200 pounds to lose... I'm gonna need some help.
kitsteroo
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I used MFP a few years ago and dropped about 25 pounds... and then proceeded to gain it all back plus a little (a lot) more. Now I'm back, and I'm serious about this. I'm off to a better start than I have been before. Not just watching calories, but making better food choices in general and I'm making myself exercise and, so far, I haven't let myself make excuses or procrastinate. I'm only five days in and while my success has made me optimistic, I'm afraid I'm going to fall off the wagon, and I'm afraid that the sheer amount of weight I need to lose is going to discourage me. I can deal with the hunger pains for now, but once that beginner's optimism begins to wear off, I don't know if I'm going to be able to hold out. I'm driven to succeed, but I'm afraid I'm going to sabotage myself.
Does anyone have any advice for me, or has anyone had to deal with something similar? Also, if anyone's interested in friending me, that'd be great because I think some accountability would be just what I need.
Does anyone have any advice for me, or has anyone had to deal with something similar? Also, if anyone's interested in friending me, that'd be great because I think some accountability would be just what I need.
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I'd love to be friends...add me! I'm down 112 and am working on another 20ish. I'll cheer you on!0
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Take it one day at a time. Log everything you eat and drink and try to stay within your calorie allotment. I had to lose a lot also. I started @ 290#. Do not look at the big picture, just make small goals. Pretty soon you will wake up and find yourself a new person. It does work, and it will happen, if you log honestly and put in the effort. If I can do this, you can too! Good luck!0
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I am in a similar weight range to lose. I would love to be added as a friend.0
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Hey I have almost that much to lose too. I would love to have you as a friend. Feel free to add me. We can do this!0
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Hey, I started out here in May at 338lbs. I'm down to 287lbs.
Some advice I can give you that helped me:
-Get a food scale if you don't already have one. It seriously does help with accurate logging.
-Log accurately/honestly and log every day.
-Make room for treats, otherwise you may potentially end up giving in and binging
-I made some food substitutions which helped me, instead of putting juice in my morning smoothie, I switched to almond milk. Less sugar and calories.
-Make smaller goals. Having to lose 200lbs is daunting, believe me, I know. I started by having small milestones, 5lbs, 15lbs, 25lbs, 50lbs, 75lbs, and so on. Tiny goals are much easier to face than a single large one.
-If you can, take measurements as well. Sometimes the scale doesn't budge but you lose inches.
-Progress pictures. If you havent already, take pictures of yourself now. and again in a month or two. Continue doing this throughout your journey. You'll see changes in photographs that you might not notice in the mirror.
-Be active. Even if it's just a walk around the block. That's so much better than sitting at home.
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Feel free to add me as well, you guys! I've got about 120 pounds to lose to get to a healthy weight.0
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I've lost about 80 of the 180 I need to lose. I log daily, and love to encourage people... and sometimes I need it myself. Feel free (any of you) to add me as a friend!0
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I'm right at the same as you. Need to lost close to 100lbs. Add me if you would like!0
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Hey, I started out here in May at 338lbs. I'm down to 287lbs.
Some advice I can give you that helped me:
-Get a food scale if you don't already have one. It seriously does help with accurate logging.
-Log accurately/honestly and log every day.
-Make room for treats, otherwise you may potentially end up giving in and binging
-I made some food substitutions which helped me, instead of putting juice in my morning smoothie, I switched to almond milk. Less sugar and calories.
-Make smaller goals. Having to lose 200lbs is daunting, believe me, I know. I started by having small milestones, 5lbs, 15lbs, 25lbs, 50lbs, 75lbs, and so on. Tiny goals are much easier to face than a single large one.
-If you can, take measurements as well. Sometimes the scale doesn't budge but you lose inches.
-Progress pictures. If you havent already, take pictures of yourself now. and again in a month or two. Continue doing this throughout your journey. You'll see changes in photographs that you might not notice in the mirror.
-Be active. Even if it's just a walk around the block. That's so much better than sitting at home.
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When I first started calorie counting, I felt hungry because I was not use to eating not so much food. But it went after two weeks or so, and my 1600 cal limit fills me up good now. My advice would be to make sure your calorie goal is realistic and make sure your not starving yourself. You can fit more food in daily goal with healthier foods, but its still ok to have treat as well if you can fit it into your daily goal. Feeling hungry can cause you to eventually give up and just go back to over eating. Been going strong for nearly 8 months now. You can do this too0
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You can add me if you want. Even though I'm almost to my goal, that's just my re evaluation goal, I'm not going anywhere anytime soon.0
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clandrum1984 wrote: »Hey, I started out here in May at 338lbs. I'm down to 287lbs.
