Rant! So angry!

Lpfeifer419
Lpfeifer419 Posts: 82
edited September 27 in Motivation and Support
I REALLY need to let this out...

I am totally sick of 99%of the people in the city I live in. To put it in perspective, I live in rural Wisconsin and quite a large percentage of the population is overweight. My husband and I are obese and are taking active steps to change that. My husband has started biking to work and I walk quite frequently. Together, we will ride the local trails and hope to soon make it our primary mode of transportation in town.

But what I can't stand are the hecklers/starers/mean/rude people. When ride in town, we will mostly ride on the right side of the road in order to respect the few people who do walk on the sidewalks. I have always been taught (and the laws in the city state) that I should be in the road. We don't slow anyone down (like I said, we ride on the right side, very close to the curb), but yet we get stares or yelled at to "get on the sidewalk." My husband has reported to me that he gets heckled when riding to and from work.

I had it tonight. :explode: Some punk teenage boys decided to give me a hard time after I busted my butt riding for close to an hour. I am just so angry on how this town is so anti-fitness!

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  • ChunkyMonkey207
    ChunkyMonkey207 Posts: 96 Member
    Sorry to hear that! In NC,It's illegal to ride a bike on a sidewalk..Quite a few of our roads have bike lanes.Keep up the great work,and dont let them get to you!! Have a wonderful weekend!
    ~Amanda
  • loriehawkins1990
    loriehawkins1990 Posts: 4 Member
    Keep up the great effort! You will win in the end! It does seem that people just dont practice manners much these days ...unfortunately...
  • khodges15
    khodges15 Posts: 114
    Dont let it bring you down girlfriend, cause you are doing better than they are! Keep it up. I applaude you and your husband for taking such steps as riding bikes to work! You both are awesome!
  • yumster70
    yumster70 Posts: 23 Member
    Dont listen to them..they are just ignorant! You are trying to live a healthy life and they are living stupidly by being so damn rude. Keep up the good job! More people should try to bike to work if they can! Being green is also a good thing!:flowerforyou:
  • Kimbie500
    Kimbie500 Posts: 388 Member
    So sorry you are having this experience! I also got heckled by some teenagers while biking and all I could think was, "How would they feel if their mom or sister were treated that way?" :mad: but of course there was no way to catch them to ask. Keep your chin up and know that you are making positive changes in your life - regardless of the boobs that live around you!
  • skygoddess86
    skygoddess86 Posts: 487 Member
    Well that is a drag. Misery loves company and you guys are on the rode to happiness so you may get targeted. Maybe find some like minded folk, even if you have to search them out. Several years ago I visited Boulder CO and wow that town was designed to be a bike riders dream. My town has a lot of bikers so we are pretty well tolerated. Try to hold your head high and keep pedaling! You guys are awesome!
  • sspayne35
    sspayne35 Posts: 13 Member
    Enjoy the fresh air and all that is around you! They are just jealous! You are doing this for YOU and it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks! Congrats on the 31lbs! That is awesome!
  • Cella30
    Cella30 Posts: 539 Member
    What is it with the punk teenagers? I went for a bike ride last night after a horrible day at work only to have a group of these hoodrats throw fireworks at me. I am a timid person by nature but I swear on all that is holy, I almost biked them down to punch their teeth out. :explode:
  • chrissym78
    chrissym78 Posts: 628 Member
    I live in rural WV and it's much the same here. It stinks!! I jog on our little 2 lane road all the time and get the same kind of nonsense! So annoying!
  • Lpfeifer419
    Lpfeifer419 Posts: 82
    Enjoy the fresh air and all that is around you! They are just jealous! You are doing this for YOU and it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks! Congrats on the 31lbs! That is awesome!

