Cheat Days

courtraines
courtraines Posts: 4 Member
edited November 8 in Health and Weight Loss
Hey guys! I was wondering about cheat days and how everyone feels about them when losing weight? Do you find them helpful? If so, how often do you have them?

Thank you!

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  • thegreatcanook
    thegreatcanook Posts: 2,419 Member
    I don't really cheat, but I plan for a treat. Like, for thanksgiving, I'll log a piece of pie, some stuffing and a glass of wine and then plane rest of my calories around that. I hit my calorie goal, had a treat, and won't feel cheated! Feel free to add me for support.
  • JosieRawr
    JosieRawr Posts: 788 Member
    When tracking, I balance weekly so that gives me a bit more flexibility, but I don't think of it as cheating. Mostly I just try to ensure that my protein and micros(vitamins/minerals) are taken care of then I'm free to eat as I please, but I'm pretty good at incorporating what I want into my micro/protein goals as well. gl.
  • malibu927
    malibu927 Posts: 17,562 Member
    I don't. I fit what I want to eat into my calories.
  • NoelFigart1
    NoelFigart1 Posts: 1,276 Member
    I'm of the "plan for it and fit it in my calories" school. Though, there are a couple of major holidays where it is unlikely I will choose to do that. That's two days out of 365, though, so ...
  • 999tigger
    999tigger Posts: 5,235 Member
    You have 8lbs to go. Why would you want a cheat day to eat extra calories that would make you move further away from target? 8lbs you can lose in 2 months i.e the end is within sight.

    I tend not to have them because id rather get to target, but if I want extra calories then I have them. I also exercise a reasonable amount so that gives me a stock of eat back calories if needed. If I want extra calories i.e a break then I try and attach it to a target and use it as a reward.
  • I used to have a cheat day on weekend. However, that really interfered with my weight loss. In one of the posts here I read that if you are allowed 1500 calories a day and then you binge on a cheat day and consume 3000 calories, you are effectively eating approximately 1700 calories a day....or those additional calories you consumed, you might as well has eaten 1700 calories a day. This is why, I am trying not to have cheat days. It's hard...but I am starting with accurately logging everything even if I end up cheating one day. This helps me not to binge too much, so even if I end up eating more than I should on a cheat day, it won't be something too high like 3000 calories. The ideal scenario will be to not cheat at all and work all treats into the daily calories every day....but I'm working toward that goal.
  • courtraines
    courtraines Posts: 4 Member
    I guess my question is less of a cheat day where you eat whatever you want, but a cheat meal. Any advice there guys?
  • Branstin
    Branstin Posts: 2,320 Member
    The term "cheat days" reminds me of the term "clean eating" because it means different things to different people. I don't feel the need to cheat in order to eat. I plan for the foods of my choice and if I go over my calories, big deal!
  • Branstin
    Branstin Posts: 2,320 Member
    I guess my question is less of a cheat day where you eat whatever you want, but a cheat meal. Any advice there guys?

    Plan ahead of time and budget calories for the food you want to eat.
  • 2013sk
    2013sk Posts: 1,318 Member
    I used to have a cheat day every weekend!!! If it keeps you sane - Do it!!! If your going to go over board and crazy, and it puts you back - I say don't do it haha!!

    I would try and add the things you love & want to eat 'into your daily allowance of calories'

    Maybe try a 'cheat meal' instead of a whole day :wink:
  • SpockAdventures
    SpockAdventures Posts: 103 Member
    I exercise twice a day six days a week, and follow a very strict 1100-1200 calories a day. On day 7, I eat whatever I want and at most go for a nice leisurely walk. Week 1 I had pizza and a bacon burger. Week 2 was waffles and dessert. Week 3 I went all French and had bread, cheese and fruit, this last week was spanokopita, mini quiches and strudel for brunch and a cheesesteak sub for dinner. I have been losing weight with this built in, and it is not only a great way to satisfy my cravings, but I know that if I cheat during the week, I don't get to have that whole day of cheat. For me, it works pretty well.
  • I was also trying to lose a little weight like you and didn't want to slow my progress with cheat days but after awhile i felt like i really needed them.
    So i had my own kind of 'Cheating days',i did not go over my calories but i didn't stick to macros or healthy eating on that day. That gave me the opportunity to swap some of my calories in for cookies,a drink or whatever else i was craving that day. But it only works if you have enough calories for real foods that will keep you full,if you are on a very low cal diet you are probably going to get hungry eating like that.
  • kangaroux92
    kangaroux92 Posts: 188 Member
    i try not to think of it as cheating, and i try not to go over my calories more than 400.

