Advice to avoid mindless snacking?

I'm always eating, even when I'm not hungry, and I don't know how to stop. I've been doing my best to avoid snacking but it's so hard, and at times, impossible as I'm so overwhelmed by the urge to eat. I have issues with self control, moderation, and I am emotionally stunted to a point so I do realise that to some extent I eat to deal with complicated emotions, however I have been unable to deal with such under professional (medical) circumstances. I have tried everything I know possible, removing myself from the situation, getting out the house, drinking water, distracting myself, talking to someone, even giving in a little. Does anyone have any advice on what to do or other ideas to stop the urge to eat when I'm not hungry?

Thanks for your time, it's so appreciated! :)

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  • bfergusonii
    bfergusonii Posts: 208 Member
    I guess I am not sure what you mean by snacking.

    I snack on lots of things during the day including raw nuts, yogurt, bell pepper, etc. I just make sure it fits in my calories.
  • Well I don't recommend smoking. It fixed the mindless snacking but it was harder to quick smoking than snacking. XD

    Seriously though, when I have the urge to snack I snack on something I don't like that is super healthy. Like Celery. I hate the stuff. Nothing makes me lose the urge faster than three bites of a celery stalk.

    Alternatives is something that keeps you too busy to snack. House chores aren't great because you can snack while you do it but trying to snack while riding a bike hurts. I tend to exercise when I have urges to snack because usually by the time I am done exercising I have enough calorie for a snack. I am a snacker at heart so I make sure I can work it in.

    Also chose snacks wisely. I have special K snack packs. 100 calories. I also have jello, and bananas to snack on. If I have to stuff my face I make sure I'm being reasonable.
  • Kaishei
    Kaishei Posts: 16 Member
    I guess I am not sure what you mean by snacking.

    I snack on lots of things during the day including raw nuts, yogurt, bell pepper, etc. I just make sure it fits in my calories.

    I mean things such as, I had Chinese for lunch and didn't finish it. However, even though I was quite full, I continued to eat from the box throughout the day. That's just one example. I've tried healthier snacks like sliced veggies/fruit/nuts, but they don't agree with me and just make me throw up instead.
  • caracrawford1
    caracrawford1 Posts: 657 Member
    Whatever you're thinking of eating stop and put it on a plate. Seriously. Even some fruit or a few kernels if popcorn.if you have to put it on a plate, you'll think twice. Somehow instead of taking from the package or eating ice cream right out of the container--putting it in a bowl or formal plate puts it in perspective
  • yc4king
    yc4king Posts: 117 Member
    Work on something, like a hobby, something outside of the house.

    When i'm working in my garage on something, or i'm really doing anything that keeps both my hands and my mind busy, I have no urge to eat. When i'm doing nothing, all I want to do is stuff my face, so I at least somewhat know how you feel.

    I'm a lot better at controlling the snacking now, but at the start it was very difficult.
  • Chain_Ring
    Chain_Ring Posts: 753 Member
    self-control
  • VeryKatie
    VeryKatie Posts: 5,961 Member
    Lol I read that as "scratching".
  • Rlavigne93
    Rlavigne93 Posts: 119 Member
    I'm bad about snacking, too. Especially at work where there's always stuff to munch on. I started chewing gum a lot, especially mint flavors. I gave it up a few year back because it seemed like a nasty habit, but it's better than constantly snacking. I like 5 gum because the flavor lasts a good while, and it doesn't get gross if you chew it for a few hours.
  • teresamwhite
    teresamwhite Posts: 947 Member
    Pop a few pieces of really strong minty sugar-free gum. Nothing tastes right after gum, or brushing your teeth, so it's been a real help for me.

    (Eclipse Winterfrost is seriously strong, its my favorite)
  • VeryKatie
    VeryKatie Posts: 5,961 Member
    Alternatives is something that keeps you too busy to snack. House chores aren't great because you can snack while you do it but trying to snack while riding a bike hurts.

    This is true. It does hurt to snack on a bike. I was once eating pretzels while cycling around my neighbourhood and I dropped one and it actually got stuck in the gear and wheel for long enough that I toppled over and scratched my knee and leg up pretty good. And I bent the handle bars on my bike.