Some advice I can give you that helped me:
-Get a food scale if you don't already have one. It seriously does help with accurate logging.
-Log accurately/honestly and log every day.
-Make room for treats, otherwise you may potentially end up giving in and binging
-I made some food substitutions which helped me, instead of putting juice in my morning smoothie, I switched to almond milk. Less sugar and calories.
-Make smaller goals. Having to lose 200lbs is daunting, believe me, I know. I started by having small milestones, 5lbs, 15lbs, 25lbs, 50lbs, 75lbs, and so on. Tiny goals are much easier to face than a single large one.
-If you can, take measurements as well. Sometimes the scale doesn't budge but you lose inches.
-Progress pictures. If you havent already, take pictures of yourself now. and again in a month or two. Continue doing this throughout your journey. You'll see changes in photographs that you might not notice in the mirror.
-Be active. Even if it's just a walk around the block. That's so much better than sitting at home.
Wonderful Advice!!!
agree! and you're doing great already0 -
So excited for you. It's a life style that you're creating, not just a temporary fix until you lose what you want. That has always helped me maintain and trim, especially when I'm ready to revert back into old life style habits that weren't helpful.0
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Hi. I need to lose 200 lbs as well, but I've broken it down into smaller chunks. For now I'd like to lose 40 lbs. When I get there, I'll make another smaller goal. Feel free to add me as a friend :-) I've found what works for me is to keep logging, and to log honestly in the food diary. There is that cringe factor when you log a milkshake that's almost 1000 calories, but then you're more likely to get back on track the next day, and you are just more aware. I've lost weight using MFP before, but when I stopped logging, things went downhill. My dad died on 30 August this year, and after that I gained 15 lbs (of the 40 lbs I'd lost earlier this year) from comfort eating. But I'm back on track today. I have a friend who is exercising with me, and I have a personal trainer, so that helps. Keep logging! We can do this. Oh, and my personal trainer encourages me to have one cheat meal per week - we have a long way to go, and I think it would be impossible to never eat junk again. But just log it all :-)0
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I just started 2 weeks ago and I am seeing a pychologist on this so I know the struggle. I am doing a 12 week goal of 3 bls a week ergo 36 lbs. Not looking past that - need to take it in small doses. She has me get on the scale once a day and I thought I could not find one but for 25 on amazon I found one up to 400 so I am wearing a pedometer and weighting in. I know that the point is to not lie to yourself so you can re assess and I expect I might gain weigh some day but I intend to just keep moving forward one day at a time, sometimes one minute at a time.
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I'm in the same situation too. I'd love a friend to keep me going along! Please feel free to add me!0
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Basically I'll echo what everyone above has said, but especially the logging and lifestyle parts. It can be devastating to look at the "big picture", but daily and weekly successes are where I've found the most happiness.
One other nugget of wisdom that I picked up from a podcast a month or so ago was to not get on the scale if I felt it was going to cause me any kind of anxiety. Now I'm not saying, "NEVER GET ON A SCALE!", but rather weight loss should be at least be something that brings you peace.
Best of luck on your journey!0 -
Feel free to add me - I think having support is one of the best keys for weight loss success. Also, I'm joining the crowd by saying take it one step at a time. Small steps are key.
I currently weigh 238.8, looking to weigh 110.0 -
You're going to do great... Every success comes in small increments. Do you best every day and start again the next. Welcome!0
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I have about 110 pounds to lose to be within a healthy BMI bracket and with few medical conditions incuding PCOS it is anything but easy...would love to share some support and encouragement...All the very best to everyone in this weight loss journey..do feel free to add me as a friend.0
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welcome back to mfp...feel free to add me.0
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I have lost 102 pounds so far and I understand what you say about how daunting it can be when you look at the big picture. Each weigh in I tell myself that this is the last time I'm going to be that weight. Sometimes it's true, sometimes the scale goes up a little before settling back down. Don't allow yourself to get discouraged when the scale does not concur with your hard work. Sometimes the body just takes a while to get in line.
At first I was hungry a lot and would get panicky about those hunger pangs sometimes. Now I honestly can tell you that I'm satisfied on 1400-1600 calories. Sure, I get hungry, but it's a normal hunger not a "I have to eat now or I'm going to go insane" hunger.
