Dating
PearBerry929
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Does anyone have any tips for getting back into the dating game? I haven't been dating much because I feel like people only judge me for my size and nothing else. (Other than straight up losing weight, because, hey! I'm doing that!) Does anyone have any ideas? What have you done? What works? What doesn't?
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Be comfortable for yourself and only yourself. The right guy will come around in no time if he sees that you are comfortable with who you are! And remember: only change for yourself, and no one else. Because in the end, you are your biggest motivation!0
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I don't date and haven't in over 12 years, problem solved, lol. If I did, I would follow Just115Pounds advice though. Anyone who doesn't like you for you isn't worth it.0
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Just115Pounds and jnv7594 gave some great advice.0
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I've dated very little since my wife passed away. However, I can say this... Don't settle, and date who makes you happy.0
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I didn't date for 4 years and just out of no where met with a long time friend and he never changed the way he saw me , even tho this time around he was like what happened he meant it in a good way, and for my luck he runs, reads and is into organic ,natural clean eating so I am blessed to say I am with a very good partner. But it doesn't take away how I feel at times or the way I look (naked) but he is supportive and always says beautiful things to me ..so yes being yourself and honestly what changes is our outer shell we remain the same and our light is even brighter. Good luck and when u don't look it appears on its own ..this was never in my plans well I thought it wasn't . lol Add me by the way I'm new to the blogs!0
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I've been in the normal weight range for almost two years, and I still don't date. Solitude becomes a habit. I suggest you shake it off now if you're lonely. Just don't date anyone who has a hangup about either your current weight or your weight loss goals.0
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Try online dating :-) I've certainly had my fair share of crap experiences, but I've met some really nice people that way, that I'm still friends with even though we didn't have a connection. Sure there are creeps, but the bright side is that you can learn to be assertive :-)0
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I have realized that we will never find happiness in someone else. We MUST be happy with ourselves and truly love being who we are. This doesn't mean we don't continue to grow when we are happy with ourselves. It means we become more enlightened and find ways to express ourselves whether it's through art, writing, singing, service, etc., since we feel we need to transfer all that energy outwards into the universe. Even if we never share our way of expressing ourselves with others, it still get radiated outward.
When someone has reached this point of awesomeness and enlightenment where they just have an overabundance of joy and happiness, they will then draw potential significant others into their life.0 -
Love finds you when you least expect it0
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I did the online dating thing to meet my husband. One thing I always did was make sure one of my photos was a full picture of me. I wanted to make sure any guy that I was talking to knew what I looked like so I didn't have to worry about whether he would accept the way I looked. It made me feel better knowing that if I did meet a guy I wasn't trying to hide my weight. It worked for me.0
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I did the online dating thing and have been dateless and celibate for two years, constantly being rejected online for not being 'hot' enough (and no, I'm not messaging hotties!) and for only being 5ft 8.
I date the gym 5-6 times a week now!0 -
I'm in the same boat as PearBerry929...I haven't really dated since my divorce...I'm just not confidant enough. These posts are really helpful0
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I recently encountered a complete psychopath on an online dating site...and this isn't the first time that's happened. So, don't invite that chaos and drama into your life. Who needs their phone being blown up with tons on phone calls and creepy nude photos at 3am??!!
Anyway - how about letting your friends know that you're 'single and ready to mingle'. Maybe they can introduce you to some nice guys
I haven't had a legit boyfriend in almost 3 years It's tough out there and sometimes I want to give up, but there's a small part of me that still has a little hope!0
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