Tips for cutting portion size?

grandlinegirl
grandlinegirl Posts: 49 Member
edited November 9 in Health and Weight Loss
Hi everyone,

I'm giving this weight loss thing another try. I lost 40lbs last time and then got injured and went back to my old ways. The injury still bothers me, but I've joined a gym with a pool and I'm super excited!

My biggest problem is portion sizes. I eat A LOT. For example, if we get pizza, I'll eat 7-8 slices easily. If we have pasta (my biggest weakness) I'll have 2 heaping bowls. Even with a chicken meal, I'll have 2 chicken breasts...

How do I start cutting back? I've tried before, using proper portion sizes, but that left me super hungry and I ended up snacking to fill myself up. I've tried eating 3 regular meals with a small snack in between but it doesn't work. I'm always hungry :(

If you guys could give me tips, I'd really appreciate it. Thanks!
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  • tulips_and_tea
    tulips_and_tea Posts: 5,744 Member
    edited January 2015
    Is it actual hunger or is it habit? I had a similar issue years ago. I realized, for example, out of HABIT I would order 2 bean burritos from Taco Bell (this was way back in my teenage years) or I would automatically have a bowl of pasta and 2 slices of garlic bread, etc. Once I cut back I realized I had no need for 2 of most things, it was simply habit.

    In your case, if it IS in fact hunger, then I'd focus on higher quality, more nutrient dense food if possible. And, this is NOT for everyone, but going low carb was a life changer for me. No more cravings of any sort.

    There are plenty of other methods, but you need to find what works for you.
  • tulips_and_tea
    tulips_and_tea Posts: 5,744 Member
    Hmmm, sorry about the all italics. Don't know how that happened.
  • Laurend224
    Laurend224 Posts: 1,748 Member
    Start logging at your current intake level. Maybe if you see it on screen it will motivate you to change. It takes a little bit to get used to the reduced food, yes. But you do get used to it. Ultimately, you just have to decide in your head that you aren't going to overeat and do it. Find a hobby, go for a walk, brush your teeth, drink some water.
  • DaveTimeKeeper
    DaveTimeKeeper Posts: 103 Member
    I used to be anorexic and still have some of the tendencies, cutting back portions was always easy for me, I still break up my meals the same as I used to usually only bigger.
    you might try making a certain weight of food a goal, or counting how many of something you eat. having something low calorie you can munch through the day helps also,
    you might make the ideal small meal, make sure to drink water before and during the meal, have water on hand all through the day and some filling snack like carrots or celery.
    the first few days might be hard, but once you start seeing results you will be encouraged to continue, and your body will also get used to less. my mom lost 45lb this way with method.
    I don't know if this will help but I hope it does.
  • markiend
    markiend Posts: 461 Member
    smaller plates and don't trust your eyes
  • MummyKate85
    MummyKate85 Posts: 154 Member
    I bought myself a smaller plate and bowl. That way I can have smaller portions but still feel like I have got a full plate full of food, if that makes sense? Also I just gradually reduced my portion sizes rather than straight away cutting my portions in half.
  • grandlinegirl
    grandlinegirl Posts: 49 Member
    BZAH10 wrote: »
    Is it actual hunger or is it habit? I had a similar issue years ago. I realized, for example, out of HABIT I would order 2 bean burritos from Taco Bell (this was way back in my teenage years) or I would automatically have a bowl of pasta and 2 slices of garlic bread, etc. Once I cut back I realized I had no need for 2 of most things, it was simply habit.

    In your case, if it IS in fact hunger, then I'd focus on higher quality, more nutrient dense food if possible. And, this is NOT for everyone, but going low carb was a life changer for me. No more cravings of any sort.

    There are plenty of other methods, but you need to find what works for you.

    Honestly, I'm not sure. I think it's a mixture of both. I'm just used to eating so much so I feel like I need more even after I finish eating. Lately, after I finish dinner I've been eating an apple just to fill myself up a bit more without feeling insanely guilty...
  • amylynn82784
    amylynn82784 Posts: 26 Member
    Use a small plate and weigh/measure everything. You would be surprised how much of something you are eating.
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  • Buying a food scale will help a ton and eating your food much slower (50 chews per bite) will help make you feel fuller faster!
  • grandlinegirl
    grandlinegirl Posts: 49 Member
    The small plate/bowl idea sounds good. Trucking yourself by seeing a full plate. I'm going to try that!
  • VeryKatie
    VeryKatie Posts: 5,961 Member
    edited January 2015
    You could also do a gradual decrease - so if you have 2 bowls or chicken breasts, cut to 1.5 instead, then down to one. It takes time for your stomach to shrink. I always find I'm hungrier the next day if I ate a LOT the day before (my theory is a stretched out stomach!).
  • I am also utilizing portion control as part of my weight management changes for 2015. I am making a conscious effort to use smaller plates and if I feel myself putting 2 scoops of pasta in the bowl....I only take 1. It's been rough for these first couple of days; but I feel it getting easier.

