Anyone with binge advice? (ex-bingers? is it possible to beat?) binge free partner?

I used to have problems with bingeing, food addiction, and all of the healthy unhabits that come with it. I talked to a counselor and got some more insight into the why. It took hard work and time, but I'm happy to say I've kicked the habit. Another thing that was really helpful and total eye-opener, is logging EVERYTHING you eat. Even if you binge, suck it up and log it. There's nothing like some reality to give you a good kick in the pants. Good luck, and don't give up!

I think I was dealing with BED during this year and probably further. i haven't binged in about a month since I started MFP, surprisingly. for me, it was more emotional triggers that set off my bingeing. If I was constantly anxious as per usual for last semester, I was... well, constantly bingeing. I stopped looking at fitspo and thinspo stuff and started going to the gym when I wanted to binge. Getting out of my room stopped me from bingeing, and if I was actually hungry after the gym, the damage wasn't as bad since I'd worked off some calories.
It is possible to kick bingeing, but I really can't tell you how. I don't think I've kicked it, just made it dormant. Log everything you eat and it might help to keep you on track if nothing else. But remember, your mental health is more important that a diet plan. If you can't count calories, just try and be conscious of them. Wishing you luck

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I tend to binge when I'm super stressed, at my wits end with the kids. Once it's bed time and they're tucked in- it's like all hell breaks loose. I do log it if I do and the guilt that comes afterward is almost enough to make me throw up. It's terrible.
Im going to kick this though.

Does anyone watch Adrian Bryant on you-tube? I think I first heard about him somewhere on here a couple years ago... He has some good videos to help with weightloss, etc. I just recently started doing intermittent fasting which he talks about in one of his videos, you don't even really 'fast' you just choose to eat later in the day. I found that this works for me because I can 'feast' from 6pm-10pm and sort of 'binge' eat my calories a little while before bed, I'm more of a night owl and go to bed at midnight-1am. You can change the timing to fit your schedule. It explains it well in his video or you can google it.

There was actually a recent article that popped up on here today, that is spot on. Just keep in mind dealing with binge eating is not an overnight thing. You will slip up. Assume binges will happen - don't make them this horrifying, terrible thing that make you feel like hiding away from the world that allow you to get wrapped up in guilt and shame over them. The goal is to keep the time between them longer and longer, and always be actively trying to cope with the triggers of them. http://blog.myfitnesspal.com/how-to-break-free-from-binge-eating/ is the article.

On days where I don't eat exactly how I'd prefer, I still log. It hurts, but it's also incredibly cathartic at the same time. It's like once everything is logged, it's not a binge I feel guilty over swimming around in my head. It just is. It happened - oh well, I just need to move forward from then on.

I personally keep my diary open with all my friends because it helps continue that sense of removing shame from what food goes into my mouth or the actions that led to it. If I struggled that day, I say something about it. It's always helpful to hear reminders from mfp friends that a day of mindless eating doesn't undo all my progress to date, and that they also have days where they struggle as well.

On days I do end up mindlessly eating or binging, I *actively deal with it* after the moment has passed. I don't just pretend it didn't happen. I log it. I write down what I was feeling when I did it, why I did it, what I ate, and then also deal with what I can do to make myself feel better and try to do things that soothe me(listening to music, drawing, reading, etc, whatever yours is.) Please feel free to add me as a friend if you like, I'm more than happy to talk to anyone about it, I'm still very much in recovery myself and talking to others helps me feel less alone, which is something a lot of bingers tend to feel about their issue. You aren't alone, promise.

I actually think counting calories helps fight bingeing. I have struggled with this in the past, and I am less likely to binge if I know I will be held accountable for it. Also, pre-logging your food helps, because you're more likely to just eat what you've planned, and nothing else. You can also try buying pre-portioned foods, or portion out the foods into single serving sizes as soon as you bring it home.

Lots of good advice here. I have always struggled with binge (compulsive) overeating. It's the primary reason that losing weight has always been difficult.

I've by no means solved the problem for myself, but here are some things that have helped (some of these duplicate what's already been suggested):

- Learn your triggers and avoid them. Sometimes they're emotional, sometimes they're a smell, a taste, a place, or a food. For me peanut butter is a real problem. I could easily eat half a jar.
- Be open and honest with people in your life that are important to you. That might be your spouse/partner, accountability partners, etc. There's a level of shame that goes with this and the only way to get over that is to be open about it. Even when you do fall.
- Try to log the calories. Yes, it's hard to log half a bag of Oreos and chips and Chinese and a bunch of pizza (or whatever you binge on) but try to log it. It's not in an effort to shame yourself. I think it's just best to be honest with yourself and put it down in your log.
- See if you can re-focus some of the compulsion elsewhere. For me, I got a Fitbit and focusing on the numbers that it provides has helped me. It might be equally obsessive/compulsive but it's better to be a junkie of numbers and data than it is chips and peanut butter.
- Realize that there may be other things that are making you more susceptible to binging. For a long time I was trying to restrict myself to a calorie level that was both calculated by MFP and suggested by a trainer. I was so hungry all the time. Then when I would crack, it would be really bad because I just felt like I was starving. Since getting a Fitbit I realize I burn a whole lot more calories in a day than what I estimated. Like 700-900 more daily. I realize the Fitbit isn't exact. But even if I figure the numbers to be "close" it meant that on my original number, I was eating at a 1400 calorie deficit daily, not including exercise. That's about 10,000 calories a week, or three pounds. That's just too much. Make sure you're not starving yourself and setting yourself up for binges.

I am right here with you all... the comment about peanut butter and chips and pizza are like pages out of the story of my life!

Sometimes I feel like I could use the equivalent of an AA sponsor, or an accountability buddy... someone I can text or talk when I'm about to cave in.

Maybe a fitbit or nike fuel band would help redirect the obsession.

I have a long history of binge eating, and I am very proud to say I have come out the other side. I haven't had a true binge for several years. I hear you about calorie counting, though. Calorie counting will send me into dangerous territory. Binge eating is a result of thought disorder. My brain is not "normal" when it comes to food. Too many restrictions make me want to act out and calorie counting, totally restricting certain foods, and the like are not good for me. But I have lost 120 pounds without calorie counting (except short periods). It can be done, but it requires learning how to be very honest about what are appropriate portions, snacks, and so forth. I no longer have any secret food and I force myself to admit every eating experience that I felt bad about to my husband.

Not counting calories may mean not losing weight as quickly, although slow weight loss is recommended for long term results. Also, it is so important to learn about your body and what it means to feel full, rather than simply logging food in our journal.

I try to remember that people lost weight for time immemorial before there was even knowledge about what a calorie was.

Check out the Emily Program if it is around your area.