Room on my friends list!!

LadyKim66
LadyKim66 Posts: 20 Member
in Introduce Yourself
Hi everyone.. I have recently went through my friends list and taken off people that have not logged in 30 days. So, if you are an active MFP'r, like to post and want to have a better healthier lifestyle, then Friend ME!!
I have been struggling, so it's good to see that others can do this!

Kim!!

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  • Local_Atlantis
    Local_Atlantis Posts: 262 Member
    Friend request sent :smile:
  • dcresider
    dcresider Posts: 1,272 Member
    Hi. Active MFPer here and located in DC. I try to post every day if I can.
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  • LadyKim66
    LadyKim66 Posts: 20 Member
    __drmerc__ wrote: »
    You delete your friends who are struggling, when they need your support the most! :'(
    I delete them because they are no longer here and active. If they don't log in to the site then how would I be supportive of them?
  • jeremywm1977
    jeremywm1977 Posts: 657 Member
    edited October 2014
    __drmerc__ wrote: »
    You delete your friends who are struggling, when they need your support the most! :'(

    Please note that while I speak in general terms in my post below, I am not referring to 100% of people, but the number is probably in the 90% range.......and with that, here is my post:

    Sorry, but I'm with the OP on this one. My experience with this site is that a message to a struggling person might get them re-engaged, but only briefly. Additionally, most of them aren't struggling, they have either lost interest in the site, don't feel they need to log anymore, or are just plain lazy (there, I said it).

    If they don't have the voices inside of them to keep them going, then some stranger on a website who they've never met isn't exactly going to be that one motivating factor to keep them going. If I have (and keep) the drive to remain healthy, it is me and me alone that will decide whether or not I log in to MFP today, not a message that I may or may not see from LadyKim66 or __drmerc__ or anybody else for that matter.

    Sorry if this sounds harsh, but I definitely believe it to be true.

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