    You know.. as I was typing that.. I was like... "Even I can't believe one little pretzel did all that".
  • I have some days like this, and when that happens I make sure that I get out of the house. I usually go to the gym and have a nice workout. By the time I get home and shower, its time for bed! I get the luxury of burning extra calories and not eating everything in my house! :)
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
    Instead of avoiding junk, try to fill up on healthy stuff instead. Snack on baby carrots.
  • Deipneus
    Deipneus Posts: 1,861 Member
    For me, that is the whole point of tracking what I eat. After tracking my food intake for so long, I'm always thinking "if I eat this I have to write it down". Sometimes I do eat something I shouldn't but now it's a conscious decision.
  • Pound back the water.
    And change your snacks to anything on the "negative-calorie" list.

    Cucumbers, tomatoes, celery, apples, etc.

    Look it up, those will help. And then tell yourself "No food tastes as good as thin is going to feel."

    If that doesn't work, glare at the refrigerator when you walk by it. Seriously. Make stupid faces at it. Sometimes that helps, lol.
  • BigLifter10
    BigLifter10 Posts: 1,153 Member
    I have some days like this, and when that happens I make sure that I get out of the house. I usually go to the gym and have a nice workout. By the time I get home and shower, its time for bed! I get the luxury of burning extra calories and not eating everything in my house! :)


    That is what I do also. Thank goodness the gym isn't far from my home and I am not tempted by driving by all sorts of yummy places. When I get home from my workout though...I'm good to go. Helps a lot.
  • emdeesea
    emdeesea Posts: 1,823 Member
    I know this is easier said than done, but I've found it helps to understand WHY I want to snack and then deal with that.

    These reasons can include: I'm bored, I'm lonely, I'm thirsty, I had a bad day/week/month/year/life sucks, etc.

    If you can address WHY you want to snack you can better control the snacking. in the meantime, snack on something like baby carrots or blueberries or popcorn.
  • mygnsac
    mygnsac Posts: 13,413 Member
    As suggested, minty sugerfree gum (I buy Trident Mint Bliss in bulk!) and brushing your teeth really does lessen the desire to mindless munch on something. Drinking lots of water and sipping on hot drinks also helps me.

    Self control is key though. Whenever we tell ourselves "we can't" do something, that's a flag that we need to work on that mindset. I read the book Mindless Eating, and that helped me when I was struggling with this.
  • sarajenivieve
    sarajenivieve Posts: 303 Member
    water! i have a bad habit of smoking and giving into munchies mindessly what helps me is a fill a huge glass of lemon water and drink it while i smoke and finish it when im done usually ill be to full to eat if its still an issue i make a vegan protien shake :)
  • climbing_trees
    climbing_trees Posts: 726 Member
    chewing gum
  • larrodarro
    larrodarro Posts: 2,512 Member
    I eat a lot of grapes, cucumbers, carrots and stir-fry veggies. I also eat 25g of vanilla Greek yogurt mixed with 75g plain Greek yogurt as a snack. I used to eat way too many almonds sitting at my desk. Now I try to limit myself to 10 per snack. The main thing is to log everything, and if you go over, do the cardio to make up for it. When I was losing, there were many nights when I was walking at bedtime to get rid of the red numbers.

    Find something you like that is low calorie and healthy, and snack on that.

    Good luck with your lifestyle change.

    Larro
  • Snip8241
    Snip8241 Posts: 767 Member
    I tend to snack in the afternoon. I make a large iced coffee and sip it.
  • SideSteel
    SideSteel Posts: 11,068 Member
    I would start by trying to identify why you are eating and why you are choosing to eat the foods you eat.

    I have a number of thoughts/considerations about this, but they may not be applicable depending on what you find.
  • Kaishei
    Kaishei Posts: 16 Member
    Thanks for the responses guys! Unfortunately, a lot of them are things I'd already tried/considered. We have no gyms in our area (public ones anyway), I also can't do things like jogging (I literally can't, I am not a healthy person and my lung capacity is tiny even when I was in school and had PE four times a week). I'm not allowed out after dark, I literally can't eat 'healthy' foods. I have an extremely sensitive gag reflex, so many many foods I'm unable to eat as I can't even swallow them let alone digest them, gum, nuts, veggies, fruit.

