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I am a single mom of 3 and I am considered morbidly obese. I have had problems losing weight. I moved here a month ago and decided it is time for me to turn my life around and get healthy, my only problem is I have my mom and sister but they are constantly busy. They support me when they can. I don't have anyone to even really say hey your doing a good job. I know I NEED someone who understands what I am going through and keep me motivated. I have tried counting calories, stopped drinking soda, no junk food. Nothing worked! I qualified for weight loss surgery but would like to do it more naturally! So if anyone could give me support and make me feel better about myself I would LOVE your support! I have about 120 lbs to lose and I know that I will need as much support as I can get!