The dreaded SCALE

ambermarygarrison777
edited November 11 in Motivation and Support
How often should I be weighing myself? I also can't seem to eat all my calories for the day, especially since this app is linked to my pacer app, so it adds more calories to eat when I exercise!

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  • shadowofender
    shadowofender Posts: 786 Member
    I'd say if the scale is causing feelings of dread, to ditch it. It's a personal choice how often. I weigh in officially once a week, but I take the fluctuations in stride and have a tracker to show me the overall trend. Measurments and pictures give a better idea than the scale, I think.

    As for eating enough calories I find that 99% ofthe time, you're underestimating your intake. Are you weighing all your food? If not, you're probably being inaccurate. What are your stats and goals?
  • SueInAz
    SueInAz Posts: 6,592 Member
    edited January 2015
    As long as you feel you're eating enough, you don't need to eat back all of the extra calories. Exceed 1200 calories and feel satisfied with what you're eating and it's enough.

    Weigh yourself as often as you feel comfortable. If the number bouncing up and down every day doesn't bother you, weigh daily. If it does, weigh weekly. Always weigh at the same time each day in the same conditions, preferably right after waking and sans clothing.

    Keep in mind that the number on the scale is simply a measurement of progress, the same as body fat %, the measurement of body parts in inches, the number of pounds one can bench press or squat, how far or fast one can run, etc. I believe that any one of these measurements should not be the end-all-and-be-all of a person's efforts to become more healthy and fit but neither should any of them be discounted. We cannot out-exercise a bad diet. Running and weight lifting doesn't make one thin but neither does getting our body fat % below a certain point make us healthy and fit.

    The simple fact is, our society places a lot of emphasis on that scale number and it's one of the easiest and most obvious ways for a person to measure "progress". The number gets smaller, progress is being made, QED. There are TV shows built around people trying to make that number go as low as possible in the fastest amount of time. I abhor those shows. I think they've done at least as much to distort people's perceptions of what weight loss should be about as the diet industry has.

    I believe that another measure of progress is when one realizes that the scale number shouldn't be the only goal or even the most important one. I spend quite a bit of my free time in here trying to help people realize just that.
  • farfromthetree
    farfromthetree Posts: 982 Member
    SueInAz has great points! I think each person has to find what works for them.

    I used to hate the scale. Until I had to get weighed at the doctors office and it forced me to see where I was. A year ago I began to weigh daily. This did a few things for me.
    ~I got to know my body really well, what would cause ups and downs
    ~I stopped fretting about the little ups
    ~Now at maintenance, I always know where I am. If I am over maintenance, I cut back until I am back on track.(it's easier to lose 2 pounds than have to start at 10)
    ~It also tells me when I can indulge a little!
    ~I became desensitized to the scale.
    ~I no longer fear gaining my weight back.
    Best of luck with whatever route you decide to take!
  • Throw the scale in the trash and eat your macros and live the dream. How much the earths gravity pulls down on you does not determine your fitness or your worth. We lose fat not weight, and we replace it with heavy sexy sleek muscle! Screw the scale and keep working hard.
  • Codilee87
    Codilee87 Posts: 509 Member
    I didn't even bother weighing myself today - I just started my period so I know I'll be holding onto extra fluids but I don't want to see how much because it will just depress me lol
  • thingal12
    thingal12 Posts: 302 Member
    :'(
  • Thank you for your quick responses!
    Thanks for all the good advice!
    I am logging EVERY single morsel that goes in my chomper!! Im eating about 800 calories a day, including my coffee and milk habit! Im living on low starch veggies, raw almonds, coffee and milk.
    I know it's not an ideal diet... Im just terrified to over eat..... Since over eating along with my wicked comfy couch got me here. I swear I went from 145 to 220 it what seems like over night! IM like how on earth did I get myself here? lol
  • Codilee87
    Codilee87 Posts: 509 Member
    Thank you for your quick responses!
    Thanks for all the good advice!
    I am logging EVERY single morsel that goes in my chomper!! Im eating about 800 calories a day, including my coffee and milk habit! Im living on low starch veggies, raw almonds, coffee and milk.

    You need more food. Don't go under 1200 calories - at least not on a regular basis. If you have one day every couple of weeks where you just don't seem able to eat thats not a big deal but consistently starving yourself is detrimental to your health and counter-productive.
  • Keep in mind Amber that by eating less than 1200 a day you're body will go into starvation mode, and every calorie going into your body will be stored as fat, making you actually bigger than if you eat the proper amount.

    It also sounds like your really lacking in the protein department. Plant or animal protein it doesn't matter, but protein adds muscle and helps burn fat. I'd say that will make a big difference in how many calories your getting in.
  • thingal12 wrote: »
    :'(
    Keep in mind Amber that by eating less than 1200 a day you're body will go into starvation mode, and every calorie going into your body will be stored as fat, making you actually bigger than if you eat the proper amount.