    Good luck...I hope you find what works best for you!!
  • sharifit53
    sharifit53 Posts: 54 Member
    When I did a medically supervised weight loss program they had a list of things we could eat unlimited quantities of. It was basically fruits and vegetables but we had to eat AT LEAST 5 cups per day and more if we were still hungry. So, have your pasta, after you have had a cup or two of a vegetable. Eat an apple or even two before you are going to have pizza.
  • VeryKatie
    VeryKatie Posts: 5,961 Member
    BZAH10 wrote: »
    Is it actual hunger or is it habit? I had a similar issue years ago. I realized, for example, out of HABIT I would order 2 bean burritos from Taco Bell (this was way back in my teenage years) or I would automatically have a bowl of pasta and 2 slices of garlic bread, etc. Once I cut back I realized I had no need for 2 of most things, it was simply habit.

    In your case, if it IS in fact hunger, then I'd focus on higher quality, more nutrient dense food if possible. And, this is NOT for everyone, but going low carb was a life changer for me. No more cravings of any sort.

    There are plenty of other methods, but you need to find what works for you.

    Honestly, I'm not sure. I think it's a mixture of both. I'm just used to eating so much so I feel like I need more even after I finish eating. Lately, after I finish dinner I've been eating an apple just to fill myself up a bit more without feeling insanely guilty...

    This is actually really good too! Raw veggies and fruits are great ways to fill space and it takes time to eat them too, which sometimes is what your body needs to realize it's ok without more food.
  • angelfish257
    angelfish257 Posts: 81 Member
    weigh everything! You will be surprised how much you over/under estimate what a 'portion' is. Reading more labels can be educational to - a so-called recommended serving size can differ a great deal from what you feel a standard portion size should be
  • SuggaD
    SuggaD Posts: 1,369 Member
    I eat a lot. But because I eat a ton of veggies and lean proteins, I can eat a lot and maintain my low weight. When I want a pizza, I want the whole pie. So I wait to have my pizza on Fridays before a long or tough ride where I know I will burn it up. Not only do I get to enjoy my entire pizza, I ride like a beast the next day due to the carbo load.
  • kyta32
    kyta32 Posts: 670 Member
    Make sure you are getting enough protein. MFP recommendation may be too low. Try for .8 g/kg of body weight. Some people are more satisfied if they include protein in every meal and snack.

    Make sure to include enough fiber. This can help with satisfaction. Beans are high fiber, as are green leafy vegetables, among others. 25g fiber minimum/day is good, or 15 g/1000 calories eaten. Increase fiber gradually so it doesn't get your digestive system upset.

    Look at proportions as well as portions. Try to get half your food from fruits/veggies:
    http://www.hsph.harvard.edu/nutritionsource/healthy-eating-plate/

    Try to have a glass of water with meals. Sometimes hunger is actually thirst.

    I prefer to make my own meals. That way I have better control over things like sodium, fat, and sugar content. I am often able to make the same meal as I would eat at a restaurant, except with less fat and sodium and fewer calories.

    Pizza tends to be high in calories. You can try making your own at home, with less cheese, using a thin crust pita, and a tablespoon of tomato sauce (or tomato paste with seasonings sprinkled on). Chose healthy toppings, and eat with a salad so it is more filling.

    Pasta is high in calories. I make a ragu at home, but I find that to fit my calorie goals I can only have about 21 g pasta with it (about 21 whole wheat rotini).

    Don't try to restrict calories too much. If you are really hungry, gradually reduce calories. Try only going down 100 calories from maintenance a day, to give your body a chance to adjust. Slower weight loss that is maintained is better than a high deficit that is given up early on.

    You can earn calories from exercise. MFP may overestimate the burn, so many posters recommend only eating back about half the calories. Exercise can make you less hungry, and intense exercise may more effectively depress appetite.

