks is one that I enjoy). Instead, think in terms of what you eat now and how you like to eat and adjust.

    For example, I know I like to eat breakfast and need a routine, or I end up not having the time I need, so I have a usual set breakfast that I can make pretty fast (vegetable omelet) and then add extra protein and fruit (usually yogurt or cottage cheese for the protein, but it depends on what I have around). Since I can change up the vegetables, fruit, and protein, this is varied enough for me to have almost every day, but makes it easy. But it is also based on my desire to have vegetables, a certain amount of protein, and about 400 calories for breakfast. If you need something smaller or quicker just figure that out--someone who knows she won't have time to cook could use fruit and a protein shake or a smoothie or something else on hand to grab, someone who hates breakfast would plan around that.

    I handle lunch kind of like breakfast in that I do basically a few things every day, so once it's set there's no need for much planning (one of these things is bringing leftovers).

    For dinner, I have more variability but again within a pattern. I know I'll want meat (or a protein source), vegetables (lots, I like to have two different ones), and a starch, plus extra fruit or dairy if I have the calories. So knowing this I can easily adjust based on what I have on hand, how many calories I have, etc. If I'm much closer to my limit than usual I might drop the starch for the day and have the second vegetable instead, so on.

    Focusing on this rather than having to completely plan and have recipes means that I can just come home and work with the meats and vegetables available, so long as I've bought enough for the week and remembered to unfreeze any frozen items (fish, for example) I might wish to use.

    Also, I don't feel at all that I'm eating in some kind of diet way, even though cooking this way makes it really easy to construct low calorie meals, depending on how many you need.
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
    Disclaimer: I have two parents who cooked for a living. Dad taught culinary arts and mom managed a school cafeteria. I was raised in my granny's farm kitchen cooking what came out of the garden and canning it for winter. I also have some strange food allergies - like egg yolks and iodine.

    Go to the grocery. Pick foods you like; add olive oil, sesame seed oil and canola oil to the cart (medium priced is fine, but not the cheapest), a good selection of spices - salt, black pepper, cumin, thyme, sage, basil, oregano, cinnamon and nutmeg. I also buy like-minded garlic and ground mustard. Come home and search the net for recipes with your foods. Cook it. If you live alone, also buy the containers to freeze individual servings that you can heat up later. You'll make a few mistakes and you'll learn from them. But that is how I cook. I also buy snacks like Lara bars, yogurt, and fruit cups because I can put them in packed lunches.

    Portion control is how I lost 47 lbs. You can do that with prepackaged foods, but I don't buy tons of those because of my long list of strange food allergies. Good luck!
  • _Zardoz_
    _Zardoz_ Posts: 3,987 Member
    Hi all,
    So at the moment I am struggling to know what to eat.. I don't have many go to healthy recipes or ideas.. how did you find out what to eat?? did u use a certain programme or book??

    Thanks all
    What did you eat before you decided to lose weight? Just eat that but less of it
  • missiontofitness
    missiontofitness Posts: 4,059 Member
    I use my brain. I'll make something out of whatever's available, walk to the grocery store next to my house and get what I want, or order pizza.

    It's a pretty great plan.
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    Hi all,
    So at the moment I am struggling to know what to eat.. I don't have many go to healthy recipes or ideas.. how did you find out what to eat?? did u use a certain programme or book??

    Thanks all
    What you always eat, just less of it.
  • softblondechick
    softblondechick Posts: 1,275 Member
    My opinion is any diet with a lot of recipes for cooking is fail. When I cook, I make too much and eat too much. I stick with simple things like veggies, grilled meat.

    One thing I do, is eliminate my top favorite foods, pasta, bread, cheese, peanut butter, chocolate, tortillas, butter, and ice cream. No more.

    I did get a magazine, eat clean, it has a lot of good recipes. I also belong to vegan menu, you get meal ideas for the whole week, with a shopping list. We are having eggplant tonight.
  • asdowe13
    asdowe13 Posts: 1,951 Member
    My opinion is any diet with a lot of recipes for cooking is fail. When I cook, I make too much and eat too much. I stick with simple things like veggies, grilled meat.

