Carbs are BAD!!!

Catchy title got ya, huh?

(I am not entirely sure this is the correct category, but yeah..HELP!)

I have this friend who wants to eat healthy, wants to do sports with me and so on. Cool, eh? However, she usually puts down what I eat. Yesterday I invited her for dinner, made a veggie puree with GASP potatoes and she said that the carbs are bad for you. I was here like "But I like potatoes". She wants to do low carb, fine. Do it, but do't put down my dinner. She also nagged about my portion. I was happy with a bowl of my puree and she said "Isn't that too little?"

Her usual food is something like crispy breads, lots of noodles and so on...Mostly stuff with carbs and lots of fat for sauces. So I have no idea where she gets the authority to tell me what stuff is bad. (Apparently she did a nutrition seminar for school once.)

I think what it comes down to is this:

1. Venting. I want to get this off my chest so I don't explode in her face.

2. Similar stories. What do you guys do in situations like this?

3. Links. Anyone have a link that shows that the body needs carbs?
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  • cmazurek85
    cmazurek85 Posts: 99 Member
    I did a quick search on pubmed to see if I could find a study that would prove that carbs are not bad. I found a few sources (most of which were not free). I did find a letter in reply to a study that was conducted a few months earlier:

    http://ajcn.nutrition.org/content/75/5/951.2.long

    What I took away from it was:
    1) After the age of 3, the body needs 150g of carbs, every day, to function and not go into ketosis.
    2) Carb restriction can be beneficial for losing weight. Carb + glycerol restriction results in harm to the body. so a low carb, low fat diet could harm you (in the long term.)
    3) You need carbs to break down all the fat that is eaten.
    4) The link between the need for carbs reagrding how the body functions is not fully understood, for individuals who consume a reduced amount of carbs for an extended period of time (less than 50/day.) Yes, the body could get the energy it needs from burning fat and protein, but doing this for a long time (it didn't say how long), can be harmful to the body. Carbohydrate deficiency syndrome is a real condition.

    At the bottom of the above link, some of the citations are free.

    I hardly think your friends diet of highly processed foods is better than your potato. From what your ticker says, you've lost some weight and have probably been enjoying potatoes...So.....enjoy your veggie puree!

    I've had friends in the past who used to say similar things to me...I don't hang out with them anymore (due to other reasons) but it feels good to be with people who wont give me hell because I want to eat a potato. I'd probably tell me about the health benefits to eating whole foods and all vegetables and leave it at that.
  • GiveMeCoffee
    GiveMeCoffee Posts: 3,556 Member
    My response would have been "good more for me" and went right on eating. If she continued, then I would have told her to get lost my house, my cooking, if you don't like it you can leave.
  • Snip8241
    Snip8241 Posts: 767 Member
    One nutrition seminar in school does not an expert make. You friend was rude and a bad guest.

    I personally don't eliminate or restrict any particular food group.

    Balance, to me, is the most important thing.
  • Carbs are essential to one's diet. I know a lot of people do the low carb thing, and maybe that works temporarily, but I can't imagine a lifetime without complex and essential carbs. After all, carbs give energy and our bodies need that energy to fuel us properly. I personally have found that if I don't eat enough carbs before a workout, I have a hard time getting through my workout.

    Here's a link with information and definitions as well as other sources that might be a good read for you. That way, when your friend tries to discourage you next time, you can give her informed answers. Knowledge is power, right? :)http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/carbohydrates.html
  • _Terrapin_
    _Terrapin_ Posts: 4,301 Member
    This is a lovely read: Enjoy!

    "I was informed one of our patients was admitted to the Emergency Room a couple days ago, unresponsive (syncope).

    Patient is female, borderline type 2* (followed up below) and was diagnosed with Diabetic Ketoacidosis (DKA). They declared this diagnosis when they ran her urinetest and it wasnt even dark purple, it was black. They immediately drew blood work, multiple panels, ran tests, etc. She was immediately admitted and they were required to start Insulin, Normal Saline and hourly monitoring.

    Her husband brought in her food diary (she kept a notebook on her intake) and what they saw was extremely horrible. She was running so low on her carb intake, she was basically netting 10g of carbs - most days. Other days she was actually doing a ketogenic diet - a diet that was never recommended for this patient to begin with. Her caloric intake was well below 900 calories on a regular daily basis.

