Single,fat,and lonely...

VerySherry
VerySherry Posts: 12
edited September 26 in Motivation and Support
I am a 36 yr old woman who has had a weight problem all my life. I have never been married and can't have children. I am lonely,very lonely. This gets me down sometimes. Alot of times... I usually keep these feelings to myself,but I know there must be some people out there that are in the same boat. I am winning the war with my weight problem and in general, I am a happy person. I would like to find that special someone though. Just thought I'd share...
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  • craek
    craek Posts: 201 Member
    You are not lonely anymore! You have all of us!
  • minmatt
    minmatt Posts: 62
    You are not lonely anymore! You have all of us!

    :)
  • myukniewicz
    myukniewicz Posts: 906 Member
    You are not lonely anymore! You have all of us!

    i couldn't have said it any better myself!!
    and congrats on your weight loss so far! that is AWESOME! ♥
  • missy1970eb
    missy1970eb Posts: 1,209 Member
    hi and welcome feel free 2 add me as a friend :flowerforyou:
  • oreyna49
    oreyna49 Posts: 152
    This is a great site, the motivation and support you receive is incredible. You will meet some very helpful people to help you along your journey. I wish you the best of luck on reaching your goals. Feel free to add me as a friend.
  • drog2323
    drog2323 Posts: 1,343 Member
    You are not lonely anymore! You have all of us!

    that was one of the nicest replies/posts I have seen for awhile.
  • hyper_stitch
    hyper_stitch Posts: 180 Member
    Well done on starting out so well, I understand where you're coming ... you are not alone :flowerforyou:
  • ChunTingO
    ChunTingO Posts: 225 Member
    we will always be here for you ! you are never alone!! And i understand im getting up there in years and i have always had a weight problem. I want to be married too and i have PCOS so it can be very difficult for me to get pregnant later in life. But keep praying and and making yourself happy and healthy and that special someone will come. Time and a place for everything and with patience we both will be blessed with a special someone.:flowerforyou:
  • new_me_9_67
    new_me_9_67 Posts: 369 Member
    You are not lonely anymore! You have all of us!

    I agree
    feel free to add me if you'd like
  • sarahazelnut99
    sarahazelnut99 Posts: 307 Member
    very sherry you are in control of your life! you dont need the traditional relationships set up by this society to feel fulfilled! stay close close to whoever is around you and if your serious about wanting to raise a kid, why not adopt? having your own child when theres one right there waiting who NEEDS a family is...eh you get my point
  • tifjo
    tifjo Posts: 5
    I sometimes feel the same way you do, but like everyone else has said we are all in a similar battle to lose weight so we are all rooting for each other. Hopefully after you have reached your goal you will be stronger and more confident in yourself. Anything can happen so don't give up! :~)
  • drog2323
    drog2323 Posts: 1,343 Member
    great job on the 50 lbs! awesome work. that is impressive.

    keep going and focusing on yourself. all the other things will fall into place on your journey -stay the course!
  • Mishy
    Mishy Posts: 1,551 Member
    Congrats on your weight loss so far! :flowerforyou:

    For those times when you feel down just jump on here, it's cheered me up countless times.
  • monkeybuttsmommy
    monkeybuttsmommy Posts: 343 Member
    I was there for many years. Desperate to find love and never thought I would ever have children or get married. When I stopped trying so hard, took some chances in other parts of my life, like going back to school etc I found love and had a baby just this last year. I was 36. I am now 37, trying to get healthy, am in Graduate school and my boyfriend is a WONDERFUL man. I never thought it was possible. But believe me, it is. MFP is wonderful for friends! Add me if you would like and friend some of my friends. They are all WONDERFUL and supportive! Good luck to you!
  • monkeefun
    monkeefun Posts: 271 Member
    I've found a lot of motivation and support on this site! Even on an awful day I come here and read posts and updates from everyone else, and it helps so much! Everyone truly is supportive and helpful to everyone else here! It sounds like you're already taking some good steps to finding happiness! At least on here you're not alone. I hope you're able to reach all of your goals! :)
  • misskimlilac
    misskimlilac Posts: 306 Member
    Congrats on your start! 49 lbs is amazing, you should be super proud. You will find so much support here. Sending you a add right now! :happy:
  • jr1985
    jr1985 Posts: 1,033 Member
    Feel free to add me as a friend! Everyone is very supportive here!
  • rharris86dc
    rharris86dc Posts: 635 Member
    You are not lonely anymore! You have all of us!

