what's the silliest or most ridiculous thing that motivates you?

I have this article of clothing that was given to me by a dear relative and it's hideous. I cannot wait for the day that I get to dispose of it because it doesn't fit anymore.

Yes, I realize I am a grown up and should be able to find a more mature way to deal with this "problem", but for now it makes me happy to think about getting rid of it and having a totally understandable reason to never been seen wearing it again that will in no way potentially hurt the givers feelings.

Anyone else have odd or silly things that motivate them or make them happy to anticipate?
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  • mcbrainder
    mcbrainder Posts: 73 Member
    Gerard Butler.
  • onefortyone
    onefortyone Posts: 531 Member
    This is truly silly, but I really think I might look like a pasty-white Sofia Vergara when all the weight comes off! Won't upset me if I don't - but I have to find out!
  • mhlew
    mhlew Posts: 377 Member
    nice booty at the gym on treadmill in front of u always makes me stay on longer.
  • FitOldMomma
    FitOldMomma Posts: 790 Member
    edited October 2014
    Silly? Maybe-but I can't wait until I actually fit in any chair. I mean, no hip hanging over or touching the sides. :#
  • CamGoddess
    CamGoddess Posts: 28 Member
    Two friends of mine who're dieting & I only see once a week. I'm competitive!
  • beccaheiser
    beccaheiser Posts: 12 Member
    Not being the hot nerd anymore. Now I'm just the hot nerd in a fat girls body.
  • Bayluvr
    Bayluvr Posts: 115 Member
    Not going into detail, but I became reacquainted with my hipbones in December 2013. I spent more than a couple decades without being able to see or feel them. I am absolutely obsessed with them now, and even wake up during the night to marvel at the feel of them when lying in bed. It sounds ridiculous, I know, but they motivate me to stay the course, and when I do go a little overboard in eating, or get lax with my workouts, they help me get back on track. I never want them to disappear again :)
  • Seeing your muscles defined and swelling up after a lifting session. Motivate me to permanently get that definition.
  • astrose00
    astrose00 Posts: 754 Member
    The thought that anyone thinks I can't lose the weight now that I have set my mind to it. That motivates me. I have a Michael Jordan like resolve to prove people wrong. Want to see me do something? Tell me I can't.
  • MamaRiss
    MamaRiss Posts: 481 Member
    looking better than other members of my family at our upcoming reunion
  • HeyHeyJLynn
    HeyHeyJLynn Posts: 42 Member
    I have this article of clothing that was given to me by a dear relative and it's hideous. I cannot wait for the day that I get to dispose of it because it doesn't fit anymore.

    Yes, I realize I am a grown up and should be able to find a more mature way to deal with this "problem", but for now it makes me happy to think about getting rid of it and having a totally understandable reason to never been seen wearing it again that will in no way potentially hurt the givers feelings.

    Anyone else have odd or silly things that motivate them or make them happy to anticipate?

    Oh! I've got a lot of these.

    To be able to brush my teeth without jiggling. :)

  • HeyHeyJLynn
    HeyHeyJLynn Posts: 42 Member
    To see my collar bones again.
  • chadya07
    chadya07 Posts: 627 Member
    i would like to buy a renaissance dress and randmly wear it around town. but i cant until i meet goal. im also trying to surprise my arabian husband by learning belly dance, which i will show him when i look better doing it...
  • HeyHeyJLynn
    HeyHeyJLynn Posts: 42 Member
    To be able to sit on the bathroom counter (like I used to) to pluck my eyebrows or put on makeup.
  • HeyHeyJLynn
    HeyHeyJLynn Posts: 42 Member
    When I run into crappy ex boyfriends or their mean mother's in my hometown... for them to think "Wow." Instead of "Wow. She let herself go."

    That's more of a immature one, than silly. But whatever. lol
  • HeyHeyJLynn
    HeyHeyJLynn Posts: 42 Member
    For my husband to be able to pick me up with ease.