    When she stabilized by hour-four, the Endo, her Primary Care Physician and now a Nephrologist came in to talk with her about the situation.

    She damn near had kidney failure - the kidneys were significantly fatigued. Her body produced no insulin, and she did not have enough hydration to get rid of the excess ketones in her body, via urine output due to her choice of an extremely low carb/ketogenic intake, thus causing ketoacidosis.

    She was counseled that the minimum requirements of healthy carbohydrates is to help the body encourage insulin to be excreted and utilized at more appropriate times, thus helping to restore insulin sensitivity. She was also advised that ketosis requires careful monitoring, in fact, the Endo advised they were getting her out of ketosis immediately because of the near-breakdown of her kidneys. She was also told, because her weakened kidneys now need to heal, she will need to have her carbs gradually upped every two days to get back into homeostasis (normalization of body function). With exercising, she was told that for at least a month, there would be no rigorous exercise - they arranged for her to work in the cardiac rehab unit so she could use the treadmill and be monitored to help maintain her heart rate/bp.

    This woman almost died...... 8-(

    *Folks - this patient represents 5% of the entire population as a Type 2 Diabetic situation. Ketoacidosis is more common with Type 1 Diabetics... if it occurs in a Type 2 patient, we are talking serious trouble.

    If you follow a Keto diet - do not go this alone. Discuss this with an Endocrinologist who will work in conjunction with your Primary Care Physician. This is never a diet to be done without the medical advisement of your doctor(s).

    If you follow Atkins (updated versions), and the first Phase isnt working, there are reasons why it is not working. Discuss with an Endocrinologist what might be more appropriate for you. Even if you are not a diabetic, discuss this topic with an Endo as they are familiar with at least determining the amount of healthy carbs a patient should consider based on BMR calculations, etc.

    If you are a patient who has been diagnosed as 'Borderline Diabetic' - take this message seriously: do not go extreme with a low-carb intake. You do run the risk of serious health problems manifesting from making poor choices.

    Do not ever go below the 1200 (net or full) calorie mark . If you are well below, you must be under a physician/specialist's care for that. Otherwise, you will definitely cause more problems. If you have been given a caloric restriction, whether 1400, 1600, 1800, TDEE-15%, there is a reason why the treating physician is using that guideline with your care.

    If an RD ever tries to trump the advice of a medical physician, inform your physician right away.

    Ketoacidosis is not just something that can happen to Type 1 or Type 2 Diabetics either.. this can happen with any patient.

    Please make sure, for those that run ketostick-checks, do not ever let it go extremely dark....ever that is a serious medical issue that can develop, or is already happening..... "

    How many professionals are in this thread comment?
  • _Zardoz_
    _Zardoz_ Posts: 3,987 Member
    Do we put carbs on the naughty step and get them to think about their actions?
  • malibu927
    malibu927 Posts: 17,562 Member
    Mmmmmmm, carbs /Homer Simpson Voice
  • eric_sg61
    eric_sg61 Posts: 2,925 Member
    Don't argue with zealots because you can't fight faith with facts.
  • _Terrapin_
    _Terrapin_ Posts: 4,301 Member
    Don't argue with zealots because you can't fight faith with facts.

    Graci. Amen Brother(hehehehehe)
  • _Terrapin_
    _Terrapin_ Posts: 4,301 Member
    Ironically, the long quote I provided is from a low carb group moderator on MFP.
  • sheepysaccount
    sheepysaccount Posts: 608 Member
    Thanks for the answers. I think as a friend I should be able to talk to her. It's her choice ultimately, but if she really wants to be healthy she might look at what she's eating.

