Need a motivation buddy

I have a 1 1/2 year old who consumes most of my day, and when I do finally get "me" time, I just want to relax. I just moved to a new area, so I don't know anyone I can really get out with and do anything, so dancing with my daughter is about my only workout haha I was 135, and after giving birth I am a constant 183 I'm prior Military, so I know I can do it, I've just lost motivation and self esteem since birth. Anyone that wants a motivation buddy, I'm here, & I could use one also!