Cooking for the family?

tbanking
tbanking Posts: 28 Member
edited September 19 in Health and Weight Loss
My husband works night so usually I cook his meat and potatos and put it in the tupper ware, then get myself something lighter. But, he has recently been getting weeks off every once in a while. I love to get to actually have dinner with him since it is a rare occation, but i tend to eat what he eats so that I am not making two meals. Does anyone have any suggestions?

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  • tbanking
    tbanking Posts: 28 Member
    My husband works night so usually I cook his meat and potatos and put it in the tupper ware, then get myself something lighter. But, he has recently been getting weeks off every once in a while. I love to get to actually have dinner with him since it is a rare occation, but i tend to eat what he eats so that I am not making two meals. Does anyone have any suggestions?
  • Anna_Banana
    Anna_Banana Posts: 2,939 Member
    I cook one meal at our house and everybody eats, if hubby is going to be gone I save left overs for him. We eat lots of soups and stir frys, or grilled meat and veggies.
  • songbyrdsweet
    songbyrdsweet Posts: 5,691 Member
    Eat meat and potatoes. What in the world is wrong with that? Just measure it. Add some veggies to it, make a pot roast...mmmmm.
  • MollySue30
    MollySue30 Posts: 288 Member
    When I do cook for the family I will eat the same thing as them I might add a extra veg or a salad to what we are eating and i will eat just a smaller portion than anyone else. It helps to know that I don't have to cook something different for me and I am not giving up my favorite things either.
  • tbanking
    tbanking Posts: 28 Member
    He eats nothing green! Really no veggies at all! I guess I will just have to cook the veggies for me. We have different goals he is trying to gain and I am trying to lost!
  • kdsmith
    kdsmith Posts: 250
    Just think...I also have 3 little kids who are very picky eaters like their father...I cook a lot of different meals here for everyone but always make double so that the next night I just reheat the food and don't have to cook again. Generally my kids eat one thing, my husband and I another meal but if he is having pasta or something with too many calories then I will also cook myself something lighter. It's just for now until I lose my weight.
    I'm jealous that your husband gets to gain weight!!!
  • kendallalissa
    kendallalissa Posts: 249
    Wow! My husband doesn't eat greens either!!! It's very frustrating. Surprisingly I've found that he will actually eat them when they're made in stews, like made-up/homemade crockpot meals. He can pick 'em out if he doesn't want 'em. More for me!!! You can still eat the meat 'n potatoes, keeping in mind portion control. :wink:

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  • ErinRNinMaine
    ErinRNinMaine Posts: 460 Member
    I honestly get irritated when people cook separate meals for family members. He's a grown-*kitten* man, if he doesn't want to eat what's there....well tough cookies. If the kids don't like it, too bad....go hungry.

    OK, so I guess that wasn't really very helpful, and I apologize. But these questions drive me bonkers...:grumble:
  • Anna_Banana
    Anna_Banana Posts: 2,939 Member
    I honestly get irritated when people cook separate meals for family members. He's a grown-*kitten* man, if he doesn't want to eat what's there....well tough cookies. If the kids don't like it, too bad....go hungry.

    OK, so I guess that wasn't really very helpful, and I apologize. But these questions drive me bonkers...:grumble:

    So glad you said it. I don't care if kids or hubby is pick. 1 family 1 meal. If you make your kids and hubby taste it eventually they will eat it. I don't put up with the whining or gaging. My kids have to sit till the take one bite of everything. If they whine I tell them I don't hear whining and I will listen to the when their voice is calm like mine. Then when they calm down and tell me they don't like it. I tell them that I'm so sorry, but everybody in the house has to taste everything, and if they want to go play all they have to do is take a bite and eat it and they can be done. I don't believe in babying them. Your not doing them any favors.

    For the hubby that needs to gain. Give him a protein shake mixed with a little PB for a snack during the day.
  • tbanking
    tbanking Posts: 28 Member
    My husband has tried every weight gaining shake and pill they make! He is just ment to be the skinny one. I wish it was me! Hopefully after some work it will be!
  • Anna_Banana
    Anna_Banana Posts: 2,939 Member
    My husband has tried every weight gaining shake and pill they make! He is just ment to be the skinny one. I wish it was me! Hopefully after some work it will be!

    My be he should try Ice cream. It worked for me:bigsmile:
  • laird20k
    laird20k Posts: 96 Member
    I have the same problem with my boyfriend. He is a football player and has intense practices 5 days a week. I have trouble finding something that will give him enough energy and still have not too many calories for me. I tend to give him double the serving that I am having. If he isn't full then he just has snack food and if im not i just eat salad or warm up frozen veggies. Luckily he does eat veggies so i don't have to worry about that, but he is very picky. He also tends to go towards packaged pasta (kraft dinner and hamburger helper) I hate these so i have to make two meals.. so much for convenience.
  • tamazinglee
    tamazinglee Posts: 186 Member
    I honestly get irritated when people cook separate meals for family members. He's a grown-*kitten* man, if he doesn't want to eat what's there....well tough cookies. If the kids don't like it, too bad....go hungry.

    OK, so I guess that wasn't really very helpful, and I apologize. But these questions drive me bonkers...:grumble:

    So glad you said it. I don't care if kids or hubby is pick. 1 family 1 meal. If you make your kids and hubby taste it eventually they will eat it. I don't put up with the whining or gaging. My kids have to sit till the take one bite of everything. If they whine I tell them I don't hear whining and I will listen to the when their voice is calm like mine. Then when they calm down and tell me they don't like it. I tell them that I'm so sorry, but everybody in the house has to taste everything, and if they want to go play all they have to do is take a bite and eat it and they can be done. I don't believe in babying them. Your not doing them any favors.

    Ditto and Ditto.
    I am busy enough without thinking about making multiple meals. If you don't start catering to each person's individual tastes, then they won't expect it. I have a husband and two active teenage boys - we rarely - eat dinner together so whoever is home and hungry is in charge of cooking. If the others don't like it....they can find something else to eat or go hungry.
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