Personality or looks?

jeremyrby
jeremyrby Posts: 21
edited November 10 in Chit-Chat
Which is more appealing? Personality or looks?
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  • lsgibbs83
    lsgibbs83 Posts: 254 Member
    Both
  • 4ever420
    4ever420 Posts: 4,088 Member
    Both but personality trumps
  • bossejo
    bossejo Posts: 43 Member
    Both!!! One can't go without the other
  • JackKopCh
    JackKopCh Posts: 8,042 Member
    Personality for sure! I pretty much usually think everyone is cute or attractive in some way but the way we'd get along would be the decider...
  • JP_909
    JP_909 Posts: 816 Member
    You need an attraction in the beginning but then its personality
  • jeremyrby
    jeremyrby Posts: 21
    So I'm thinking of dating this girl but she's not crazy attractive 5/10 maybe, but she makes me laugh and smile beyond belief. Just debating on the attraction part
  • ItsMeGee3
    ItsMeGee3 Posts: 13,254 Member
    Personality
  • Sweetsluv
    Sweetsluv Posts: 2,260 Member
    In all honesty looks have to play a part in the initial draw, but a bad personality can make the best looking person ugly sooner or later. On the other hand, the more you like someone's personality, the more physically attractive they become.
  • bossejo
    bossejo Posts: 43 Member
    Totally agree with sweets luv. .... but if u have to think about it...maybe it's not the right person or maybe you should wait longer before you commit to anything cause then.itll be too late and finally if it's not the right one you'd be loosing a friend?
  • jeremyrby
    jeremyrby Posts: 21
    Very good point... Perhaps I should just buy a hamster and watch it roll around in a ball. Seems safer than dating decisions :)
  • fredgiblet
    fredgiblet Posts: 241 Member
    Looks catch the eye, personality seals the deal.
  • FitMom136
    FitMom136 Posts: 720 Member
    Both
  • FatFreeFrolicking
    FatFreeFrolicking Posts: 4,252 Member
    jeremyrby wrote: »
    So I'm thinking of dating this girl but she's not crazy attractive 5/10 maybe, but she makes me laugh and smile beyond belief. Just debating on the attraction part

    Looks will only get you so far. Personality is what keeps you interested.
  • ambiences
    ambiences Posts: 65 Member
    personality is most appealing, however looks do play a role in the selection process
  • zyxst
    zyxst Posts: 9,149 Member
    fredgiblet wrote: »
    Looks catch the eye, personality seals the deal.
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  • 530roman
    530roman Posts: 1,819 Member
    Personality is the only thing that gives me a shot, so I'm going with that!
  • bossejo
    bossejo Posts: 43 Member
    jeremyrby wrote: »
    Very good point... Perhaps I should just buy a hamster and watch it roll around in a ball. Seems safer than dating decisions :)

    Totally agree! :-p
  • FatFreeFrolicking
    FatFreeFrolicking Posts: 4,252 Member
    530roman wrote: »
    Personality is the only thing that gives me a shot, so I'm going with that!

    Be quiet, mister.
  • 530roman
    530roman Posts: 1,819 Member
    FatFreeFrolicking wrote: »
    530roman wrote: »
    Personality is the only thing that gives me a shot, so I'm going with that!

    Be quiet, mister.

    What?! Lol
  • emdeesea
    emdeesea Posts: 1,823 Member
    The best looking person in the room can suddenly lose all attractiveness to me as soon as they open their mouth and nothing but ugly and/or stupid comes out.

    So I vote for personality. Intelligence and sense of humor comes in a close second and third.
  • maeld51
    maeld51 Posts: 3,415 Member
    Personality all the way!
  • fat2strongbeth
    fat2strongbeth Posts: 735 Member
    An amazing personality can make an average person look great!
  • FatFreeFrolicking
    FatFreeFrolicking Posts: 4,252 Member
    530roman wrote: »
    FatFreeFrolicking wrote: »
    530roman wrote: »
    Personality is the only thing that gives me a shot, so I'm going with that!

    Be quiet, mister.

    What?! Lol

    You know what.
  • jeremyrby
    jeremyrby Posts: 21
    bossejo wrote: »
    jeremyrby wrote: »
    Very good point... Perhaps I should just buy a hamster and watch it roll around in a ball. Seems safer than dating decisions :)

    Totally agree! :-p

    Just left pet smart, I was a fool to think a lady could steal this cute hamster face from me lol
  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    Both. First thing that caught my eye about my S.O. were his lips, then his gorgeous eyes.
    -swooooon-
    We've got a similar grouchy personality, so it's all good in both departments LOL.
  • jeremyrby
    jeremyrby Posts: 21
    Personality wins :) it's about time my ability to juggle M&M's came into use
  • BlueEyedRedhead
    BlueEyedRedhead Posts: 5,169 Member
    Personality is more important. I think you should give her a chance... you might find she grows more beautiful in your eyes, the more you get to know her... she already makes you laugh and smile. :D
  • _JustDG_
    _JustDG_ Posts: 1,584
    jeremyrby wrote: »
    So I'm thinking of dating this girl but she's not crazy attractive 5/10 maybe, but she makes me laugh and smile beyond belief. Just debating on the attraction part

    *wonders if anyone has ever said that about her...*

    In my opinion both matter but personality matters more.
  • jyogit
    jyogit Posts: 280 Member
    its all good saying personality wins but ..when youre choosing from a catalogue u have no idea how it works ..so even underhandedly looks is the thing that initiates anything surely? ..
  • blackcrossknight
    blackcrossknight Posts: 26 Member
    As a white female with blue eyes and blonde hair of 5'7, I would tell you my preference is of a fair skinned American man of blonde hair, blue eyes and slightly taller than me; maybe 5'10 and some abs/ muscle, why not.
    However, my current interest is in that of a fair skinned Greek man who is an inch shorter than me, while my ex was an Indian female who was five foot with a medium complexion, and he before her, was a black American of darker complexion; six foot. One had some abs, the other was a bit tubby, the other is slim with no muscle mass at all. Not really people I would look at and fawn over if hadn't been friends with them first, and know their personalities. I can't remember having ever found someone I've got along well with within my preference, and these people all had amazing minds that drug me in, as well as personalities that played well with mine. It will always be personality/mind material that gets me before anything else.
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