    Also thanks for the links and facts. :)
  • mercurysfire
    mercurysfire Posts: 144 Member
    atkins and it's brethren were originally intended for patients so obese they were on the brink of death. it's been around a while- i had a cousin back in the 90's who was doing it and this is after it had escaped into the hands of regular doctors that would hand it off to patients that needed to lose some weight. Still not the intended audience, but at least a pro was watching. it was written for a specific set of patients and was never intended to be unleashed into the world as a normal diet because of the very real dangers of a normal person taking on this diet unsupervised.

    so yes your body requires carbs. they are the easiest energy source and the first thing to burn. it can vary pretty widely from person to person on how many you need. I've met type I diabetics to restrict carbs to between 60-90 per day- but they do it because they do not produce their own insulin (or not nearly enough). if i eat 100-130 carbs a day i feel pretty good. if i eat 200 i feel buzzy and i sweat buckets when i exercise and i have breakouts.

    potatoes are good for you. regualr ol' pasta won't kill you, but it's not the healthiest choice out there. it's more just a vehicle for the sauce.

    and next time your friend comes over for dinner, tell her to mind her own plate. :)
  • MityMax96
    MityMax96 Posts: 5,778 Member
    I like carbs and eat a lot of them
  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
    She eats low carb but eats "crispy bread and noodles"?

    #doingitwrong
  • MityMax96
    MityMax96 Posts: 5,778 Member
    She eats low carb but eats "crispy bread and noodles"?

    #doingitwrong

    It's all about what your definition of Low Carb is. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    Those carbs don't count.....
    But carbs from rice or candy.....those carbs count. :wink:
  • tennisdude2004
    tennisdude2004 Posts: 5,609 Member
    Catchy title got ya, huh?

    (I am not entirely sure this is the correct category, but yeah..HELP!)

    I have this friend who wants to eat healthy, wants to do sports with me and so on. Cool, eh? However, she usually puts down what I eat. Yesterday I invited her for dinner, made a veggie puree with GASP potatoes and she said that the carbs are bad for you. I was here like "But I like potatoes". She wants to do low carb, fine. Do it, but do't put down my dinner. She also nagged about my portion. I was happy with a bowl of my puree and she said "Isn't that too little?"

    Her usual food is something like crispy breads, lots of noodles and so on...Mostly stuff with carbs and lots of fat for sauces. So I have no idea where she gets the authority to tell me what stuff is bad. (Apparently she did a nutrition seminar for school once.)

    I think what it comes down to is this:

    1. Venting. I want to get this off my chest so I don't explode in her face.

    2. Similar stories. What do you guys do in situations like this?

    3. Links. Anyone have a link that shows that the body needs carbs?

    Simple solution.

    Drop your friend and never invite her to dinner again - I'll be honest she sounds a bit annoying!
  • I'm guilty! Lol I restrict myself from bad carbs all the time and I love them! I'm staying away from breadings, cakes, sweets, pastas, etc. I do once in a while have a slice of pizza or cake though lol
  • tennisdude2004
    tennisdude2004 Posts: 5,609 Member
    Carbs are essential to one's diet. I know a lot of people do the low carb thing, and maybe that works temporarily, but I can't imagine a lifetime without complex and essential carbs. After all, carbs give energy and our bodies need that energy to fuel us properly. I personally have found that if I don't eat enough carbs before a workout, I have a hard time getting through my workout.

    Here's a link with information and definitions as well as other sources that might be a good read for you. That way, when your friend tries to discourage you next time, you can give her informed answers. Knowledge is power, right? :)http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/carbohydrates.html

    Carbs are yummy and certainly good for an optimal healthy diet, but one thing dietary carbs are not is essential. The only macro nutrients that are essential is protein and fat!

    Also I think some people find a lifetime on low carbs a lot easier than a lifetime of having to log food and restrict calories when they are still hungry!
  • Sasssy69
    Sasssy69 Posts: 547 Member
    If anyone ever tells you that you eat too many carbs, stop talking to them. You don't need that kind of negativity in your life.
  • PRMinx
    PRMinx Posts: 4,585 Member
    If pizza is wrong, I don't ever want to be right.

    Carbs, for the win.
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    Catchy title got ya, huh?

    (I am not entirely sure this is the correct category, but yeah..HELP!)

    I have this friend who wants to eat healthy, wants to do sports with me and so on. Cool, eh? However, she usually puts down what I eat. Yesterday I invited her for dinner, made a veggie puree with GASP potatoes and she said that the carbs are bad for you. I was here like "But I like potatoes". She wants to do low carb, fine. Do it, but do't put down my dinner. She also nagged about my portion. I was happy with a bowl of my puree and she said "Isn't that too little?"

