Success isn't aloways positive...

digby765 · April 2011

Erm well being a singleton these days,losing weight and yes starting to get noticed more. I was chuffed to be asked out, spent a pleasant enough evening, chatting and laughing in between some awkward moments.....came time to go, walked me to my car, such a gent.......:embarassed: and then he kissed me:noway: ohhhhh yuk yuk yuk !!!!!!!! Help he want's another date :embarassed:

Tomhusker · April 2011

The price we pay to be beautiful, huh? :laugh:

quara · April 2011

I fail to see the problem here

Go with it!!

LorinaLynn · April 2011

Could he be trained to kiss better?

forkeeps · April 2011

So you know all those times when you said "no" to foods you like but know aren't good for you....that was practice for dating. Not that I've been in a position to put this into practice yet, but if you don't want another date because of "ohhh yuck yuck yuck" kissing (and who wants to date a bad kisser???) then say no! ;-)

Jojo42 · April 2011

Uggh just no!! You have been good about only letting good things come near your mouth , this is one of the times to say NO....!!!

Galathea · April 2011

ieks. You know, it's said ... if he can't kiss ... uhm ... he's probably also not the bomb with anything that comes sometimes after the kissing :smooched:

TS65 · April 2011

Aw, that sometimes is the hardest part of being a single... saying "No Thank You." I was single until I was 37 and it seemed to be ingrained that I had to accept a date if asked (there were so few to choose from, it seemed counter-intuitive to say no).

One of my friends finally taught me this... The point of dates is to find "Mr. Right." You can't find Mr. Right if you are always on dates with Mr. Right Now or Mr. He's Kind of OK.

) If you don't like him in "that" way, let him go (nicely) and say... NEXT!!!!

srp2011 · April 2011

As Nancy Reagan would say, "Just say no".

monkeybuttsmommy · April 2011

Sorry, bad teeth OR a bad kisser is a deal breaker! I actaully gagged in the middle of a kiss once because the other person seemed to think saliva all over my face was sexy! EEEEEWWWWWW... needless to say I never went out with him again. Just tell him you don't think the two of you click and your sorry but you don't feel you should go out again. Hopefully he will be a gentelman and accept that.

thumper44 · April 2011

My opinion.
You shouldn't have kissed him, if you were not that interested. By returning a kiss, he's going to assume you were interested in him.
or were you interested in him up until the kiss (you did say you had some awkward moments)
Next time he contacts you for another date.

Politely say your not interested, and/or you started dating someone else, and leave it at that.

LM_105 · April 2011

Bad kisser usually equals poor lover........ lol!

Unless he is a fantastic companion, interested in you, hangs on your every word and is the kindest, most generous gentleman ever.......then I'd pass!

You could put it down to nerves and give it another go just to be sure, lol!

You are clearly hot stuff now! x

Linda4859 · April 2011

You are a strong person now, if its not what you want then say NO, do stuff that makes you happy. xx

AnnaPixie · April 2011

we all need great kissers in our lives - its the law!!! :bigsmile:

digby765 · April 2011

Hello all and thanks for all your responses, knew i could count on you all :happy:

Peter just to clarify, I usually greet and leave a friend with a kiss to each cheek, however he planted a kiss on my mouth and clearly wanted a good ole snogging session, i pulled back and said goodnight, perhaps next time i should just shake hands:laugh:

Success isn't aloways positive...

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