Never Done Strength Training

You won't bulk if you use small weights like 3lb or 5lb and do lots of reps.

Showing my age here, but I learned about simple strength training from a book similar to this one - as a matter of fact, as she mentions in the intro, it was her daughter's book "College Dorm Workout"

http://books.google.com/books?id=DIvWj_fNwdoC&pg=PT263&lpg=PT263&dq=15+minute+dorm+workout&source=bl&ots=5fkt_6cYVK&sig=FHFNo-HnNi3Et6JlxnMoDtcjlU8&hl=en&ei=ECynTeW2AdO5tgeYzbWFAQ&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=3&ved=0CCUQ6AEwAg#v=onepage&q&f=false

You won't bulk if you use small weights like 3lb or 5lb and do lots of reps.

Sorry but definitely not true. You're not doing yourself any favors by using practically nothing to lift and doing a million reps. Women can't bulk up. I repeat, WOMEN CANNOT BULK UP *unless they really really try*. It's nearly impossible for a woman to bulk up like a man; they just don't have enough of the hormones necessary for it.

You need to check out The New Rules of Lifting for Women. After I read that, it really opened up my eyes to why all women should lift real weights, not just "Barbie 'bells", and the positive effects it will have on your body and overall health.

I agree with all the posters who have said to have at least a session or two with a personal trainer.
I *had* worked out with weights before, even used them during some of the cardio classes, but never picked up much of anything heavier than an 8# weight. I work with a trainer now and am using crazy heavy weights (for me), but don't have to spend very much time at it because it fatigues the muscles so quickly. We do a huge variety of things, but for the basics, it's usually a warm up set, then a set of 15, then a set of 15 with a 10 second isometric hold, and then a max set with a 15 second hold (if I even get that far at that weight)! LOL
I am toning and firming but definitely not bulking up. I loved all of the cardio and bosu classes, but honestly was not seeing the results that I wanted, despite attending a class almost daily for more than a month.

Of course, the usual caveat...........it's about 80% nutrition and 20% exercising. ;-)

weight training is the BEST!!! thing we women can do .... I dont know bout you but I want to look like fitness model not a stick thin model
muscle is the quickest way to a hot, healthy body......you cant bulk up, we dont have the testosterone, women who bulk up use supplements or other stuff to help...

benefits of weigh training:

the more lean muscle you have the more your metabolism rises!
weight lost is kept as oppose to cardio weight loss, you will gain it back if you start slipping
you can "cheat more"
hormones change for the better!
you will get those sexy cuts
you burn more calories doing nothing
you dont have to do endless CARDIO!!!
you dont need to workout for long periods...15 minutes will do as long as its intense...
men will respect you more when you show those GUNS!!!, stick thin women will be jealous!!! LOL

You need to check out my girl Jackie Warner....shes helping me build my muscles!!

ADDED BENEFIT : You won't be old and brittle!! No hunching over...you'll be strong and probably live longer because of it!

I was the same way, and I chose some videos that incorporated weights in a small amount. I don't know if you have Netflix or have checked out the topic on here about it, but it has some good videos that are available instantly. The 2 I've tried are 10 Minute Solutions: Kickboxing and Self: Slim & Sleek Fast. These both use hand weights but only for a portion, and not all at once. It's a good way to build up, IMO. I started with just 3 lbs and am planning on working my way up.

And I'd like to add- not everyone can afford a personal trainer. I know that *some* places offer free trials, but IME it's usually only a session or two. It might be a good place to get ideas but sometimes actually learning it for yourself is the best way.

Since you've never done strength training before, whether you decide to consult a trainer, a book, a dvd, etc...please use some type of reference as opposed to just "learining it for yourself". Using correct form when strength training is VERY important, not only to prevent injury, but also to get the most effective workout.

Good luck!!

The suggestion to read the "New Rules . . ." book is a good one, as are the resistance bands. I would also suggest that you can get a good strength training workout using just body weight. I was skeptical about this before I tried it as I have used weights in the past and thought they were absolutely necessary. They help, and eventually they become necessary, but body weight workouts can be just as difficult as weights, and if you learn how to increase the intensity and difficulty of them through exercise modifications they can take you a long way.

For example, most people would say you can't really change the difficulty of a push-up except for doing them from your knees instead of your feet. However, that is far from true. If you raise your hands higher such as putting them on a steep, a bench or the like, you decrease the difficulty so you can do them with the proper form. The opposite holds true as well. If you have your hands on the floor and put your feet on something higher than the floor you increase the difficulty. Or you can stop and hold the bottom position for several seconds each time you do a repetition to make it more intense. Or you can stop midway through the movement and hold it. Even doing it super slow will change the intensity.

A good book on body weight training is Mark Lauren's "You Are Your Own Gym" or you can check out http://bodyweightculture.com

In terms of general strength training, you can find a lot of information on how to do exercises on youtube.com as well.