Starting this journey

Well hello!
I'm starting this weight loss journey (again) but this time I have to stick with it!
I met my husband a little over 3 years ago and I was in the best shape I had ever been in. ( granted I have never been a super skinny girl but I was healthy) now three years later and almost 40 lbs heavier I am unhealthy. I need to get back to being healthy but as you can imagine it's rough. I'm hoping to find some support here to keep it up. I always seem to "forget" that in dieting and just eat whatever I want.
I hope I can find a few people who I can stand firm with and work our butts off! ( literally!)