    One thing I do, is eliminate my top favorite foods, pasta, bread, cheese, peanut butter, chocolate, tortillas, butter, and ice cream. No more.

    I did get a magazine, eat clean, it has a lot of good recipes. I also belong to vegan menu, you get meal ideas for the whole week, with a shopping list. We are having eggplant tonight.

    This saddens me.

    No need to eliminate any foods, especially your favourites.
    Just eat less of them.

    Fit them into your calories, meet your macros and start enjoying and controlling your diet, don't let it control you.
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    One thing I do, is eliminate my top favorite foods, pasta, bread, cheese, peanut butter, chocolate, tortillas, butter, and ice cream. No more.
    Why? Would love more insight on what this does for you. :smile:

    I used to do this as well, and it was only when I learned how to eat everything I love in moderation that I became the most successful at losing, and have been maintaining for several months now.
  • UnicornAmanda
    UnicornAmanda Posts: 294 Member
    allrecipes.com is really good! lots of creative ideas there!
  • SandyBVTN
    SandyBVTN Posts: 367 Member
    I'm also in the camp of eating a lot of repeat meals. I find it takes the guesswork out of my meal planning, keeps my food budget lower, and helps me grab a healthy option during those hangry moments.

    I eat a lot of: cottage cheese, fruit, eggs, mulitgrain bread or celery with peanut butter, green salads with protein, pita pizzas, cheese and bean quesadillas, pre-cut veggies with hummus or yogurt dip.

    Twice a week I take the time to do some food prep, where I roast a few chicken breasts to have them ready to add to meals, and cut up loads of raw veggies.

    Another great source of inspiration is your friends list here on MFP. I always see great ideas on my pal's food diaries.

    Good luck!
  • softblondechick
    softblondechick Posts: 1,275 Member
    Some people can handle moderation. I can't. If there is a loaf of bread and peanut butter, I will binge eat, and have four sandwiches.

    I don't binge eat spinach, eggplant, or tofu!
  • 970Mikaela1
    970Mikaela1 Posts: 2,013 Member
    One thing I do, is eliminate my top favorite foods, pasta, bread, cheese, peanut butter, chocolate, tortillas, butter, and ice cream. No more.
    Why? Would love more insight on what this does for you. :smile:

    all those have treated me well. but really why?
  • besaro
    besaro Posts: 1,858 Member
    pintrest is minefield for me! i get so distracted by all the delicious foods. I start following salads and end up in desserts. lol
  • raventwo
    raventwo Posts: 91 Member
    Yes, I chose a program I thought I live the rest of my life on, that would help control my health issues. I chose Carbohydrate Addict's Lifespan Program. Pretty simple, does have list of what is considered low carb veggies that can be had any time. Anything not on the low carb veggie or protein lists, is for the once a day Reward meal (and no, that is not aka binge).

    I use a daily calorie limit to control portions only, I use this program for meal composition, frequency.

    Best wishes to you - just pick what you can live with, so important! Starting and stopping is the worst thing you could do!
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    Some people can handle moderation. I can't. If there is a loaf of bread and peanut butter, I will binge eat, and have four sandwiches.

    I don't binge eat spinach, eggplant, or tofu!
    I challenge you to give it a try incorporating some of those foods you love back into your diet. Think of it as long term success.

    Before I learned this silly moderation trick, I could not keep sweets, chips, nuts in my house. Now? Ice cream in the freezer, cookies, chips, and nuts in the cabinet. Those things last an awful long time because I open bag, weigh portion (sometimes less, sometimes a bit more, than the serving depending on my calories), close bag and put away, and eat said portion. That's all I need.

