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Hi Guys,

I have been working so hard to loose weight but it is just not coming off, I am sick of people telling me that I must be eating more then I put in my food diary because I am not.

I eat no more that 1000 calories a day and I count them properly as its mostly tinned food.
I go to the gym 4 times a week and do HIIT training because I was told this is the best way to burn fat,

I warm up for 5 mins on the treadmill then I run at speed 10 (which is as fast as I can go for a minute), I then drop down to walking pace for about 2 minutes and then go again at speed 10 for a minute. I repeat this 8 times which takes about 20 mins. It only burns around 110 calories but I feel really good after am I done.

I have been at this for 3 weeks and not lost a single pound, I know it sounds impossible because if you reduce your calorie intake you should be dropping weight but I am not. I have tried so hard and am running out of ideas. My gym buddies all say give it more time but surely I should have dropped a pound by now.

I am 13 stone and 5'5 and so upset. Please help.

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  • yankeefamily05
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    My personal opinion is that you need to eat more!!! I am 5'8, weigh 246..I eat 1600 calories a day WITHOUT exercise. With exercise, I eat around 1900 calories. I have steadly been losing 2-3 pounds a week! Bounce up your calorie intake and I would be willing to bet you will start losing:) Good luck!
  • Dynetha
    Dynetha Posts: 42 Member
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    you should really be eating at least 1200 calories/day...anything less than that and your body will start to starve and hold on to weight...too may people are afraid to eat but truth is u must fuel the fire or it will burn out..good luck
  • trixylewis
    trixylewis Posts: 197 Member
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    make your food diary public
  • taso42_DELETED
    taso42_DELETED Posts: 3,394 Member
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    You're not eating enough. Eat more, weigh less.
  • rileamoyer
    rileamoyer Posts: 2,411 Member
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    all good advice listed above
  • forty3fab
    forty3fab Posts: 148 Member
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    It sounds like you need to increase your calorie intake. I know that sounds not right, but it is true.
  • sarcastje
    sarcastje Posts: 34 Member
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    I agree with what is said before, your body is in starvation mode, so you are not losing anything. I am amazed you can actually get by with only 1000 calories a day. Good luck
  • hpsnickers1
    hpsnickers1 Posts: 2,783 Member
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    Hi Guys,

    I have been working so hard to loose weight but it is just not coming off, I am sick of people telling me that I must be eating more then I put in my food diary because I am not.

    I eat no more that 1000 calories a day and I count them properly as its mostly tinned food.
    I go to the gym 4 times a week and do HIIT training because I was told this is the best way to burn fat,

    I warm up for 5 mins on the treadmill then I run at speed 10 (which is as fast as I can go for a minute), I then drop down to walking pace for about 2 minutes and then go again at speed 10 for a minute. I repeat this 8 times which takes about 20 mins. It only burns around 110 calories but I feel really good after am I done.

    I have been at this for 3 weeks and not lost a single pound, I know it sounds impossible because if you reduce your calorie intake you should be dropping weight but I am not. I have tried so hard and am running out of ideas. My gym buddies all say give it more time but surely I should have dropped a pound by now.

    I am 13 stone and 5'5 and so upset. Please help.

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    You are not eating enough. Combine that with exercise (especially cardio) and all you're doing is slowing your metabolism and eating up your lean muscle mass.
  • rinitafitz
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    It is stated that if you don't eat enough caleries a day, your body will turn everything you eat into FAT because it doesn't know when it will receive its next meal. This is why some people can eat 8 small meals and lose more weight then those who just eat 1 meal a day.
  • TLC1975
    TLC1975 Posts: 146 Member
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    Same as everyone else, eat more.......find a balance your body requires......I have to net 1400 a day to keep from going into starvation mode...(found this out my not losing, but gaining for several weeks in a row..) ..
    Good Luck
  • Ervie317
    Ervie317 Posts: 179 Member
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    I agree about the eating not enough but you it is important to eat several small meals a day not just 3 meals. This way you can rev up your metabolism. Also, when you add calories make sure they are from whole grains, lean meat, veggies, and some fruits. It is important not to add calories by eating too much more fat except for good fat like in fish, avocado, and natural peanut butter.
  • CassieLEO
    CassieLEO Posts: 757 Member
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    Why ARE you only eating 1000 calories? You have to know that everything on this site points to everyone needs to eat over 1200 calories. If you say stuff like everyone says this and everyone says that, yet not have your diary open, that makes people think stuff. If you ask for help you have to be really asking for help, and we cant help you if you know you need more than 1200 calories to lose weight, yet you choose to not do what is recommended. Every day you that you close out your diary, im sure that MFP is telling you that you are running the risk of starvation mode. Yet you still only eat 1000 calories. Also, if you are working out as much as you say, im sure you are burning WAY more than 120 calories!!!! You need to get a heart rate monitor and see. I burn 120 calories doing dishes and sweeping for 20 mins. A HRM will tell you what the real deal is... Somethings got to give. You cant make up your own diet plan and disregard proven facts and then cry about things not working for you...
  • Naila19
    Naila19 Posts: 3
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    Hi,

    Thank you so much for your advise. I thought that starvation mode was just a myth as 3 of my friends did 1000 a day and are now looking great after 5 months. Maybe they just got lucky, I have made my food diary publicoiv so hopefully I can sort this out. I am not going to give up!
  • butterfly_lvr
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    another thing I would suggest is tracking your sodium intake; I am seeing in your diary some restaurant food such as the Indian food and McDonald's and I would almost guarantee they are going to be high in sodium. Another thing you need to also up is your intake of water - especially with a higher sodium intake.
  • Naila19
    Naila19 Posts: 3
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    Thanks again.

    So my new plan is to eat around 1500 calories a day and change my cardio so I burn more in the gym.
    The treadmill gives me a reading of 120 to 140 calories burnt during my workouts so would you suggest instead of HIIT I should run at a slower pace for a longer time? Again I have read so many conflicting reports out there it all gets so confusing on top of that I have seen friends get great results with HIIT training.

    I am not the best runner in the world so would you suggest I just do as much as I can in 30 mins or use the cross trainer?
    Or again should I stick to HIIT training but just increase my calories? To be honest I really find HIIT training quite a challenge
    and makes my workouts more fun.
  • Ervie317
    Ervie317 Posts: 179 Member
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    I personally find I enjoy doing different things for cardio each day. I will run one day, do the stairstepper (my fav!), or use the elliptical. The stairstepper is my favorite because I find that my knee which I hurt a few years ago aches a little if I run every day. I also always get a great hard workout on the stairstepper. I do it by intervals going slow steps for a while and then fast for another section and then back, about four minutes each interval.