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Hi everyone! My name is Alicia and I am so excited to be here. I have been struggling with weight for most of my life. I recently had a four month old son and while I have lost the 50lbs I put on during pregnany, I have not lost the 40lbs I put on going through IVF. I have a total of 88lbs I need to lose in order to reach my overall goal. I feel so self conscious around my smaller friends and family and it's to the point I sometimes do not attend events because I don't want to be the biggest one there. My 28th birthday and 6th anniversary are in June and I hope to lose weight before them both! Any advice, tips, support, etc. will be greatly appreciated.