    My binge eating is gone. Seriously.
  • christylindquist
    christylindquist Posts: 32 Member
    I utilize Pinterest for ideas when I'm stuck. There's a lot of THMers on Pinterest all you have to do is dearch THM or THM S, E or FP
  • AuroraD82
    AuroraD82 Posts: 56 Member
    I cook like I always did, but I add more veggies, reduce my starch portion, and reduce my meat portion -but I supplement in some kind of bean or dried pea, or both. You can always use canned, just watch the salt content. Veggies can be pricey so I try to buy what's on sale that I know what to do with it. Oooh, do you like kale? swisschard? Both are delicious cooked into soups and add lots of goodness. Soup is a good start. Grilled or oven baked lean meats. Yellow mustard is your friend - its zero calories or very low at least. And can add a lot of flavor to a pan of sauteed veggies and meat. Fresh crunchy vegetables. Tomatoes are very filling, cucumers too but both have a higher sugar content then say celery.
    Hope this helps.

    If I don't have time to cook I get a veggie sub with mustard on it.

    Also, drinking lots of water, and green tea.

    I know I just started on here, so there isn't much progress to show as my proof. But I just wanted to offer some advice to help you out. Good luck! Add me or message if you have any questions.
  • amusedmonkey
    amusedmonkey Posts: 10,330 Member
    Some people can handle moderation. I can't. If there is a loaf of bread and peanut butter, I will binge eat, and have four sandwiches.

    I don't binge eat spinach, eggplant, or tofu!

    I would binge eat eggplant any day :(
    Good thing there are good eggplant recipes that are not too high in calories.
    Heck, I binge eat raw tomatoes on a daily basis! Having just one a day is not an option.

    One idea for things you can't help but eat in excess: load them with low calorie volumizers like.. eggplant.
  • myrtille87
    myrtille87 Posts: 122 Member
    What do you usually eat? You shouldn't need to completely scrap everything you eat and start again - you just need to adapt your eating habits to reduce your calorie intake.

    For example, let's say that a common evening meal for you would be spaghetti bolognese. A big pile of pasta, sauce made from minced beef, onions, and a jar of tomato sauce, with plenty of grated cheese on top. That's going to be pretty high in calories but can easily be adapted to fit your goals.

    -Carefully measure any oil you add to your pan - use a teaspoon, not a "glug". A teaspoon of olive oil is 40 calories, you don't want to accidentally use 5 teaspoons where 1 or 2 would suffice.
    -Choose lean mince. If this is too expensive, dry fry your mince separately then drain off the fat when it's cooked.
    -Pad out your meal with vegetables. This will make it cheaper as well as more nutritious, and if you're not a big fan of vegetables you can chop them really small so they blend in with the sauce and are hardly noticeable. In a bolognese, I'd use mushrooms and maybe courgette or something.
    -Avoid sauces which have loads of added sugars - a tin or two of chopped tomatoes will do the job.
    -Weigh your pasta and choose to have 70-80g when you might previously have had 100+.
    -You can get fat reduced cheese (I use 30% less fat mature cheddar), or choose cheeses which have a strong flavour (eg: parmesan) so you only need a small amount.

    Obviously this is just one example but the general idea (careful portion control for your carbs and fat, choosing lean meat, adding in extra veg) can be applied to everything.
  • tmauck4472
    tmauck4472 Posts: 1,785 Member
    Hi all,
    So at the moment I am struggling to know what to eat.. I don't have many go to healthy recipes or ideas.. how did you find out what to eat?? did u use a certain programme or book??

    Thanks all
    This is an amazing salad...iceberg lettuce(or whatever you prefer) sauted chicken breast, 2 slices bacon, 1/2 lb sauted asparagus, some dried cranberries, and almond slivers. No dressing needed. I love it. And you can replace the chicken with some shrimp and it's just as amazing.
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    Or this take 5 spears of asparagus and wrap it in bacon and bake in the oven until bacon is crisp
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    I also put a whole bag of spinach in a skillet and wilt it down for just a few minutes then add in 2 tbsp. of cream cheese. Remove that to a bowl, clean your skillet and sauté up some more chicken breast (just until the pink is gone, do not over cook) and add that to the spinach mixture and enjoy. Be sure to season to taste. So yummy