    Thank you so much! Thank you's all around for the kind words!
  • HaleyAlli
    HaleyAlli Posts: 911 Member
    Ugh, that's horrible!! But don't let them get you down, keep moving!!
  • kayemme
    kayemme Posts: 1,782 Member
    i have people honk and yell all the time. i just ignore it. they'll be hit hardest when gas prices force them i bike. i just think to myself, "keep it classy, providence!" or 'it takes a small penis to yell from a car at someone walking or on a bike."

    i ride with my ipod now so i don't get startled.

    oh, and where i live, it's actually more dangerous to ride on the sidewalk because people aren't expecting vehcles there and there are a lot of blind driveways, so people pull out the driveway and have enough time to stop for a pedestrian, but because bikes are so much faster, they are more likely to be hit by a car looking to exit.

    my advice is to ride further into the street and make them wait.
  • Where in Wisconsin? i used to work on the border of MN and WI and i can tell you that parts are similar, but fitness was a definite divider between the states...
  • DonaGail
    DonaGail Posts: 190 Member
    The last time I rode a bike, and it was an attempt to get in shape, I was taunted by a car full of jerks.It hurt me so much and I was just mortified.
    I never rode again and put my bike out on the tree lawn for the trash collection.
    This was 20 years ago.
    Please dont do that.
    I would never let that get to me now, but back then I was 'tender'.
    Jerks will yell at anyone, old folks who cant move any faster, disabled people...anyone they feel superior to.
    Its what they do to make themselves feel better and to show how bold they can be
    to impress their idiot friends.
    I get comments while Im working in my front yard (on a main road) now I just shake my *kitten* at them!
    I think, well, Im bettering myself and the neighborhood-youre just a waste of gas, keep moving.

    Be proud that you are doing something so good for yourself and the environment!
    ....and good luck!
    Dona
  • jessicajoy87
    jessicajoy87 Posts: 905
    Its bullsh*t! When I walk I sometime get punk a- holes who think they are funny and say stupid immature crap. I live right by our community college and it happens a lot. It sucks, I feel you! But hang in there and just ignore them, its hard but if you let it get to you they win. And we don't want those losers to win! Keep your chin up!
  • You've lost 31 lbs?!?!!! Wild Applause!!!! Focus on the good in your life and learn to block the negative. It will always be there in some form. Surround yourself with like minded people that appreciate and celebrate who YOU are!!!
  • aa1440
    aa1440 Posts: 956 Member
    Please be careful. People have been assaulted by having things thrown at them while on their bikes. Here in South Carolina there was a young man that was the victim of a hit and run while he was on his bike.

    Some people are just cruel. :grumble:
  • whiskyzee
    whiskyzee Posts: 102 Member
    Water balloons? I live in a very outdoorsy/active area, but I once had a group of teenagers drive by and throw a cup of coffee at me while I was out walking my dog (I was walking on the sidewalk minding my own business!). I suppose hooligans will be hooligans. They didn't hit me, but I called the cops with their license plate anyway. By the time I walked around the corner, a trooper was writing them tickets. I waved and smiled, lol.

    I've never been bothered while running or biking, but I usually wear a Marine Corps shirt when I'm exercising.
  • Lpfeifer419
    Lpfeifer419 Posts: 82
    Please be careful. People have been assaulted by having things thrown at them while on their bikes. Here in South Carolina there was a young man that was the victim of a hit and run while he was on his bike.

    Some people are just cruel. :grumble:

    Oh trust me, I know to be careful. I am considering purchasing a small thing of pepper spray for when I walk alone.
  • sdereski
    sdereski Posts: 3,406 Member
    Don't let them get to you. It was the same where I live~I'm grateful to say, the times are a changing, or they're just used to me around here.
    I started jogging about 20 years ago to lose weight. I even had the town police come out one evening when I was running telling me I was "asking for trouble" being out there jogging. Meaning, I was inviting the comments. :explode: I was so angry.

    I continued to run & exercise. This past April I ran the Boston Marathon and the newspaper has done a couple of articles about my "success". People now say "if she can do it, so can I", which is exactly true. One day, the townsfolk where you live, will be saying the same about you and your husband. :happy:

    Keep up the great work - you are doing the best thing for your life. :flowerforyou:
  • sdereski
    sdereski Posts: 3,406 Member
    Water balloons? I live in a very outdoorsy/active area, but I once had a group of teenagers drive by and throw a cup of coffee at me while I was out walking my dog (I was walking on the sidewalk minding my own business!). I suppose hooligans will be hooligans. They didn't hit me, but I called the cops with their license plate anyway. By the time I walked around the corner, a trooper was writing them tickets. I waved and smiled, lol.