    but usually i will have 1 meal per week where i indulge alittle. but i try to keep that meal under 1000 calories.

    dont go cheat the whole day and eat 3000 calories. and don't deprive yourself to much during the week. that will cause you to binge.

    i still have a cookie or piece of chocolate if i want. i just eat way less of what i want, and cut out things that are unnecessary.

    if i want a burger i will eat it with whole wheat or no bun, and i will put less cheese/ more veggies like unions, and no condiments. this way i still get what i am craving.

    moderation is key and you will find you dont need a cheat day or meal.
  • ahoy_m8
    ahoy_m8 Posts: 3,053 Member
    I wanted to lose 5 lb (maintenance), so I was going for a small daily deficit. I tried 1 "unlogged" or "cheat" day per week for 3 weeks and totally erased my deficit. Gained weight the first 3 weeks. And that was mostly overeating "healthy" stuff like nuts, cheese, fruit. It works for some people, but it all depends on how your whole week comes together. If you have 100 lb to lose and have 1000 cal daily deficit, eating at maintenance one day a week can be great. If you are lean and have a small daily deficit, incorporating treats in the weekly plan is probably more manageable. It is for me, anyway.
  • SnuggleSmacks
    SnuggleSmacks Posts: 3,731 Member
    Personally, I don't think calling food a "cheat" is a good idea. That implies it's something bad or naughty, and there's all sorts of emotions attached to that. It's just a meal. It's a meal that has more calories than your average meal. Maybe it has more fat, more sugar, more whatever than you usually eat. But it's still just a meal. Eating it won't derail or negate any progress you've made. It will only delay reaching your goal, and depending on the size of the meal, probably only by a day or two.

    Just keep in mind that when you go over your calorie allotment, that does cause a delay in achieving your goal. So obviously, you wouldn't want to do it every day. But if you think of it more in terms of "time til goal is reached" than "good" and "bad" then it's a much healthier and more rational approach.
  • jrline
    jrline Posts: 2,353 Member
    If I was craving something I ate it. I just worked out extra if it pushed me over my calories goal. I never gave up any foods I loved just extra helpings.

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  • court_alacarte
    court_alacarte Posts: 219 Member
    i find if i just have one cheat day or meal per week, it doesn't hinder my weight loss efforts (sometimes it actually helps me lose).

    however if i have a cheat weekend and beyond, i'm screwed.

    just test your body and see how it reacts when you cheat for a whole weekend, then day, then meal, etc. every body is different.
  • cstevenson86
    cstevenson86 Posts: 158 Member
    I don't have a cheat day. I have what I want to eat (within reason!), if I have the calories available. If I don't, I don't eat it. I try to maintain a healthy diet for the most part, but I sneak in cookies and pizza here and there. I don't want to deprive myself too much of what I like, or I will end up quitting because I will get frustrated. 26 pounds down so far since August using this method.
  • madamepsych0sis
    madamepsych0sis Posts: 25 Member
    I'm not really into cheat days. Maybe sometimes I'll have a bad meal, but usually turning it into a full day is a recipe for disaster!
  • BrittTomore87
    BrittTomore87 Posts: 37 Member
    I workout pretty intensely and a majority of the time I burn off all the calories I eat for a day so to make sure I don't start to like harm my body by never really eating I don't count my calories 1-2 days a week. I've still been able to lose 1 lb a week so I don't find cheat meals a big deal. But for Holidays and stuff I would never even think of logging my calories because then I'd feel guilty instead of thankful to be around family. Counting calories and cheat days are different for everyone. I think you should just do whatever you'd be comfortable with
  • KBurkhardt08
    KBurkhardt08 Posts: 141 Member
    I know this is kind of late but I actually was asking people about this this weekend because I just recently started a "diet" but having to stick to that started driving me crazy. So I've decided that one cheat day on a weekend is fine. You can either log it or not. Then you have something to look forward to. You seem pretty young...I'm 23. Theres no reason to cut yourself off and not allow the things you enjoy. I like sweets and alcohol so Saturday will be the day that I can have whatever I want. I've talked to a lot of people and all of them have still gotten to their goal weight when having a cheat day. I say whatever is going to make you happy.
  • SteveMFP123
    SteveMFP123 Posts: 298 Member
    I don't really cheat, but I plan for a treat. Like, for thanksgiving, I'll log a piece of pie, some stuffing and a glass of wine and then plane rest of my calories around that. I hit my calorie goal, had a treat, and won't feel cheated! Feel free to add me for support.

