Why Wait to Live?

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Breckgirl
Breckgirl Posts: 606 Member
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This was my vanity plates on my PT Cruiser when I first got it. It's my version of "Live for Today." I have always felt very strongly about this mantra. Last Friday my sister Wendy's father-in-law Larry went in to the doctor feeling sick and having pains in his abdomen. They found that it was his gallbladder and planned to remove it. They also found a tumor on his liver. The biopsy was malignant. After extensive tests they found that the cancer was throughout his body. He was told on Monday that he had days to live. Last night he flat lined but because his mom hadn't made it into town yet they revived him and had him on life-support until she had a chance to say her goodbyes. She's with him now and in a couple of hours they will take him off of life-support.

Why am I sharing this story with you? Just to remind you that life is shorter than you think and can change in a heartbeat. Please don't put your dreams on hold, remember to hug your loved ones and to tell them you love them often. No one ever said "Dad told me he loved me too much!"

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  • 2bFitNTrim
    2bFitNTrim Posts: 1,209 Member
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    OMG, what a horrible story, and yet, you are right, it could happen to any of us at any time. So sorry you and your family are going thru that. May God take good care of all of you during this difficult time.
  • hpsnickers1
    hpsnickers1 Posts: 2,783 Member
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    Someone who lived down the street from me was a good, good friend of my older brother (grew up together). 4 years ago, he's playing soccer with his friends. He hurt himself and for some reason it wouldn't heal. He finally went in to get it checked. He found out at that time he had Stage 4 Lung Cancer. He died a few weeks later. He was 36.

    Live Like We're Dying Lyrics (by American Idol Winner Kris Allen)

    Sometimes we fall down, can't get back up
    We're hiding behind skin that's too tough
    How come we don't say I love you enough
    Till it's to late, it's not too late

    Our hearts are hungry for a food that won't come
    And we could make a feast from these crumbs
    And we're all staring down the barrel of a gun
    So if your life flashed before you,
    What would you wish you would've done

    Yeah, we gotta start
    Looking at the hands of the time we've been given
    If this is all we got and we gotta start thinking
    If every second counts on a clock that's ticking
    Gotta live like we're dying

    We only got 86,400 seconds in a day to
    Turn it all around or to throw it all away
    We gotta tell them that we love them
    While we got the chance to say
    Gotta live like we're dying

    And if your plane fell out of the skies
    Who would you call with your last goodbye
    Should be so careful who we live out our lives
    So when we long for absolution,
    There'll no one on the line, yeah

    Yeah, we gotta start
    Looking at the hands of the time we've been given
    If this is all we got and we gotta start thinking
    If every second counts on a clock that's ticking
    Gotta live like we're dying

    We only got 86,400 seconds in a day to
    Turn it all around or to throw it all away
    We gotta tell them that we love them
    While we got the chance to say
    Gotta live like we're dying

    Like we're dying, oh, like we're dying..
    http://www.elyricsworld.com/live_like_we're_dying_lyrics_kris_allen.html

    We only got 86,400 seconds in a day to
    Turn it all around or to throw it all away
    We gotta tell them that we love them
    While we got the chance to say
    Gotta live like we're dying

    You never know a good thing till it's gone
    You never see a crash till it's head on
    Why do we think we're right when we're dead wrong
    You never know a good thing till it's gone

    Yeah, we gotta start
    Looking at the hands of the time we've been given
    If this is all we got and we gotta start thinking
    If every second counts on a clock that's ticking
    Gotta live like we're dying

    We only got 86,400 seconds in a day to
    Turn it all around or to throw it all away
    We gotta tell them that we love them
    While we got the chance to say
    Gotta live like we're dying

    Like we're dying, oh, like we're dying..

    We only got 86,400 seconds in a day to
    Turn it all around or to throw it all away
    We gotta tell them that we love them
    While we got the chance to say
    Gotta live like we're dying..
  • superwmn
    superwmn Posts: 936
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    I am so sorry for what you are going through. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for sharing and thank you for this important reminder.

    Life is so precious.

    Charmagne
  • Breckgirl
    Breckgirl Posts: 606 Member
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    OMG, what a horrible story, and yet, you are right, it could happen to any of us at any time. So sorry you and your family are going thru that. May God take good care of all of you during this difficult time.