    Her usual food is something like crispy breads, lots of noodles and so on...Mostly stuff with carbs and lots of fat for sauces. So I have no idea where she gets the authority to tell me what stuff is bad. (Apparently she did a nutrition seminar for school once.)

    I think what it comes down to is this:

    1. Venting. I want to get this off my chest so I don't explode in her face.

    2. Similar stories. What do you guys do in situations like this?

    3. Links. Anyone have a link that shows that the body needs carbs?

    Where was your protein? Protein is GOOD!!!!!!
  • I did low-carb (Atkins '02 model) for over a year and lost over sixty pounds. I got two very good benefits from it during that time:

    1. Notably decreased appetite from being in ketosis which translated directly to a calorie deficit.
    2. Self-discipline in that "slipping up" would knock me out of ketosis, and getting back into it was three days of feeling flu-like.

    It still all came down to a calorie deficit. I exercise daily now, and I don't drink like I used to. I still keep an eye on my carbs, but I'm certainly not doing a ketosis-level diet any more. All these translate to a thousand calories less per day than I ate in the past. Instead of 2,800, it's 1,800/day.

    Like everyone else has written, she doesn't get to choose which ones "count", and which ones don't.

    If she's hell-bent on Atkins, there are plenty of books that detail what she needs to know, instead of what she wants to believe.
  • StrawberryJam40
    StrawberryJam40 Posts: 274 Member
    Maybe it is as simple as a conversation with her. Just let her know that everyone has a different approach on diet and you will respect her low carb diet and she can respect your choices.

    I have a friend that has lost 80 pounds doing low carbs so I tried it a few times. I just can't. Just doesn't work for me. I missed my carbs, But, I've now found what does work for me and since have lost almost 17 pounds. Now we have started strength training together and still share recipes that fit into both our plans.

    When I read the post the first thing I thought was - You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. I said for years I wanted to lose weight and exercise and blah blah blah. Until your friend is ready to do it for herself it won't matter. But, continue to encourage her and let her know (regardless of what diet plan) you will be there for her.

    Keep up the good work!
  • scottacular
    scottacular Posts: 597 Member
    If someone put down my food choices like that, I'd chuck a boiling hot sweet potato in their face and then tip a bowl of fresh out of the microwave oats over their head for good measure.
  • MizTerry
    MizTerry Posts: 3,763 Member
    They are naughty and must be spanked.
  • Commander_Keen
    Commander_Keen Posts: 1,179 Member


    3. Links. Anyone have a link that shows that the body needs carbs?

    Everybody works differently.
    If I don't' get at least 100 grams of carbs in my system and I go and work out, I will get physically ill and I will vomit.
  • MelRC117
    MelRC117 Posts: 911 Member
    Ironically, the long quote I provided is from a low carb group moderator on MFP.

    Well, you forgot to really point out that she was eating low carb AND low fat which is a no-no on low carb diet and she was eating like this for a LONG time.

    OP - It doesnt' really sound like she's doing low carb...I don't know what she's doing if she's eating noodles, etc. I would just continue doing what you want and just say "Well it's working for me obviously".
  • twoaugustgirls
    twoaugustgirls Posts: 20 Member
    I agree and I am no authority on anything but I asked one the trainers for the Ironman athletes and her response was that I should reduce processed carbs and get the majority of my carbs from fruit and try to stay high in protein. She feels that our bodies need carbs but we can get them from more natural sources ie: potatoes! veggies, fruit. She suggested I eat a banana with peanut butter instead of bread or when making a sandwich I make it with a big leaf of lettuce and the meats cheeses and mustard. She also said this was to loose weight and be healthy. She did not suggest that I never eat bread or carbs again. Just use modification and make smart choices and be more conscious of it while I need to loose weight.
  • 2013sk
    2013sk Posts: 1,318 Member
    If carbs are bad, then I am a very bad bad girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I always have carbs in my diet!!!!!!

    If I didn't I wouldn't be able to do the workouts that I do in the gym!

    She needs to look at her own diet I think : )
  • Wookinpanub
    Wookinpanub Posts: 635 Member
    I am a recovering carb-aholic. Loved pasta, rice dishes, big deli sandwiches, pancakes, sugar cereal, and just about anything sweet. All I know is I cut these things back probably 80-90% and have lost a good deal of weight with routine exercise.