    I completely agree! You are doing awesome so far, so keep up the good work!

    And don't worry about a relationship - the moment you stop thinking about it, you'll meet someone. So focus on loving yourself (and your cute little pup!), have fun with friends, and just when you think life can't get any better, *BAM* it will happen.
  • Jon_Rod
    Jon_Rod Posts: 158
    You are not lonely anymore! You have all of us!



    I agree :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:
  • Jade_Butterfly
    Jade_Butterfly Posts: 2,963 Member
    Sweetie, I can certainly understand feeling lonely at times, but hon, we are all here for each other. You are amazing in every way just as God created you to be, and with prayer and a determination to meet your goals. All the happiness that you will seek. will come. Lots of love sweetie!:bigsmile:
  • calmmomw3minimeez
    calmmomw3minimeez Posts: 499 Member
    You are not lonely anymore! You have all of us!

    i couldn't have said it any better myself!!
    and congrats on your weight loss so far! that is AWESOME! ♥
    You're on the right track in your life, be patient and everything else will fall into place with a little faith! Much success!:flowerforyou:
  • gumby101ca
    gumby101ca Posts: 539 Member
    feel free to add me .. " HIGHFIVE "
  • ♥_Ellybean_♥
    ♥_Ellybean_♥ Posts: 1,646 Member
    ** Hunny You are SINGLE, FAT & LONELY!!** - You are AMAZING, STRONG, DEDICATED TO MAKING YOU WORLD BETTER, and ROCKING THE SINGLES WORLD!!!

    Keep your chin up!
  • JDMPWR
    JDMPWR Posts: 1,863 Member
    Now I want to make a post, Single, lil fat and lonely......but I digress

    You have MFP for all the support you want. Just ask for it. It wont come to you if you dont ask.
  • AngelsKisses75
    AngelsKisses75 Posts: 595 Member
    You are not lonely anymore! You have all of us!

    Blessed be that!
  • janetv3
    janetv3 Posts: 37 Member
    WELCOME AND FEEL FREE TO ADD ME AS A FRIEND:flowerforyou:
  • ItsMandeeBitch
    ItsMandeeBitch Posts: 159 Member
    You are not lonely anymore! You have all of us!

    that was one of the nicest replies/posts I have seen for awhile.

    I agree :-)
  • ahanson6
    ahanson6 Posts: 102
    I know everyone has already said this, but that special someone really does have a way of coming around after you've already given up on ever finding them. Happened to me too. I'm sure that if you keep taking care of yourself and striving to meet your own personal goals, whether they be weight loss, education, career, etc. someone will fall into your lap without you even having to try. This is an very supportive enviroment and now that you are here you can never be alone. Please feel free to add me.
  • hollyknouse
    hollyknouse Posts: 232 Member
    You are doing great so far!! This is the best site ever for support. We are here for you girl! Feel free to add me as a friend too!
  • RyonsLions2
    RyonsLions2 Posts: 350 Member
    Sweetie, I can certainly understand feeling lonely at times, but hon, we are all here for each other. You are amazing in every way just as God created you to be, and with prayer and a determination to meet your goals. All the happiness that you will seek. will come. Lots of love sweetie!:bigsmile:

    I'm with Jade!! She is a good friend of mine on here!! Congratulations on your weight loss so far!! I AM JEALOUS!!
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