    Thank you. It has been extra hard on Wendy and her husband Chris. Wendy is 6.5 months pregnant and it was hard for them to know that Larry won't see the baby.
  • Breckgirl
    Breckgirl Posts: 606 Member
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    Someone who lived down the street from me was a good, good friend of my older brother (grew up together). 4 years ago, he's playing soccer with his friends. He hurt himself and for some reason it wouldn't heal. He finally went in to get it checked. He found out at that time he had Stage 4 Lung Cancer. He died a few weeks later. He was 36.

    Live Like We're Dying Lyrics (by American Idol Winner Kris Allen)

    Sometimes we fall down, can't get back up
    We're hiding behind skin that's too tough
    How come we don't say I love you enough
    Till it's to late, it's not too late

    Our hearts are hungry for a food that won't come
    And we could make a feast from these crumbs
    And we're all staring down the barrel of a gun
    So if your life flashed before you,
    What would you wish you would've done

    Yeah, we gotta start
    Looking at the hands of the time we've been given
    If this is all we got and we gotta start thinking
    If every second counts on a clock that's ticking
    Gotta live like we're dying

    We only got 86,400 seconds in a day to
    Turn it all around or to throw it all away
    We gotta tell them that we love them
    While we got the chance to say
    Gotta live like we're dying

    And if your plane fell out of the skies
    Who would you call with your last goodbye
    Should be so careful who we live out our lives
    So when we long for absolution,
    There'll no one on the line, yeah

    Yeah, we gotta start
    Looking at the hands of the time we've been given
    If this is all we got and we gotta start thinking
    If every second counts on a clock that's ticking
    Gotta live like we're dying

    We only got 86,400 seconds in a day to
    Turn it all around or to throw it all away
    We gotta tell them that we love them
    While we got the chance to say
    Gotta live like we're dying

    Like we're dying, oh, like we're dying..
    http://www.elyricsworld.com/live_like_we're_dying_lyrics_kris_allen.html

    We only got 86,400 seconds in a day to
    Turn it all around or to throw it all away
    We gotta tell them that we love them
    While we got the chance to say
    Gotta live like we're dying

    You never know a good thing till it's gone
    You never see a crash till it's head on
    Why do we think we're right when we're dead wrong
    You never know a good thing till it's gone

    Yeah, we gotta start
    Looking at the hands of the time we've been given
    If this is all we got and we gotta start thinking
    If every second counts on a clock that's ticking
    Gotta live like we're dying

    We only got 86,400 seconds in a day to
    Turn it all around or to throw it all away
    We gotta tell them that we love them
    While we got the chance to say
    Gotta live like we're dying

    Like we're dying, oh, like we're dying..

    We only got 86,400 seconds in a day to
    Turn it all around or to throw it all away
    We gotta tell them that we love them
    While we got the chance to say
    Gotta live like we're dying..

    Thank you for the lyrics. Sorry for your loss and so young!
  • kelligonzales
    kelligonzales Posts: 391
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    Thank you for the reminder, Sorry for your families loss. But in everything bad comes something good... thank you again.
  • 2bFitNTrim
    2bFitNTrim Posts: 1,209 Member
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    OMG, what a horrible story, and yet, you are right, it could happen to any of us at any time. So sorry you and your family are going thru that. May God take good care of all of you during this difficult time.

    Thank you. It has been extra hard on Wendy and her husband Chris. Wendy is 6.5 months pregnant and it was hard for them to know that Larry won't see the baby.

    :cry: The story just got worse!
  • Lcm726
    Lcm726 Posts: 19 Member
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    I agree. Life is too short! Enjoy what you've got. Thank you for the reminder. ;)
  • Breckgirl
    Breckgirl Posts: 606 Member
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    OMG, what a horrible story, and yet, you are right, it could happen to any of us at any time. So sorry you and your family are going thru that. May God take good care of all of you during this difficult time.

    Thank you. It has been extra hard on Wendy and her husband Chris. Wendy is 6.5 months pregnant and it was hard for them to know that Larry won't see the baby.

    :cry: The story just got worse!

    Yes, I've learned not to challenge Karma by saying things couldn't get worse. Too many time they prove me wrong.:noway:

  • Breckgirl
    Breckgirl Posts: 606 Member
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    He is gone. I hope he's found peace. Thank you for all your kind thoughts.

    DeAnn

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