Only 7 lbs Down in a Month...

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  • radiosilents
    radiosilents Posts: 223 Member
    Hi there OP, I also have a lot to lose and started at 372. I am nut for data so I've been keeping track of all sorts, including monthly loss. Here's what I've got so far.

    May: lost 6 pounds (started mid-way), 366
    June: lost 13 pounds, 353
    July: lost 8 pounds, 345
    August: lost 6 pounds, 339
    September: lost 13 pounds, 326
    October: lost 7 pounds, 319

    And THAT all averages out to about 9 pounds a month. ;)

    Anyway, I'm not losing super fast, but I am also aiming to create a way of eating and exercise that is sustainable for a lifetime. If the weight will stay off because I took longer to lose it, that is fine with me. I've been yo-yoing most of my life so that last point is very important to me.

    7 pounds in a month is awesome no matter who you are. Any weight loss is awesome. Celebrate your successes and keep doing what you're doing – though I do agree, you may want to give yourself more fuel. At your weight and activity level you probably need a few more calories!
  • 999tigger
    999tigger Posts: 5,235 Member
    edited November 2014
    since I clearly suck at it so far.. I'm actually terrified I'm burning more muscle than fat because I can't really notice a whole lot of change after losing a little over 40lbs, besides one of my coats now fit a tiny bit better.

    Dude you dont suck at it at all. You have taken a brave lifechanging step. You have lost a goodly amount of weight. It will take time though hence you have to pace yourself as the mental aspect is really importnat for getting to target. Go and try to pick up 40lb in weight and realise you arent carrying that around with you anymore. Carrying a lot of weight round often damages peoples self confidence as well, so learn to be your own friend and be proud of your efforts to improve your own lot.

    Youll be losing a mixture of muscle fat and water weight. Id just be focusing on slow steady losses and getting into the routine, all the time paying attention to what your Dr says. When you can eventually manage it then some resistance training will help limit muscle loss. Honestly I think you are doing fine, but should eat more. MFP is all about making lifestyle changes that you can sustain not going from one extreme to the other and making yourself miserable.

    Youll be fine if you keep doing the good things consistently then you will lose weight, just have realistic expectations about the rate it will come off. Get some MFP friends if you need support.
  • FatFreeFrolicking
    FatFreeFrolicking Posts: 4,252 Member
    edited November 2014
    I wish I could lose 7 lbs in one month……..

    Congrats, OP! Keep up the hard work!
  • tulips_and_tea
    tulips_and_tea Posts: 5,744 Member
    Yeah, seriously, you are doing great! Progress is progress - enjoy it. Doesn't matter if it's one pound or 10 you should just decide that you're going to celebrate each step equally. No need to bring in any negative thinking at this point. Just keep at it!
  • IrZeo
    IrZeo Posts: 58 Member
    Thanks a lot for the encouraging replies and tips you guys, it really means a lot. I appreciate it!
  • harmar21
    harmar21 Posts: 215 Member
    edited November 2014
    Hey at some point it will all catch up. I know other people say you are doing well (which you are), but myself as an obese person I see where you coming from I know I feel disappointed if I "only" lose 1.5lbs in a week, even though it is still good I just want progress faster.

    If you really only eating 1300 calories try upping that to at least 2k. I eat 1900-2000 (currently at 306lb). I tried cutting to 1600 calories but I found it wasn't affecting weight loss much so upped it back up. You said you find yourself not hungry, try eating things like nuts. high calories. Or add more butter to things, use more oil. These things add a lot of calories without filling me up might I find.

    For exercise I found that ocne I started walking 1 hour 4-5times a week that is when it really started coming off fast (I obviously didn't start at 1 hour had to work myself up to that amount of time at that frequency)



  • Philp0718
    Philp0718 Posts: 136 Member
    man, I'd be thrilled to lose 7lbs in one month! That's awesome!
  • hamoncan
    hamoncan Posts: 148 Member
    Just keep it going in the right direction - I really really doubt you need to worry about losing muscle - I've never been anywhere near you size but I've tried to lose my extra 40lbs unsuccessfully a few times and in hindsight I always let myself get caught up in that worry about muscle and sabatoged my weight loss - personally I think most people worry way too much about muscle - be active, lift for fitness (not to be the next Arnold) and you'll maintain all the muscle you need - just worry about losing weight
  • Pootler74
    Pootler74 Posts: 223 Member
    I think you might not be eating enough. You are THOUSANDS of calories under your MFP goal for the day. At your size you could probably lose weight on 2500 calories a day. Or more.