    That's exactly what I do, if I really fancy a treat I will work it into my calories by having smaller meals throughout the day. I haven't gone over once in 6 months by doing this. Christmas will be the first day I go over, I've already logged a rough estimate for that day and I'll hit my maitanance calories instead of my 2lbs loss calories which I'm honestly fine with.
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    cheating implies that you are doing something bad ….so I don't cheat..I just eat whatever I want and fit it into my calorie and macro goal for the day …if I go over on cals every now and then, then it is no big deal ...
  • ryanmt80
    ryanmt80 Posts: 5 Member
    Me personally I do, because it gives me something to work towards. I do have a couple of rules though. I make sure that what I eat I can log in MFP, and the 2nd rule I have for myself is I have to get a normal workout (usually cardio) in before I can have any kind of cheat meals. I have found this approach has helped me and it's amazing that my tastes are actually changing and my meals are not as terrible as they first were when I was "cheating". :)
  • timpaton1
    timpaton1 Posts: 4 Member
    I "earn" my cheat days.

    I know there's a debate about whether or not it's a good idea to eat back exercise. But I'm a cyclist - and fairly fit at that - which makes it relatively easy to burn an awful lot of energy if I make the time to go for a solid couple of hours ride.

    My normal daily target is about 7000 kJ (~1700 cal; sorry, I'm an engineer, I can't think in medieval units :-P ). I've gotten used to eating that kind of energy intake since I stated counting calories (in August), and come in a bit under target most days.

    A couple of days a week, I go out for an hour on the bike before the family wakes up, and earn an extra ~4000 kJ (1000 cal). I use a power meter, so I have reasonable confidence in the numbers. That's a significant proportion of my daily feed. I can get by pretty easily without eating anything extra... or I can splurge a bit - which feels like a cheat - and still come in well under my corrected target. Even allowing myself to eat half of that back feels like a massive treat.

    Weekend rides are even better. A couple of hours out with the bunch on a Saturday morning can earn me an extra ~8000 kJ (2000 cal) or more. More than a normal day's eating. Now, I'm not going to say it's impossible to eat that back (I know we've all been there), but it takes some dedicated gluttony :-D. So there's a few guilt-free cheats enjoyed on a Saturday afternoon, without coming close to my energy target.

    I think the key is the sporadic nature of my exercise. A normal 7000 kJ day is still normal. If I did a ride every day, or even most days, then >10,000 kJ/day would my normal eating pattern and it wouldn't feel special. But since it's only a couple of times a week, it still works as a special occasion and can be a treat. "Hey, I've got 2000 kJ left today... what the hell, I'll have a 600 kJ beer after dinner. Hehe. Losing weight, eh?".

    If there's a party or some other event planned, I can prepare for it by doing an extra morning bunch ride. Or by just doing my normal amount of riding, eating normally and saving up the energy credits.

    This approach may not work for everyone, but I've dropped 8kg (~16#) since I started counting, in August. That was all about making my energy intake on normal days more realistic, learning what a sensible everyday diet looks and feels like. Something I spent 39 years doing wrong.

    I thoroughly recommend being fit enough to ride a bike hard for a long time. It's a stunningly efficient way to burn a heap of energy ;-)
  • kittkat100
    kittkat100 Posts: 19
    edited December 2014
    I work on a weekly average instead of daily. If I have a cheat day I just burn it off/eat less the next. It keeps me sane but lets me lose. My TDEE score is low, only 1440. I would go crazy trying to lose or maintain weight without having higher calorie intake days sometimes. It sucks I have to sacrifice other days to balance, but it has become routine for me.
  • GaleHawkins
    GaleHawkins Posts: 8,159 Member
    Hey guys! I was wondering about cheat days and how everyone feels about them when losing weight? Do you find them helpful? If so, how often do you have them?

    Thank you!

    I tried it once one evening. Gained 6 pounds and took 8 days to deflate. I now call it Fat Week so I never try it again. :(

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