    Try to ensure you are getting enough micronutrients (i.e. iron, calcium.) Nutrient deficits can lead to strange cravings, but can be avoided with a varied diet.

    Sometimes you wil be hungry during a diet, particularly duing the first few days, or after a cheat day (or during hormone fluctuations ;) ). You may end up having to live with the hunger for a bit. Try to distract yourself, stay active, focus on the reason you are losing weight (i.e. for health, so you will be there for your family), have some water, wait 15 minutes, talk to a friend, or whatever coping strategy you can come up with. The hunger should subside after a day or two.

    Just try one small change at a time, and give yourself a few weeks for it to "lock in" if it is working.

    If you try everything and nothing works, speak to your Dr. or a dietician for advice.

    Good luck :)
  • AllOutof_Bubblegum
    AllOutof_Bubblegum Posts: 3,646 Member
    edited January 2015
    7-8 slices? You realize an entire pizza only HAS 8 slices, yes? Don't get me wrong, I can for sure put away the groceries myself, but I just can't see how, physically and/or spatially, you could make that work. Unless you are eating very slowly, over the course of an entire evening, maybe?

    Whatever, that's not important, I guess. What I find helpful is to put away half my meal before I even start eating it. When I order at a restaurant, I ask them to box up half the entree before bringing it to me. You can easily trick yourself into thinking you're still hungry, just by there being food still on your plate. Circumvent that by showing your brain that there is only so much food there, and once it's gone, that's it. When that happens, you become psychologically satisfied, even when you are used to being physically satisfied with more, and it becomes a hell of a lot easier to push back from the table and say "enough for now".

    A plus side to this is lots of leftovers for future meals, so essentially you're cutting the price of all your favorite food in half. What's not to win?
  • gamesandgains
    gamesandgains Posts: 640 Member
    I'd suggest trying finding foods that have lots of volume for not as many calories ie vegetables, egg whites etc.. eat a meal filled with voluminous foods then maybe you may not be as hungry when eating your preferred foods which should be in moderation anyway.
  • sweetilemon
    sweetilemon Posts: 122 Member
    If you have 2 bowls of pasta, why not try 1 pasta bowl & one salad bowl. Might still give you that 'full' feeling with less calories and more nutritious. Pizza the same, try eating with salad, however I do agree it's hard not to eat a full one!
  • TTHdred
    TTHdred Posts: 380 Member
    You have a great suggestions so far on the portion sizes; smaller plates, food scale, measuring etc. To help with the “I still feel hungry” I suggest more filling snacks. Two snacks in between may not be enough. I snack ALL day. Bananas, things with tons of fiber like low sugar fruits, mixed nuts, hard boiled eggs (provide no cholesterol concerns), KIND bars and oatmeal all very helpful.

    As another person posted, it is a little bit of habit too. Knowing the difference between feeling stuffed and feeling full and accepting a full (but not stuffed) feeling. I found that those foods listed really help keeping me feeling full all day and I slowly no longer felt the need to overdo my portions at my meals.

    My last point, dehydration can sometimes manifest itself in feeling hungry especially if you are new to eating healthy. Often we feel hungry when we are actually dehydrated so (and you have probably heard this a million times) start filling up good old water. Takes time….you will get there.
  • obscuremusicreference
    obscuremusicreference Posts: 1,320 Member
    The weighing/logging/slowly decreasing/filling up on veggies are all good tips. I used to always go back for seconds, but I now leave the table, clean the kitchen, and tell myself I'll get more later if I'm still hungry. (I have only rarely gone back and gotten more.)

    I will tell you that I notice that when I eat pasta, I want to keep eating pasta and everything else that night. I've had to cut way down--once or twice a month. You may not have this issue, but it's a trouble spot for me.
  • VeryKatie
    VeryKatie Posts: 5,961 Member
    TTHdred wrote: »
    You have a great suggestions so far on the portion sizes; smaller plates, food scale, measuring etc. To help with the “I still feel hungry” I suggest more filling snacks. Two snacks in between may not be enough. I snack ALL day. Bananas, things with tons of fiber like low sugar fruits, mixed nuts, hard boiled eggs (provide no cholesterol concerns), KIND bars and oatmeal all very helpful.

    As another person posted, it is a little bit of habit too. Knowing the difference between feeling stuffed and feeling full and accepting a full (but not stuffed) feeling. I found that those foods listed really help keeping me feeling full all day and I slowly no longer felt the need to overdo my portions at my meals.

