Weight Loss site or Adult date site?

Earthdogg
Earthdogg Posts: 3
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Im just curious...is this a weight loss sight? or an adult date / flirt / cheat site? Im a normal guy, I like chicks as well...but seriously, you girls need to start realizing the differance between someone flirting with you for fun and encouragement and some one flirting with you who is actually a manipulative preditor. I sit back and watch some of the garbage these guys are spewing and it makes me sick to think that some of you are falling for this crap, maybe even putting your own REAL LIFE commited relationships in jeapardy.

Anyone else Notice / Feel like this?

Or am I wrong?

Nothing wrong with encouragement........
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  • ceebs9
    ceebs9 Posts: 511 Member
    I'm obviously reading the wrong threads.
  • AsaThorsWoman
    AsaThorsWoman Posts: 2,303 Member
    I haven't seen anything like that... but all my friends are in some ways pagan or freaky... so they're either open-minded, or offended and delete me.
  • NoAdditives
    NoAdditives Posts: 4,251 Member
    I really have no idea what you're talking about. I haven't seen much, if any, flirting of any kind from anyone on this site. All I've seen is advice, support and encouragement, and lots of sharing of recipes, workouts, etc.
  • JennLifts
    JennLifts Posts: 1,913 Member
    I dont think i've seen anything ridiculous?
  • luv2ash
    luv2ash Posts: 1,903 Member
    ditto---I have not seen this either--
  • 55tolose
    55tolose Posts: 510 Member
    I have not seen any flirting going on
  • Naomi91
    Naomi91 Posts: 892 Member
    Like what would be a example of what you have seen?

    I have seen flirting, but nothing harmful. Just some people have a flirty personality :]
  • jerseyshorenurse
    jerseyshorenurse Posts: 47 Member
    No one flirts with me. Am I doing something wrong???
    LOL, I have no idea what you're talking about. Haven't seen anything of the sort.
  • LeAnn_Mae
    LeAnn_Mae Posts: 263 Member
    Examples???
  • 123456654321
    123456654321 Posts: 1,311 Member
    No one flirts with me. Am I doing something wrong??? .

    HAAAAY BAAAABY! *wink wink*
  • picturesing
    picturesing Posts: 228
    No clue what you're talking bout!!! I'm on here more than FB these days and haven't seen a hint of what you're talking about. I'm positive you are mistaken or reading something into what you read. I have found this to be a community of like minded people with the same goal - health and fitness! We share to support one another. :huh: :angry:
  • jerseyshorenurse
    jerseyshorenurse Posts: 47 Member
    No one flirts with me. Am I doing something wrong??? .

    HAAAAY BAAAABY! *wink wink*

    RAWR.
  • anubis609
    anubis609 Posts: 3,966 Member
    No one flirts on this site. So if any of you ladies want a good time, holla at ya boy over here.

    See? Nothin'...
  • nickkehagias
    nickkehagias Posts: 51
    Clearly, I need to be putting myself in these threads where these predators are, who knows what I'm missing out on.
  • laughingdani
    laughingdani Posts: 2,275 Member
    *flirt flirt* :bigsmile:
  • Earthdogg
    Earthdogg Posts: 3
    Yes , im sorry, i should have been more specific. The community here is great, and very supportive. I guess its my choice of male friends here.

    forgive me for generalizing
  • 123456654321
    123456654321 Posts: 1,311 Member
    No one flirts with me. Am I doing something wrong??? .

    HAAAAY BAAAABY! *wink wink*

    RAWR.

    OH NOES! DID I JUST PUT OUR IRL RELATIONSHIPS IN JEOPARDY!?!?!
  • Hearts_2015
    Hearts_2015 Posts: 12,031 Member
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  • mrmarius
    mrmarius Posts: 1,802 Member
    havent seen any predators there is flirting yes but more than anything there is support encouragement and advice.. Curious to the predatorial behavior you mention
  • kelligonzales
    kelligonzales Posts: 391
    No one flirts on this site. So if any of you ladies want a good time, holla at ya boy over here.

    See? Nothin'...


    LMAO
  • Bigsekci
    Bigsekci Posts: 4
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    I agree 100% ...if you need proof...look above.
  • 123456654321
    123456654321 Posts: 1,311 Member
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    I agree 100% ...if you need proof...look above.

    Someone made a sock to agree with themselves....nice.
  • kelligonzales
    kelligonzales Posts: 391
    I haven't seen any of this really, I seen some F***ing funny post about not P-13 subject matter but. We are all adults and if any girls fall "victim" to words typed on a screen then poor them i guess. They need a lesson common sense. :huh:
  • Aspynmom
    Aspynmom Posts: 166 Member
    Where? WHERE? I want some!!!! LOL (did I just type that out loud???)
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  • Panda_Jack
    Panda_Jack Posts: 829 Member
    *flirt flirt* :bigsmile:

    Heeey! Back atcha! :wink:
  • ToniAnn411
    ToniAnn411 Posts: 83
    I'm obviously reading the wrong threads.

    Me too
  • Rurouni_Kou
    Rurouni_Kou Posts: 180 Member
    A date site? What threads have you been reading, please let me in on this secret. I could use a date. I'm obviously reading the wrong threads around here!
  • laughingdani
    laughingdani Posts: 2,275 Member
    *flirt flirt* :bigsmile:

    Heeey! Back atcha! :wink:

    :blushing:
  • Hearts_2015
    Hearts_2015 Posts: 12,031 Member
    I have some MFP friends that have met on here and dated. I also have some MFP friends that have been stalked and received very forward, creepy private messages and posts to their walls after accepting a friend request - both girls & guys! I also know a couple of MFP people that have left the site due to the way they started getting treated by others lashing out, posting on the boards about them, etc...

    There are, just like any other social website, many people who are here for the wrong reasons. Just be careful of who you accept friend requests from, and be forewarned that if your profile pic is at all provocative you could get people sending requests just to start messing with you. If someone starts creeping you out that's a friend, delete them. If it continues, do NOT be afraid to report a person if you feel threatened in any way.
    agree! Very well put, I've seen this as well.
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