For all the ladies...

SoldierDad
SoldierDad Posts: 1,602
edited September 24 in Motivation and Support
I usually like to post on Friday evening to encourage everyone for the weekend but i won't be on much the next few days. Saturday marks the 11th anniversary of losing my first daughter and it is a pretty rough time. But some friends are taking me and my kids out Saturday and I am gonna be ok. But I didn't write this to get sympathy or bring anyone down. I am writing this for everyone to remember why they are on this journey to begin with. It is not to look like a model or win 1st place in a beauty contest. It is to be healthy so you can have a long and full life. So you can see your kids grow up and be their for them and your friends... Life is precious and wonderful... Now saying all of that I will continue by saying that you ladies ARE beautiful! You are as beautiful to me as a sunrise. Each of you are warriors but you are also smart, funny, and elegant. Whoever holds you today (or will hold you in the future) is the luckiest person on the planet. You are fighters, fierce and true, but you are also simple gorgeous. I couldn't be more blessed to know you and I love you all dearly and respect you immensley.
:flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :heart: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:

Love,

Ed

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  • ms_erica
    ms_erica Posts: 173 Member
    awwww....that is so sweet! Just made my day. Thank u!:flowerforyou:
  • That made me cry :) Definitely needed that today. Have a great weekend :) You're doing fantastic too!
  • kelhun1
    kelhun1 Posts: 183 Member
    I am so sorry for your loss and I will keep you and your family in my prayers. I am sure your daughter was a very lucky girl to have a father like you. I can tell you have the utmost respect for women and that is a wonderful thing to see. Thank you for the kind words of encouragement.
  • sarah44254
    sarah44254 Posts: 3,078 Member
    You're so good to us, Ed. Thank you <3
  • kcthatsme
    kcthatsme Posts: 5,136 Member
    Thank you so much for your post.
  • btor
    btor Posts: 144 Member
    Thank you. :)
  • Shari62
    Shari62 Posts: 7
    I really would like to look like a model............
  • bsoxluvr
    bsoxluvr Posts: 183 Member
    What a wonderful message. Thank you.
  • Wow, thank you so much for the boost! very emotional to read, im on the verge of tears. Thank you thank you thank you!
  • that made my day :)
  • tammydspice
    tammydspice Posts: 102
    awwww, I so needed that, i just looked at a pic that was taken of me on Saturday night out with the girls, thinking after 35lbs gone that I looked great, yeah...nope I didn't.

    Thanks for the nice words.
    Tammy
  • mattie11
    mattie11 Posts: 13 Member
    thank you!
  • jenX1174
    jenX1174 Posts: 154
    thank you so very much......that is so nice to hear! :flowerforyou:
  • bordersvm
    bordersvm Posts: 70
    Yes, thank you for the post... : ) I will pray for you and your family as well. Have a good weekend with your family! :flowerforyou:
  • Setof2Keys
    Setof2Keys Posts: 681 Member
    I am tearing up!! Thank you. BTW getting healthy is a wonderful tribute to your daughter. May she rest in peace!! Also, wanted to say Thank you for your service.
  • ileana84
    ileana84 Posts: 163
    That was just beyond amazing. Thank you for that and I hope that you will be filled with strength each and every day :)
  • clevethin
    clevethin Posts: 26
    Ed,
    Thank you for the wonderful words of encouragement.
    I'll be thinking of you. Monday is the 19th anniversary of losing my son. (It's hard to tell people that without them feeling they need to fall apart for me, so I know what you mean about not wanting to bring people down.)
    Good thing our God is SO big!
    ((((((hug))))))
    ~kim
  • Kityngirl
    Kityngirl Posts: 14,304 Member
    :flowerforyou:
  • nora62662
    nora62662 Posts: 27
    That was so very sweet of you. Thank you Ed. I also lost a son at the age of 14 so I know how hard it is. I Know the Lord is taking care of them in Heaven. Something my Grandmother said to me: As long as they stay in your heart, they r never gone.
  • Annr
    Annr Posts: 2,765 Member
    You know just what to say and when we need it the most...thanks! My thoughts are with you (((chiefs wife hug)))
  • ChristieDF
    ChristieDF Posts: 178 Member
    Thank you thank you!! You are such a sweet man Ed. My prayers go out to you and your family. Hope you have a blessed weekend. And again thank you. I needed that.
  • amydcarlson
    amydcarlson Posts: 136 Member
    Oh, I am so sorry for your loss.....:cry: God Bless you and your family. Thank you for all of the inspiration and motivation. :flowerforyou:
  • SoldierDad
    SoldierDad Posts: 1,602
    Thank you all and I love you all very much. God bless! :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:
  • tammy200678
    tammy200678 Posts: 201 Member
    awwww....that is so sweet! Just made my day. Thank u!:flowerforyou:

    agreed
  • I am so glad you're my friend! :flowerforyou: I can't even imagine what a nightmare losing your daughter was for you. I'll be thinking of you this weekend.
  • klt1030
    klt1030 Posts: 82 Member
    Thank you Ed, you are truly inspirational!
  • dlangenfeld
    dlangenfeld Posts: 119
    Thanks Ed and have a great weekend!!
  • 8turboturtle8
    8turboturtle8 Posts: 239 Member
    I will be thinking of you and your family. Thank you for all the encouragement and kind words. As everyone said before they do mean so much.
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