I cant seem to lose ANY weight! Help?

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Alright. SO here is the full story, im just gonna lay it all down.

I was a very healthy young girl. I have done Ballet even since i was 3 and i have done soccer, volleyball, baseball, everything in the sports area. In the second grade i broke my ankle and ever since then i had to slowly stop doing ANYTHING active. No more soccer, no more volleyball. No more mountain hiking with Dad. I haven't been able to run since the 5th grade. Its been Very hard because once i couldn't be active, the weight started to appear. Currently i am 5'7 and weigh 213.5. Its bad, yes i know this and i dont need anybody telling me that because it could be worse. I posted on here this morning about food at my school and ideas about what i should bring and Thank you for the people who posted on that :)

This past August i had a major ankle surgery were they went in and cut out part of my tendons and then screwed them into the bone, making it so my ankle would no longer be able to roll.

I can no Jog for 15 minutes with Minimal pain! Something i have not been able to do in 5 years.

Now i am trying to lose the weight and get back to were i use to be. 145. Now, i know this is going to take time and hard work, but i need ideas, friends, people i can talk to when i need some inspiration

So currently i have been working out for about 4-5 weeks and i keep bouncing back and fourth between 2 pounds.. I do eat healthy, aside from some candy around that time of the month, but come on.. us woman have enough going on then, i think some chocolate is okay :)

Does anybody have any ideas about how i can break this 2 pound thing?

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  • PinkAndSparkle
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    I hear ya, girl. Make your journal public so we can get a better idea of what you're eating or what you're NOT eating and give you better advise.
  • hopper2212
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    How do you do that?
  • MamaLeague
    MamaLeague Posts: 148 Member
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    Click 'home'
    'settings'
    'diary settings'
    then select it to become public.
  • chylom
    chylom Posts: 48 Member
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    Go to My home -settings - food diary
  • hopper2212
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    Alright! i did it! keep in mind though guys that i havent really been posting on here i didnt get on for like 2 weeks. but oh well. on on now, and im not leaving.
  • Angierae75
    Angierae75 Posts: 417 Member
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    Your diary is kind of sparse, so it's hard to tell. Are you eating dinner? You haven't logged a dinner yet. If you're only eating 800-900 calories, you're not eating enough. Your body won't let go of fat reserves if it thinks it doesn't have enough food coming in.
  • chylom
    chylom Posts: 48 Member
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    Looks like on the days you do log you arent eating enough cals
  • hopper2212
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    I do eat dinner. I just forget to mark it in half the time.
  • hpsnickers1
    hpsnickers1 Posts: 2,783 Member
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    What is your calorie goal? 1200? It could possibly be too low for you. Go into Tools and calculate your BMR. This is your 'comatose' number. What you would burn lying in bed. (but not sleeping). Try eating that and make sure you eat back whatever you burn during exercise. (If you don't that can dip you below a NET of 1200 calories).

    This could help.

    Keep sodium numbers down. Drink at least 64oz of water per day. And give it some time. Your body has to adjust to the new routine. And the quality of the calorie is just as important as the quantity.

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  • susancelli928
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    it sounds like you need to up your exercising I realize its easier said than done but that is the best way to do it along with eating more veggies. also up your water intake.. Its not easy losing weight but if you are persistent with your goal you can win the war
  • PlanetVelma
    PlanetVelma Posts: 1,231 Member
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    Are you logging all of your meals? I know some people only log when they get a free moment (myself included). If you are logging everything, I would say you need to try to eat more. Somedays it shows you barely get over 900 calories.

    Also, are you logging your water intake? If you have a hard time drinking water, try making yourself some decaf iced tea or put lemon slices into your water cup. I know if I don't drink enough water I feel like i'm hungry and I get snack happy. LOL
  • PlanetVelma
    PlanetVelma Posts: 1,231 Member
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    I do eat dinner. I just forget to mark it in half the time.

    I keep a small notebook w/ me and write down my snacks/meals when i'm away from a computer (I don't have a smart phone). I would try to log faithfully for a couple months and see how you feel from there. :)
  • hpsnickers1
    hpsnickers1 Posts: 2,783 Member
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    Walking is just as good as running. It's still exercise and it's low impact. Do you have a pool somewhere? I have a trainer friend on here who does water jogging because she suffers from arthritis. And you can still do arm, abs, maybe even some of the lower body.
  • hopper2212
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    I do eat dinner, i just dont have much free time to got on. And i drink a lot of water. 80oz of water a day.
  • michellenlee
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    I've actually increased my exercise and ended up gaining 2 pounds. Talk about frustrating - and I've heard it all before, that I'm "gaining more muscle" and that "muscle weighs more than fat", yaddah, yaddah, yaddah...it doesn't matter - I still feel frustrated every morning when I see that those 2 lbs haven't gone away...especially since I wanted to lose 10 more.

    It sucks.
  • stacey_smith
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    Are you doing physical therapy? It is hard to give someone advice when they have an injury to work around.
    Are you eating enough? You need to net at least 1200 calories per day. Make sure approx 25% of your caloric intake is from fat (that way your body won't store it). I woudn't recommend a no <insert valuable macronutrient here> diet. No fat causes serious depression and no carbs is a serious lifestyle change that will cause you to gain all the weight back if you ever stop doing it. A lot of people experience serious fatigue from a carb-less diet too. If you need a diet to help you constrain your eating habits you can try the paleo or "clean eating" diet. If you don't have to pick it or kill it, don't eat it, which means no processed food! (I couldn't do it...)

    If you do cardio first thing in the morning, before you eat, you'll burn more calories. You do not need to exhaust yourself when doing cardio. Figure out your target heart rate ( you can find a website for it by googling it). For my age and weight it's only about 120 for me. Your body burns off calories differently depending on how fast and long you work out. If you do a low intensity workout, it will take 20 minutes of burning through your carbs before your body realizes it doesn't need to expend your "fuel cells" and it will switch to burning fat. If you do a hard cardio workout then it never switches over to fat burning and you'll exhaust your carbs then it will start attacking your protein which is the last thing you want.

    If you have a gym, and you can handle it, try to lift weights (serious weights, not 3 lbs). Your body burns more calories trying to repair muscles after a good workout than when doing cardio. You cannot have a good weight loss program without the use of weights. I'm in the military and I work in the medical field so I have a lot of knowledge of this stuff; I just don't have the discipline to apply it for myself! So, Good luck!
  • stacey_smith
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    Also, (can you believe it, I have more to say! :laugh: ), if you are on birth control it will take at least three months of a quality workout program before you start seeing real and steady results. Realize birth control works because it makes your body think you are already pregnant. Pregnant women are supposed to gain weight, not lose it, so your body is working against you already. After three months, you should convince it that you are trying to lose the weight and it will start cooperating. Just don't give up from a lack of results before then.
  • hopper2212
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    Wow.. thank you! See, this is why i dont talk to my doctor about this anymore. she put my on BC because i had supper irregular periods and now i REALLY wanna lose weight and im having problems and she has nothing to say. thank you so much! that right there in its self was very helpful!