    He tries to when he hugs me sometimes and I always fight and stop him because I'm terrified he's going to hurt himself... I'd like to be light enough to feel okay with letting him. :)
  • HeyHeyJLynn
    HeyHeyJLynn Posts: 42 Member
    Also, potentially surviving the zombie apocalypse.
  • mamadon
    mamadon Posts: 1,422 Member
    I am actually in maintenance, but one of the things that helps me is to imagine if I were to gain weight back, all the people who would say, " I knew she would gain it all back." 10540940.png
  • SteampunkSongbird
    SteampunkSongbird Posts: 826 Member
    JLMont31 wrote: »
    Also, potentially surviving the zombie apocalypse.

    Totally. I don't need to be super fit; so long as I can outrun just one person.....
  • terar21
    terar21 Posts: 523 Member
    I live far away from all of my family and only see them when I go home for holidays of vacations. The thought that when they see me the difference in my body will be noticeable and they'll comment on the difference really motivates me. I can't wait for the comments about what I've lost and to talk about how I've been exercising and eating right! My brother plays football and my father has always been an athlete so it'll be fun to talk about my routine. I'm hiding it so they have no idea lol.

    I know this one seems counterproductive lol...but food helps motivate me. I HATED exercising before. I couldn't find the will to do it. Even when I was a 3 sport athlete in HS, I made up all kinds of excuses and cut corners to avoid running...in track practice of all things lol. But now that I'm tracking and being responsible with calories, I look forward to the days I exercise because I look forward to how many more options it gives me with food for the day.
  • justcat206
    justcat206 Posts: 716 Member
    To convincingly cosplay River Tam some day....
  • I have so many lol. No the most silliest, childish and potentially mental issue that I have for motivation is to continue being smaller than my cousin. **shame** Lol. Ive always been bigger than her. And when I lost my weight, she couldn't take and has shown her true colors. She has since gotten the band with plication so I have to make sure to drop these last 20lbs of baby weight so that I remain smaller than her. So shameful LOL!!
  • JLMont31 wrote: »
    To see my collar bones again.


    ^^ This :)

  • My 4 yr old grand-daughter was the motivation 134 pounds and 2 yrs ago, and still is..(don't go by my ticker, I lost about 30 before joining MFP). I am 20lbs, give or take, from goal now, but my biggest motivator is still her. AND here is one example: She now weighs 41Lbs. (she will be 5 in Dec). Every time I take her somewhere and she falls asleep in the car, which she still often does, I tend to carry her till she is fully awake, a few minutes, it never ceases to amaze me, and get me to thinking when I have her on my hip, and I suddenly realize I have lost 3 of her!!! OMG! Then the real motivation sets in with the realization that it's no wonder getting a bath was non-existant for years (I showered)..LOL, Parking as close to the front of the stores was a necessity, cleaning, cooking, amusement parks, swimming, the beach, all things I loved had become a chore. Heck even getting out of bed somedays, and then I think "MY GOD, If I had 2 of her hanging from my waist, and another hanging from my back, would I still be alive? Let alone functional"?..Probably not. And there it is!
  • ^^^^That's neither silly or odd...but felt like I needed to share :)
  • debubbie
    debubbie Posts: 767 Member
    To be able to do all the fun, active things that I used to be able to do. I love hiking, camping, and kayaking and I really want to buy a smaller kayak that is easier to transport but I can't because I way too much. I mainly want to continue to prove to myself that I can do anything that I set my mind to do. Another reason is I am sick of hearing people say, "You have a pretty face and you would be so pretty if you weren't carrying that extra weight on your frame."
  • debubbie
    debubbie Posts: 767 Member
    chadya07 wrote: »
    i would like to buy a renaissance dress and randmly wear it around town. but i cant until i meet goal. im also trying to surprise my arabian husband by learning belly dance, which i will show him when i look better doing it...

    Belly dancing is so much fun! I am sure that when you show of your skills to your husband that you will be awesome!
  • MB_Positif
    MB_Positif Posts: 8,897 Member
    Seeing my muscles flex even when I'm not flexing on purpose
  • coolraul07
    coolraul07 Posts: 1,606 Member
    1) Having my trunk measurement 1"-2" below my belly button be the same or less than 1" above it. (long way of saying "losing spare tire")
    2) Having arms big enough that I don't feel like Kermit The Frog!
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  • msnucerity
    msnucerity Posts: 333 Member
    When I was at my most fit, you could see dimples when I smiled. Now that I'm not-so-fit and gained weight, those little dimples have disappeared because my cheeks chubbed up. I want those dimples back.