    I've never been bothered while running or biking, but I usually wear a Marine Corps shirt when I'm exercising.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: Revenge is sooooo sweet sometime. Love it! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • ruthiemat2
    ruthiemat2 Posts: 15
    Im sorry to hear that. I live in california and most people here ride in the street and the sidewalk. There are always people riding there bikes so that never happens here. I hope things get better. <3
  • Dawntodusk
    Dawntodusk Posts: 262 Member
    Call your city hall and see if there is a bikers group in town and/or any sort of advocacy for educating folks about bikers' rights. Apparently this can help change attitudes.

    I think it's great that you are making the effort. Keep it up!
  • hgellings
    hgellings Posts: 295 Member
    Yep, sounds like Wisconsin. I live in WI too, but in a smaller area so it's not to bad. Hang in there and keep on biking... you guys are doing great!!! :)
  • I come from a very small, rural Minnesota, town and I hear you. We do have a lot of walkers so I think that is more tolerated. There are people who bike for exercise on the local trail but it is almost unheard of for people to bike to work. I say Keep It Up! It is time for all the folks in Meat and Potato Land 'O 10,000 Creamers to get used to healthy habits! Nice Job!
  • kayemme
    kayemme Posts: 1,782 Member
    Please be careful. People have been assaulted by having things thrown at them while on their bikes. Here in South Carolina there was a young man that was the victim of a hit and run while he was on his bike.

    Some people are just cruel. :grumble:

    Oh trust me, I know to be careful. I am considering purchasing a small thing of pepper spray for when I walk alone.

    I wear a police whistle, too. I have found that using the whistle in lieu of turn indicators along with my arms (I would just use the arm signals, but it turns out nobody remembers what they mean - guess it's been a while since most people have ridden bikes.

    the whistle is great! sometimes i use it to "yell" at someone, like if they cut me off, take a right in front of me (because i don't exist) but mainly i use it to let people know i'm there. we have to remember that being behind the wheel puts ALL OF US in a weird position of tunnel vision. besides, there are so many other things to *do* other than drive: smoke, eat, be important on the cell phone, yell at the kids, etc... why driving is the last thing anyone does. paying attention is even further down on the list. so we have to do it for them.

    don't be afraid on your bike. you have to ride safely and aggressively. if you're too far over on the right, they may not see you. some people are *kitten*, but some people may yell and honk because you startled them; i know i yell and blow my whistle when they startle me, so i can't imagine it's all that different.

    i don't like the mindset of car drivers, but they are people and i can empathize to a point. keep yourself visible and ride as if you belonged there, because you do.
  • kayemme
    kayemme Posts: 1,782 Member
    I come from a very small, rural Minnesota, town and I hear you. We do have a lot of walkers so I think that is more tolerated. There are people who bike for exercise on the local trail but it is almost unheard of for people to bike to work. I say Keep It Up! It is time for all the folks in Meat and Potato Land 'O 10,000 Creamers to get used to healthy habits! Nice Job!

    it'll be way more popular as gas prices go up. then we won't be hearing anything except a whole lot of wheezing. :) but it's all for the best.
  • whiskey9890
    whiskey9890 Posts: 652 Member
    ah hecklers. i was very very naughty last time i encountered a group of hardcore yobs. i was cycling along a cycle/foot path and there was a group of about 10-12 teenagers drinking and walking along ahead of me i shouted ahead so they knew i was coming along but the little darlings decided it would be fun to link arms and block the entire width of the path i got closer and asked again to be let through, no joy, tried again was met with laughter and abuse, i'm not a very patient person so let them get a bit ahead, and put my foot down quite litteraly, got myself going at a nice speed and turned the little darlings into skittles, not quite a strike but i left 6 of them in a heap cursing me, to which i replied "you should have got out of the way when i politely asked you then", i confess to feeling quite smug about it but it quickly dwindled when i got a bit further a long and saw a lone runner heading towards where i last saw them. to this day i hope i didn't cause him any grief with them
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