I'm adding you as a friend now.0 -
Add me. I have a lot to loose also!0
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I am 25 pounds away from my goal. I am in a major slump right now. I have had several of these throughout my journey. There are time periods of either no loss when I am busting my butt, or no loss due to not giving a crap. Its the ebb and flow and you just have to go with it. When you feel yourself burning out, switch it up some (maybe eat at maintenance a few weeks and go back down). I have been at maintenance for a few MONTHS now. I havent lost any more, but I havent gained either. Also, weight loss isnt linear has helped me also. I know that if I do my absolute best and dont lose, its ok. There were weeks I would lose 4 pounds and then no more the rest of the month. Paying attention to my weekly calorie goal was also helpful. If I had a bad day, I could make up for it. I didnt starve myself to make up for a day I over did it. I just ate better. I'm getting back in it and am hopeful to be at my goal by my 35th birthday March 1st of next year. Its a bit aggressive, but I am going to try my damndest!!!0
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You've gotten some good advice already, but I wanted to say that if you are eating good quality food, you shouldn't feel physically hungry. Nice lean proteins (chicken and turkey breast, lean pork loin, occasionally some lean beef), whole grains, low fat dairy, and lots of veggies will satisfy you. I think everyone should feel satisfied (not stuffed) after meals and your food should last you until it's time to eat again. Eat at regular times a day, whether the traditional 3x a day works for you or the 5-7 small meals a day type program, you'll be keeping your blood sugar from sharply spiking/dropping. All of that will help you drop the pounds. Make sure you eat your calories that MFP gives you. It's a TARGET to reach, not a number to fear. Your body needs fuel. Lastly, take the macronutrients seriously and try to eat a balance of protein, carbs, and fat. (Unless you're under a doctor's supervision and he/she suggests something different for your targets.) Real food doesn't have all the salt, so sodium is usually only a problem for those who eat a lot of preserved food. It does help the weight loss along if you limit your sodium.
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Hey, I started out here in May at 338lbs. I'm down to 287lbs.
Some advice I can give you that helped me:
-Get a food scale if you don't already have one. It seriously does help with accurate logging.
-Log accurately/honestly and log every day.
-Make room for treats, otherwise you may potentially end up giving in and binging
-I made some food substitutions which helped me, instead of putting juice in my morning smoothie, I switched to almond milk. Less sugar and calories.
-Make smaller goals. Having to lose 200lbs is daunting, believe me, I know. I started by having small milestones, 5lbs, 15lbs, 25lbs, 50lbs, 75lbs, and so on. Tiny goals are much easier to face than a single large one.
-If you can, take measurements as well. Sometimes the scale doesn't budge but you lose inches.
-Progress pictures. If you havent already, take pictures of yourself now. and again in a month or two. Continue doing this throughout your journey. You'll see changes in photographs that you might not notice in the mirror.
-Be active. Even if it's just a walk around the block. That's so much better than sitting at home.
This!!
I started this journey at 386 and am now at 222. And I do all of these things. I didn't focus on losing a specific amount as suggested. For me focusing on getting to a certain number worked better. First it was 350, the 300 then 275, and so on. Right now I'm working toward 200. Same idea, just a different goal in mind. And I built non-food rewards into my journey. I wanted a pilates machine, but it has a 300 pound weight limit. That was my reward for getting below 300.
I have been at this for 3 years now, but that's OK. When I look at where I started (size 4X or 34) and where I am now (size XL or 18) it's just too amazing to get discouraged that I'm not done yet. I will eventually get to goal (160). As long as I'm still going down it's all good.
So take all the Fantastic advice Vamaena listed (she is so right!) and send a friend request if you want.
Pat
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I can deal with the hunger pains for now, but once that beginner's optimism begins to wear off, I don't know if I'm going to be able to hold out.
Why are you having hunger pangs? How many calories are you eating? If you're eating enough calories you should feel satisfied and still lose weight thus you will not have to feel discouraged.
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Stay motivated! When I get bored with an exercise routine I find a new one. I just started C25K and I love it. Before that I was doing daily burn videos. I like to change it up a lot. In the summers I swim. Weigh your foods DONT think you can eyeball an amount it will be wrong. If its something like veggies its NBD but if you are eyeballing peanut butter or sour cream it can add a lot of extra calories.0
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I am in relatively the same boat (I have more weight to loss than you do). I am would like to be a support, if you want!0
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