    My last point, dehydration can sometimes manifest itself in feeling hungry especially if you are new to eating healthy. Often we feel hungry when we are actually dehydrated so (and you have probably heard this a million times) start filling up good old water. Takes time….you will get there.

    I've heard some cravings for sweet things can actually indicate thirst as well.
  • marinabreeze
    marinabreeze Posts: 141 Member
    For me, what worked was a combination of tracking and modifying my food choices.

    When I started tracking what I was actually eating, it gave me a better understanding of what I was eating, and that led me to looking into what might be better choices. I am not on a low carb diet, but I now tend to lean more towards meat and veggies than sugars and breads because it's a better bang for my buck hunger-wise - I tend to feel fuller on meat and veggies than on carbs.

    Drinking water also helps. And I have to second the person who mentioned habits. I can sympathize with the feeling of having to order a lot of food and feeling hungry for it. But as I started eating differently, I realized that it was more of a habit than necessity, and cutting what I order (and eating at home more often) has helped curb this tendency.
  • tlblake84
    tlblake84 Posts: 48 Member
    Drink a full glass of water before dinner. That way you fill up quicker, then also eat slower. Your body probably isn't as hungry as its telling you. Drink more water and slow down, and likely you'll get "full" signals after 1-3 slices of pizza. If you get a side salad with anything, eat it first.
  • wrecktechno
    wrecktechno Posts: 145 Member
    Eat slower. Put your knife and fork down after EVERY bite. Chew thoroughly then when you've swallowed, pick up your knife and fork. Don't be distracted when you eat, properly think about the food you are eating so you're not mindlessly devouring food.

    Have a full glass of water before you eat anything.
  • meritage4
    meritage4 Posts: 1,441 Member
    If you are the cook-then cook less. Only have 1 cooked chicken breast available for yourself.
    And as others have said eat lots of salad and vegetables. fill up on those.
  • ultimatekatie
    ultimatekatie Posts: 12 Member
    Tl;dr: Increase protein and veggies, and savor food rather than wolfing it down.

    The long version:

    I had this same problem all throughout college. It took awhile to realize that while I typically ate healthy foods, my actual habits of *eating* were not healthful. Here's all the things I found that helped me break those bad habits:

    - Eat as much protein and veggies as you can. Protein keeps you satiated longer, and veggies help you feel "fuller" without overdoing it on calories.

    - Dish out your plate or bowl and physically leave the kitchen to eat elsewhere. There's psychology to being satisfied with eating as much as you have in front of you, and if you have the proper portion and not more on your plate it will help.
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    - Eat slowly and "check in" with your tummy occasionally to give your body time to realize it's being fed and turn off ravenous hunger signals. (I.e. savor your food and don't mindlessly eat.) It can take up to 20 minutes for your stomach to tell your brain it's full - so if you finish your plate, read another chapter/finish the episode you're watching/whatever else before going back for more. 90% of the time if I give myself 15 minutes to let everything settle, I realize I'm not actually hungry for seconds.
    - -The same applies for eating in-between meals, in my book: if you finish dinner and are getting a little hungry again later, there's nothing wrong with a pre-bedtime snack; just eat mindfully and slowly so that you don't overdo it before realizing that you're full.

    - One of the biggest things for me was re-adjusting my mindset of what "full" meant. This actually happened because I had late evening practices for my sports team. If I ate until I was "full," meaning "STUFFED," then sprinting up and down the field was absolutely *dreadful* because I had a giant food-baby. So I started paying attention to when I felt "full" meaning "SATIATED" - and I stopped eating when I was no longer hungry, rather than when I was actually "FULL" full. (If you know what I mean :smile:). Now I feel "full" when I am no longer hungry, vs still feeling hungry if I am not completely stuffed and having to unbutton my jeans.
  • andrejjorje
    andrejjorje Posts: 497 Member

    +1 to this. Not easy to do though.

    - One of the biggest things for me was re-adjusting my mindset of what "full" meant. This actually happened because I had late evening practices for my sports team. If I ate until I was "full," meaning "STUFFED," then sprinting up and down the field was absolutely *dreadful* because I had a giant food-baby. So I started paying attention to when I felt "full" meaning "SATIATED" - and I stopped eating when I was no longer hungry, rather than when I was actually "FULL" full. (If you know what I mean :smile:). Now I feel "full" when I am no longer hungry, vs still feeling hungry if I am not completely stuffed and having to unbutton my jeans.
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