    To the person who simply replied 'self control', thanks for obviously reading through what I wrote.
    Pound back the water.
    And change your snacks to anything on the "negative-calorie" list.

    Cucumbers, tomatoes, celery, apples, etc.

    Look it up, those will help. And then tell yourself "No food tastes as good as thin is going to feel."

    If that doesn't work, glare at the refrigerator when you walk by it. Seriously. Make stupid faces at it. Sometimes that helps, lol.

    First of all, there is no such thing as negative calories. I'm not the brightest, but I'm not a complete imbecile. Second, if I could eat those sorts of foods, I would. Second, "no food tastes as good as thing is going to feel" is an eating disorder motto, one which is extremely triggering and harmful to people of a delicate psyche. I appreciate maybe you only meant to be helpful, so I ask that you do not use that phrase again.

    Appreciate all your help though guys =)
  • WombatHat42
    WombatHat42 Posts: 192 Member
    I'm always eating, even when I'm not hungry, and I don't know how to stop. I've been doing my best to avoid snacking but it's so hard, and at times, impossible as I'm so overwhelmed by the urge to eat. I have issues with self control, moderation, and I am emotionally stunted to a point so I do realise that to some extent I eat to deal with complicated emotions, however I have been unable to deal with such under professional (medical) circumstances. I have tried everything I know possible, removing myself from the situation, getting out the house, drinking water, distracting myself, talking to someone, even giving in a little. Does anyone have any advice on what to do or other ideas to stop the urge to eat when I'm not hungry?

    Thanks for your time, it's so appreciated! :)

    I found a couple things to work for me. Allow my laziness to actually get up and walk to the kitchen to become greater than my desire for junk food. This worked but made it hard to get myself to the gym(which when I am not swamped with school it is my life so you can see my dilemma)

    Next, I found a lot of times distracting myself worked. Because I would eat out of boredom. So I found something to distract myself. Be it the gym, video games book homework tv etc. For me this can be a bit hard since I cant sit and do the same thing for very long without getting bored(partly do to adhd lol).

    Third, replace "snacking" with micro snacking. Dont keep the chinese with you put it in the fridge or trash it. Instead grab a little bit of something sweet or salty or both(i find trailmix with m&ms is perfect) because sometimes the need to snack is bc the body is saying in needs salt or sugar etc so a little every now and then doesnt hurt. Just make sure its a small a bit.

    Lastly, mix this with number 3, but try this first, drink a gatorade bottle of water before eating(i mean in 5 minutes-ish) sometimes your body is mistaking hunger for thirst. Throw this in combo with a handful of trailmix(not even 100 cal) and you give your body what it is most likely craving.

    Your snacking doesnt have to be healthy in the since fruits and veggies but it shouldnt be mass amounts of grease, salt or sugar. Make it healthy in the since it fits with in your calorie(and macro if you are sticking to that) goal. Otherwise, you will go over board.
  • Lesa_Sass
    Lesa_Sass Posts: 2,213 Member
    Chew gum or suck on hard candy.
  • futuremanda
    futuremanda Posts: 816 Member
    The #1 most effective thing for me is to not buy the snacks. If you're snacking on leftovers, and can't find success by making a rule against this, don't keep leftovers. Really, throw them out. Give them away. Pack them in a bag marked "tomorrow's lunch". Order less next time, etc.

    The #2 most effective thing for me is to plan what I'm going to eat in advance. This is partly because I get a lot of anxiety around food -- making food decisions (especially when hungry), having to prep (especially when hungry), etc. In my ideal situation (which I am not in right now), I schedule my meals AND snacks. I find which time intervals work best for me, so I can schedule them well. I decide what I'm eating in advance and do as much prep in advance as I can -- I make the decisions and do the work when I'm not hungry.

    So it becomes a) there's nothing handy to snack on and b) it's not snack time right now, anyway and c) today's snack (at snack time) is X amount of Y, and not anything else.

    It's weird at first, but takes almost no thought or effort once you're used to it. (It also might be too restrictive for some people -- I, however, benefit tremendously from the structure.)

    #3, have backups. Your appetite and needs will fluctuate, and you may get cravings that just won't quit and what-have-you. You have to have some flexibility, just don't set yourself up to be able to exploit the backups constantly.

