New to this site and looking for friends.

Hello! I am new to this site and I like it a lot. I have been struggling with my weight for a long time now. There isnt much support around me. People think that just because I am tall (5'11") and I carry it well...that it is ok to be overweight. I dont agree with this...yes I will always be heavier than someone who is shorter than me...doesnt make it ok to be 230lbs. My boyfriend has a bigger weight problem and even though I know he loves me and supports me I feel pressure every day to eat like him. Not his fault. I also dont have much money right now so a lot of the healthier foods arent always there for me. I buy the healthy stuff when I can but when they are gone all that is left is my boyfriend and roomates foods which arent on the healthy side. I get very frustrated. I wish I could clean out the house of all temptations but that is not an option for me. I came on this forum to look for some support and friendship from some people with a healthier lifestyle. Maybe friendships that could go on (I have had some that talk to me on facebook a few times then dissapear). Maybe we could check in with eachother every few days. Be a little support for eachother. And if your local we could even work out together sometimes...or not. This is a bit of a vent session and a bit of a cry for help. I dont blame anybody else for my weight problems. I just wish I had some more understanding people around me.