    Try adding a few hundred calories a day and see what happens.
    Try also adding more bulk to your meals with lots of vegetables and more fruit. I find I lose weight better when 50% of my plate is non-starchy vegetables. I figure the bigger the mass of food that goes in, the more my metabolism has to work to deal with it.

    If you aren't hungry, add more calories with dense foods like nuts. Don't be scared of fats - they're good for you. Or protein bars and shakes - you can get them very reasonably priced on Amazon, and I'm finding they work out cheaper than buying all the meat I'd need to stay within my macros. Plus some of them taste pretty good, and I'll have a bar at the end of the day if I think I've not eaten enough.

    Look at it this way - as your weight goes down, you'll need to reduce calories even more to keep losing. The way you're eating now, you're not leaving any room to do this. At over 400 pounds, you will have more success doing this slow, steady, gently and above all in a way that is kind to you and your body.

    Patience is really hard when you want to see the numbers on the scale go down. Weight lost slowly comes back on slowly too. (I lost about 30 kilos slowly and kept 15-25 of them off for about 6 years without dieting at ALL. This is my second phase, and I intend to lose another 10 the same way... rest a while... and then another 5... and so on.)

    So, set your goals to sedentary, and try eating the amount MFP tells you for a while. The exercise burned calories may be out, but I've spent hours going over the maths and the daily calorie requirements on MFP are actually pretty damned accurate.
  • 2013sk
    2013sk Posts: 1,318 Member
    Sounds like your doing great!!!!!!!!!!! Don't give up! Keep at it.

    I am sure your get to where you want to be! :smiley:
  • I agree with the above!

    You are doing a great job thus far - 7 pounds is nothing to scoff at. I also agree that you are probably eating way too little!

    It can definitely be difficult thinking about how long it will take to get to goal, but setting up goals along the way can help!

    To keep me on track, I participate in 5 several 5Ks during the winter, which keep me motivated.

    I also have 10 pound goals in which I can do something special when I reach the marker. I am one pound from my next goal and am debating between new running shoes or a mid summer race at the moment. But it could also be going out to a movie, buying a new video game, etc.

    Most people who do the mini goals will choose larger goals as they get closer to their final goal.
  • gabrielleelliott90
    gabrielleelliott90 Posts: 854 Member
    Tbh, you should be glad it wasn't more. More chance of gaining it back if you lose it quick.
  • Kalikel
    Kalikel Posts: 9,603 Member
    IrZeo wrote: »
    999tigger wrote: »
    The point was consistency in the key and remind yourself that it will take time to get to target.

    Pthers will be better at looking at your diary. The exercise sounds good, but the thing I noticed is you are eating very little and I would question as to whether you are going too severe. The danger of too severe is you can give up due to boredom or you binge out.

    The estimate for your mainteance calories I looked at was near 4000, so 2lbs a week would be 3000 calories a day but looking at your diary it shows you are eating between 1300-1500 calories a day and not taking into account your exercise calories. Talk to your Dr and dietician. You need to pace yourself and be patient.

    So far only my Dr is helping me with my plan, I have been referred to a 'weight management programme' at the Hospital in my city on the 12th December, so hopefully they'll help me figure it out a bit better... since I clearly suck at it so far.. I'm actually terrified I'm burning more muscle than fat because I can't really notice a whole lot of change after losing a little over 40lbs, besides one of my coats now fit a tiny bit better.
    You don't suck at it! You've lost a lot of weight! That's not sucking. :)

    It has been my experience that the longer you lose, the harder it gets. I'm not the first one to experience that and I won't be the last. Some weight loss experts will recommend losing for six months, then staying steady for a few months, then going back to losing again. Some don't. There are several schools of thought on that.

    One person here who lost like 200 pounds or something high said she stalled out for like five months. It happens.

    It's great that you're going to get advice. Don't give up. Plugging along when it doesn't come easy...that's the reason you will be so damn proud of yourself when you're done!!

    Hang in there! :)
  • njitaliana
    njitaliana Posts: 809 Member
    I'm heavy, too, and I lose about 7-8 lbs a month. I look at it that 7 lbs a month X 12 months=84 lbs in one year. That a lot! We didn't get fat overnight, so we won't get thin overnight. But, we will get there.

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  • TheSatinPumpkin
    TheSatinPumpkin Posts: 948 Member
    You are going great. Pat yourself on the back.
  • ShellyBell999
    ShellyBell999 Posts: 1,482 Member
    Congrats!! :D
    Wish I could lose 7lbs in one month :|
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