    Example, I used to make a hot cocoa latte (using cocoa powder, 1 serving of agave syrup or brown sugar, fill big mug about halfway with water, and foam about 1/2 cup milk) for a treat. I love lattes, and I love chocolate, so this worked super well for me. I also had a local bakery that I loved, that was about a 20-minute walk away -- if I got super antsy, I'd made a deal that I'd go THERE and get any 1 thing that I wanted (not 2, or 3, or 4) and not just say, go to the corner store 2 mins away and grab candy. This way, I had a walk, an outing, and a really high quality treat -- it wasn't a bingefest.

    I'd recommend finding some alternatives that you can snack on -- both healthy substitutes and treats that are truly treats and also not more caloric than the value they provide for you -- and make plans and rules. Expand and change the rules (when you're clearheaded) as you need to, in ways that will help you when you're emotional. If you get cravings when you PMS, make a plan when you're not PMSing that will help you when you are but not derail you totally, as an example. Food is really personal, so what works for me may not work for you.

    #3.5 I doubt that ALL fruits, veggies, nuts, etc would make you throw up. Don't mimic other people's snacks, find something that works for you. I'm pretty picky about veggies and how they're prepped. Like, I hate uncooked carrots, so... I can't "just snack on baby carrots." But that's not an excuse to never eat veggies -- I need the nutrients, even if I have to up the calories a bit by roasting in controlled portions of oil or something. Your palate will also change in time, so meet yourself where you're at now and don't worry about what others are doing or what some article says on the web is the best thing.

    #4. Figure out non-food alternatives. Painting my nails works really well for me -- between clipping, filing, buffing, base coat, 2-3 colour coats, top coat, dry time, I can easily be 1-2 hours. A good video game is another way to lose time.

    #5. Force yourself to weigh and track your snack before you eat it. Meaning, it actually *can't* be "mindless". You can't eat it and input it later and be like "oops...". You'd have to face the numbers and the portions before eating them, which gives you some room to make a mindful choice to cut back or avoid entirely.

    #5.5 When I'm off-plan (it happens), and I know on some level that I've just given myself permission to eat something that will likely result in too many calories that day (like free-snacking from a box of cookies, which is around right now because I don't buy the groceries right now), then forcing myself to log ahead of time doesn't help because I'm sort of off logging, for whatever reason. To curb things, I force myself to glance at the calories per serving size and do the math (say 2 cookies is 140 cals, or 70 cals each). I'm unlikely to let myself keep eating past a certain point if I have to keep adding 70 for every cookie I have.

    #6. I have rules about the contexts in which I eat. My main one is that I eat a) at the table with people or b) all settled down nicely in front of a show or movie (which might not work for everyone). I eat off of dishes (everything is plated, and if I'm on-plan, weighed and logged). This way, I am relaxed, and paying some attention to what I'm eating. I'm enjoying it, it isn't mindless. If I allow myself to graze in the kitchen, I'll eat way more and pay way less attention and enjoy it less. If I eat "on the go" or "in a hurry", I get indigestion because I'm tense.

    Alternative: Consider eating less at meals, and finding snacks (whatever they may be) with decent macronutrients (protein & fat, not just carbs). Meaning... if you KNOW you're a snacker, and you seriously can't fathom stopping, just plan for it better by eating smaller meals, and making sure your snacks have some nutritional value. (Ex, your leftovers would benefit you more than cookies)

    But honestly, it's also just... committing. It has to be a change you want to make on all levels, that you're ready to make. So even if you're hangry, or sick, or emotional, the commitment is still there underlying it all. And if you're just not feeling that right now, work on that first, and tackle the snacking issue once you're ready.
  • Songbirdcw
    Songbirdcw Posts: 320 Member
    Pop a few pieces of really strong minty sugar-free gum. Nothing tastes right after gum, or brushing your teeth, so it's been a real help for me.

    (Eclipse Winterfrost is seriously strong, its my favorite)

    I agree. Gum is a good alternative. I know some have flavors like your favorite food/sweets which is helpful. I also recommend brushing your teeth after your meal too, and drinking a glass of water behind it. You should feel full, and you won't even want to put anything in your mouth for a while that will taint that fresh breath feeling .
  • angela233Z
    angela233Z Posts: 312 Member
    Futuremanda - thanks for the great tips - I especially like the walking to the bakery for a treat!