    It also sounds like your really lacking in the protein department. Plant or animal protein it doesn't matter, but protein adds muscle and helps burn fat. I'd say that will make a big difference in how many calories your getting in.

    That's exactly what I was worried about.. Starvation mode! Im definitely going to work on eating more protein, I was hoping almonds would be enough. Ridiculous thinking on my part. I know.. And I'm way old enough to know better!
    Any protein tips besides more meat?
  • Almonds might not be the best choice, nuts in general are high in fat (good fat, but unless your very active it will likely still be to much)

    If you don't like regular proteins at all you can always get things like whey protein which can be added to smoothies and things like that. I was having the same problem as you at first, just couldn't eat enough!

    If you scroll down to the bottom of the link there is a list of all the different proteins and how much you get for eating them. Hope that helps! http://www.musclehack.com/top-30-foods-that-build-muscle/

    And keep in mind that just by being aware of what your eating and actively trying to get healthier, you're already doing so much better than before! Be proud of yourself!
  • Hey that was an awesome informative link!!!! Cottage cheese, here I come! Lol
    I used to do the " trim healthy mama" diet and drink this awesome smoothie, it was cottage cheese, trader joes frozen berry mix, (only 5 grams of sugar per serving.) 1-2 TBS chia seeds, hand full o spinach, unsweetened almond milk and stevia for sweetness- if needed. For a snack it was 1/2 a serving of each ingredient and as a meal 1 full serving.
    Thanks for reminding me about all the many proteins BESIDES a big ol' chunk of fleshy meat!
  • Hey that was an awesome informative link!!!! Cottage cheese, here I come! Lol
    I used to do the " trim healthy mama" diet and drink this awesome smoothie, it was cottage cheese, trader joes frozen berry mix, (only 5 grams of sugar per serving.) 1-2 TBS chia seeds, hand full o spinach, unsweetened almond milk and stevia for sweetness- if needed. For a snack it was 1/2 a serving of each ingredient and as a meal 1 full serving.
    Thanks for reminding me about all the many proteins BESIDES a big ol' chunk of fleshy meat!
  • Glad you like it! I know when I first get back to watching what I eat, it feels like there are only three things I could possibly have while being reasonable, then I give up because I like food! hahaha
  • farfromthetree
    farfromthetree Posts: 982 Member
    You need to eat more.
    There is no such thing as "starvation mode", but eating too little is neither sustainable nor healthy. You will be depriving your body of too many nutrients.
    Almonds are awesome as long as you eat correct portions and log them.
  • SueInAz
    SueInAz Posts: 6,592 Member
    edited January 2015
    Keep in mind Amber that by eating less than 1200 a day you're body will go into starvation mode, and every calorie going into your body will be stored as fat, making you actually bigger than if you eat the proper amount.

    It also sounds like your really lacking in the protein department. Plant or animal protein it doesn't matter, but protein adds muscle and helps burn fat. I'd say that will make a big difference in how many calories your getting in.

    I don't how much I truly believe in the whole theory of this type of starvation mode. What is clinically referred to as "starvation mode" is actually what those who eat low carb would call "ketosis". Your body isn't getting enough carbs so it switches over to burning fat, instead of glucose, for energy. It's not a bad thing.

    However, if you constantly undereat, your body will cannibalize your lean muscle mass instead of fat. It doesn't "need" the muscle to survive and if you aren't actively working to maintain that muscle by lifting weights and eating lots of protein it will take it away. This has the effect of lowering your metabolism which makes it even more difficult to lose weight.

    Eat enough so that you're still slowly losing weight. This isn't a race. You aren't hopefully planning to hit some magic number on the scale and then go back to eating like you were eating before because you will end up right where you are now except with less muscle and a lower metabolism than before. Eat now like you're planning to eat for the rest of your life, just eat a little less so you can shed some fat. In fact, if you figured out what the calorie needs would be to maintain your goal mass and ate that way now, you'd eventually get there. It'd take longer, but you'd get there.
  • Keep in mind Amber that by eating less than 1200 a day you're body will go into starvation mode, and every calorie going into your body will be stored as fat, making you actually bigger than if you eat the proper amount.

    It also sounds like your really lacking in the protein department. Plant or animal protein it doesn't matter, but protein adds muscle and helps burn fat. I'd say that will make a big difference in how many calories your getting in.

    I net less than 1200 calories a day and have been doing that for quite a while. I find it hard, psychologically speaking, to stop doing it. I can't stop.

    But all the while, I've been packing on body fat. I've gained weight and 2 clothing sizes. It's not muscle and it's not water. It's fat.

    I don't know what to do.
  • dragyou
    dragyou Posts: 83 Member
    Not sure if this helps, but for me sometimes the scale will stay the same, but I have lost 1/2 an inch around my waist.. I do alot of strength workouts.. So maybe sometimes you loose fat but gain a muscle.. Scale stays the same, but fat comes off
  • I'd be happy for some lost inches! Time to bust out the tape measure!
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